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- Will My Ex Want Me Back If I Do This? - by Submitted on Oct 16, 2011 from Mika MaddelaAre you trying to get your ex back into your life? Have you heard about the No Contact Rule but don't know exactly where to begin? If you're suffering from the heartache of a painful breakup, check out these common questions about the No Contact Rule. Q: I know about the No Contact Rule and ...
Views: 1834 - Proven Ways To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back - Cute Ways To Get Your Ex Back After Breakup - by Submitted on Oct 18, 2016 from Tiemo DonaldProven ways to get your ex girlfriend back; Going through a break up with your girlfriend can be both confusing and emotional. You may want to get your ex back but are not sure how to approach them because of mixed signals. Until you have those mixed signals figured out you will have to put off ...
Views: 1828 - Family Constellations: Fate Is Not Polite - by Submitted on Oct 11, 2009 from Suzi TuckerThe room is filled with people. Old, young, men, women, different styles, different postures, open curious faces, closed sceptical ones, intent, cautious, waiting. Bert Hellinger sits calmly at the front of the large, airy room, the well-known smile resting comfortably on his face. We have come ...
Views: 1826(1 vote) - Chief Phil Lane Jr ~ "The Gift of ForGIVEness" ~ by Pat Crosby - by Submitted on Mar 19, 2011 from Pat CrosbyIn this straight forward and revealing interview, Chief Phil Lane Jr shares his heartfelt journey as he learns the powerful freedom and empowerment that comes from forgiveness. In this living oral history, Phil clearly and powerful shares his trials and tribulations and victories along the ...
Views: 1821 - Letting Go of Past Relationships - by Submitted on Dec 17, 2013 from Dakota HandzlikAlmost everybody has at least one past relationship that they can't seem to let go of. There's always that one love that left under unpleasant circumstances, that one person whom you still long for. While these feelings are by no means uncommon, they can have some very adverse effects on other ...
Views: 1821(1 vote) - How to Deal with the Haunting Images After an Affair - by Submitted on Mar 11, 2011 from Andrew HunterIf your husband or boyfriend cheated on you, one of the most difficult things to deal with is the stream of haunting images that flood your mind. No matter what you do you just can’t seem to focus on anything else throughout the day besides your husband and the other woman. It is enough to ...
Views: 1818 - I Need Great Ways to Get My Girlfriend Back - This Will Make Your Ex Beg You to Take Her Back - by Submitted on Oct 14, 2012 from Patrick UadialeDid you know that there are many ways to "get my girlfriend back" you can try? Out of those many, there are a few that will work sometimes. There will be fewer still that work most of the time. When you combine some of the better methods for getting her back with a few changes in yourself you ...
Views: 1812 - Embrace the Gift of Life - by Submitted on Jul 07, 2016 from Mike RobbinsOn January 7th, 2016, my big sister, Lori Dempsey Robbins, passed away after an almost four year journey with ovarian cancer. Lori was 45 and the single mom of our 11 year old niece. She was my first friend and one of my greatest teachers. Being with her through her illness and her death ...
Views: 1811 - The Harmonising Times January 2017: Transformation - by Submitted on Feb 03, 2017 from Gregory Reece-SmithWelcome to Creating Harmony’s note of indication. As we move from the last days of 2016 and into the first days of a new cycle, you may have already begun to allow your intuition to create a vision of what you desire for 2017? All established habits, behaviours, beliefs and relationships need to ...
Views: 1808 - Beliefs & Stories (BS for short) - by Submitted on May 13, 2011 from Steve DahlWe have often heard they hurt my feelings or if that happened I would finally be happy. What someone did or what happened is just an event, it is our story about it, our beliefs about it that create our feelings. Some clarity on the difference between events and stories. Events just are ...
Views: 1805(1 vote) - How to Heal a Broken Heart - by Submitted on Mar 04, 2011 from Carna Zacharias-Miller,We all experience severe heart break at some time in our lives. For many it happens in childhood or adolescence, the time when we are most vulnerable. A cold mother, an absent father, being different in any way from our peers and ostracized for it - these are some of the reasons for the early ...
Views: 1804(2 votes) - Choose Forgiveness - by Submitted on May 14, 2012 from Maureen Brennan MercierChoose forgiveness as another jewel for self discovery. The Oxford English dictionary defines forgiveness as such: “to grant free pardon and to give up all claim on account of an offense or debt.” When we choose forgiveness we let go of resentment, anger, bitterness and vengeful thinking. We ...
Views: 1801 - How do we forgive? - by Submitted on Jun 01, 2012 from Lena ChenI received an email from a reader in my response to my last article, sharing with me a very unfortunate incident that cost her something that is very important to her, and at the end of the email, she asked me, "How do I forgive?" I choose to address this question in today's article because ...
Views: 1799 - Rev. Regina Yegge - by Submitted on Jun 10, 2008 from Regina YeggeIt is important that I forgive myself for being less then perfect as far as the physical goes. I know that I am the perfect expression of the Divine but I have, at times, made choices and acted in ways that went against that natural flow of good in my life. I forgive myself for not being the ...
Views: 1799 - When a Dog Dies - by Submitted on Dec 13, 2010 from Ann Marie O'DellJazz, my Golden Retriever, was put to sleep yesterday. Her eyes told me "let me die." She was so sick. She crossed over at home, on a beautiful spring day. The Buddhist chimes were ringing, and she was on the porch, facing ...
Views: 1799(1 vote) - How to Avoid the Most Common Problems People Make When Getting Back Their Ex - by Submitted on Dec 28, 2009 from Andrew HunterIt is actually really easy to get back with your ex after breaking up, but most people will find it very difficult due to some pretty typical mistakes that they make from the start. They typically end up harassing him with constant phone calls, e-mails, and text messages. This sort of ...
Views: 1798(1 vote) - The Useful Arabic Grammar Can Help An Individual Understand the Language - by Submitted on Nov 01, 2011 from rongfat chettWhen you are learning Arabic language, it is very necessary for you to have many language skills in some Arabic dialect. The same as other languages, Arabic language also has many different dialects which are spoken in different areas. For many English speakers, they often want to know how to ...
Views: 1796 - Dear Dr. Romance: We Still Love Each Other, but I don't know - by Submitted on Jun 27, 2013 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: i need some relationship advise really bad bad. Can you help?? I really need help, See, I cheated on my boyfriend of 4 years And he found out and forgave me! And he went out And slept with 3 girls that night is it possible for us to still work? We love each other but I ...
Views: 1795 - How To Heal a Broken Heart - by Submitted on Apr 11, 2013 from Gustavo CastanerHaving a broken heart is one of the most painful experiences in life and when it happens it seems that you will never get over it. How to heal a broken heart seems even more challenging than the actual heartbreak experience because it is prolonged and re-lived over and over again. The knot in ...
Views: 1795(3 votes) - The 4 Emotional “Paths” You can take following your Relationship Breakdown,Separation or Divorce. - by Submitted on May 04, 2011 from James RichardsonThe 4 Emotional “Paths” You can take following your Relationship Breakdown,Break Up,Separation or Divorce. Many years of experience and research at the Divorce Recovery Centre indicates that following the end of your relationship there are 4 emotional “paths” you may follow. Infact in the ...
Views: 1795 - Body Buildo Powder – No. 1 Health Supplement - by Submitted on Nov 18, 2016 from Being ChinmayToday, in our occupied lives, we frequently pass up a great opportunity the critical supplements in our eating routine. The absence of fitting supplements in our body influences wellbeing, as well as influences your appearance as well .Body Buildo is an eminent lifting weights recipe supported ...
Views: 1794(1 vote) - What Exactly Can You Say To Help Recover Your Relationship? - by Submitted on Oct 24, 2011 from Jessica FreirIf you're thinking about what exactly you could say in order to get your ex back again, then odds are you have recently experienced a break up and you are feeling the relationship should have been offered a bit more time to develop. I know that this is often an exceedingly confusing time for you ...
Views: 1792 - What Makes Forgiveness Possible? - by Submitted on Apr 03, 2011 from Daniela RoherThere are two indispensable elements that make forgiveness possible. Without them, people struggle with anger, hurt, fear and insecurity, without resolution. Let’s take the case of a couple where one partner had an affair. This scenario is not uncommon in our society, where 50% of married ...
Views: 1792(2 votes) - Forgive For Your Own Growth - by Submitted on Jun 26, 2011 from Judge JSometimes the hardest thing to do is to forgive someone. Other times the hardest thing to do is to forget. Many times the hardest thing is to do is to forgive yourself and forget. The funny thing is that forgiving and forgetting are both really important when it comes to trying to get ...
Views: 1791(1 vote) - Why Forgiveness? - by Submitted on Oct 20, 2012 from Amy Torres"Webster's Dictionary" defines forgiveness as "ceasing to feel resentment against someone who has offended us in some way." How do we cease to feel resentment towards someone we feel has harmed us -- especially if that person in no way acknowledges any wrong doing? And why would we want ...
Views: 1790(2 votes) - Feeling Hopeless about a Problem Drinker? Consider this: - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2017 from Gary DirenfeldEach year I see many people addicted to alcohol. At times they come to the session smelling of booze while still denying drinking. They play the game, “if you didn’t see me do it, it didn’t happen” as if seeing is the only sense of detection and smelling doesn’t count. I have long since ...
Views: 1789 - The Price of Love - by Submitted on Dec 18, 2012 from Susan (Teacher Su) McKenzieLament of Loss “The time we had spent with someone. The time we know, we are never going to get back.” (Muhammad Mohsan Zaki) May the Blessings Be Oh this is sad and so true - I wonder why we spend so much time hoping when the other has made it so clear that they don't want you. And yet ...
Views: 1788 - The Pause, Mindfulness - by Submitted on Aug 05, 2013 from Margo KnoxMindfulness “LOVE AFTER LOVE The time will come when, with elation, you will greet yourself arriving at your own door, in your own mirror, and each will smile at the other’s welcome, and say, sit here. Eat. You will love again the stranger who was yourself. Give wine. Give bread. Give back ...
Views: 1786 - 'No Enemy to Conquer' - a Book (Inspiring) by Michael Henderson - by Submitted on Feb 03, 2011 from Craig LockArticle Title: 'No Enemy to Conquer' - a Book (Inspiring) by Michael Henderson Submitted by Craig Lock Key words (tags): books, good books, ‘No Enemy to Forgive‘’, Michael Henderson, forgiveness, stories of forgiveness, hope, inspiration, empowerment Web sites: www.michaelhenderson.org.uk/ ...
Views: 1785 - Facing Your Fear to Allow Forgiveness - by Submitted on Oct 05, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsRecent research has supported the benefits of forgiveness, especially its health benefits through the reduction of stress and negative emotion. So why do we often hesitate to forgive? Often our resistance to forgiveness is based on fear. What do we fear about forgiveness? Some of my students ...
Views: 1784(4 votes) - What is Forgiveness? - by Submitted on Jul 01, 2013 from Kael RanschaertWhat is forgiveness? Can I really forgive all those people who cut me off, bullied me, cheated on me, talked behind my back, physically assaulted me, judged met, or made me feel significantly less than? Don't I owe it to the universe to balance the scales of justice? Shouldn't I take the ...
Views: 1782(2 votes) - Couple Challenges: The Series - Infidelity - by Submitted on Jul 06, 2009 from Mark KauppFew issues a couple may face have a more devastating impact as an affair, infidelity or cheating. Infidelity erodes the basic foundational reason the couple exists; their emotional bond. This emotional bond is substantiated by the couple's believe that they are the most important person in their ...
Views: 1771(2 votes) - Past Life Regression May Be the Key to Understanding Present Life Relationships - by Submitted on Jan 05, 2010 from Michael JuddYou may be living with someone you have lived with in a previous lifetime. Souls are drawn back together for many reasons. It could be a strong emotional connection or a Karmic debt that draws the two souls back together. On the other hand, souls may reunite to facilitate their further ...
Views: 1771(2 votes) - Anger Management: Getting back to safety - by Submitted on Jun 15, 2013 from Monty RitchingsAs a writer of personal development or self actualization articles, I find that I am often confronted with the remark: “If you know all this stuff, how come you aren’t perfect?” Believe me; I make all kinds of mistakes in my life. I am about as far from perfect as anyone else. I have my ...
Views: 1770(1 vote) - Forgive Through Compassion and Acceptance - by Submitted on Dec 01, 2011 from Mark PetroffPerhaps all of us have had an intimate partner that has said or done things to us which frankly seem unforgivable! Can you remember a circumstance where you spoke hurtful or hateful words, and later recognized that you did not really mean them? The context of your life affected the content of ...
Views: 1770(1 vote) - The Magic of Reassurance - by Submitted on Apr 20, 2013 from Tina TessinaThere are a few simple communication techniques that work like magic in relationships, whether with committed partners, friends, co-workers or relatives. One of the most effective is reassurance, which is simple to do, and calms both of you down, which allows your discussion move on without ...
Views: 1770(1 vote) - How Long Did The Pearl Harbor Battle Last? - by Submitted on Jun 17, 2013 from Terry WeberBy Terry Weber Article Word Count: 1841 I'll always remember the attack on Pearl Harbor on December 7th, 1941. Even now, seventy-two years later, I am still aware of the many ways that attack forced the "sleeping giant" that was the USA; to become today's major advocate of worldwide ...
Views: 1766 - It's Time to Forgive - by Submitted on Aug 18, 2009 from Hara TaicherThe healing power of forgiveness is like nothing you've experienced before. What most people don't understand is that when they forgive, really forgive, they actually set themselves free. It is the one who holds the pain or anger, or whatever the emotion is inside them that suffers most. The ...
Views: 1766(3 votes) - *** Remember to Extend Love to Yourself - by Submitted on Oct 22, 2009 from Daniel BenorIf you've got love in your heart, whatever you do from that moment out is likely to be right. If you've got that one true note ringing inside you, then whatever you do is going to be OK. It's love, always love. - Ken Kesey On Valentine's Day we focus on ...
Views: 1765(1 vote) - How To Have Better Relationships By Forgiving & Letting Go Of Anger - by Submitted on May 28, 2017 from Kai AshleyOne of the best pieces of relationship advice I can give is to work on your relationship with yourself first and always... Your inner world dictates what happens around you and how others react to you. The kinder your inner critic becomes, the kinder you are to your partner and everyone else ...
Views: 1765 - Forgiveness - by Submitted on Jan 08, 2012 from Womens Recreation, Inc.I always thought that forgiveness was solely on an individual basis and never really comprehended the full meaning of it all. Forgiveness comes in layers and with each layer you have to dig deep within yourself and re-live each circumstance. Each layer may take you back a few years while ...
Views: 1763 - Ghosts of the Wheat Harvest - by Submitted on Aug 05, 2011 from Dan L. HaysIn the fall of 1990, I was meeting with two other men on a regular basis to explore our dreams and aspirations. Every two weeks, we would gather at a Chinese buffet and talk for several hours about things we’d like to do some day. It was around the time of the Men’s Movement, where men went ...
Views: 1763(2 votes) - Becoming a Counselor - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2012 from Rosemary PriceBecoming a counselor - It is good to help others and it is even better if you can help them to transform their lives. To take a person who is going through an emotional torment or who is undergoing an emotional improvement in their goals or their personality. To take someone who is anxious and ...
Views: 1762 - True Forgiveness - by Submitted on Jan 07, 2011 from Pamela ArwineAt the core, everyone is God Essence, pure love and light. We are all one…individual and unique manifestations of the universal divine. We are all innately good. And, in our heart of hearts, we all desire love…to love and to be loved. Although this seems pretty incongruent with many of the ...
Views: 1759(1 vote) - OBEY THE LAW OF FORGIVENESS AND THE BENEFICIAL EFFECTS ON YOUR HEALTH AND WELL BEiNG - by Submitted on Oct 11, 2012 from Starbrite A. SparklesLet me share a secret with you, it is referred to as the Law of Forgiveness. Because we are beings of energy, universal laws and principles govern our energy. These laws may be considered divine laws, imbued with Spirit. These laws dictate the results of our thoughts and actions. The Law ...
Views: 1758(1 vote) - Why is it so Difficult to Apologize - by Submitted on Jul 08, 2011 from cedric riceWhy is it so hard for some of us to say that we are sorry even when we know that our actions were wrong? If you don’t know this, allow me to educate you on a fact of life. We are all human so there is not a person in this world who has never made a mistake. We are all capable of making mistakes ...
Views: 1757 - Women Who Step Out on Their Man - The Four Main Causes - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2010 from Andrew HunterMen have little control over whether or not their women step out on them - it's their perception of the state of the relationship, and not the reality, that motivates them. Your qualities as a companion - as a lover - are immaterial. If a women decides that her relationship is less than ...
Views: 1755(2 votes) - Dear Dr. Romance: On my death bed, I will not be in the mood to explain - by Submitted on Jul 26, 2014 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I read your newsletter "How to Heal a Rift with an Adult Child" with joy, how you simplify things for us. I already tried by email, but it got more complicated. I received two emails, the second one, had a picture with the message ''see what you ...
Views: 1752 - How to 'Change Your Thinking, Change Your Life" - by Submitted on Dec 29, 2012 from Gracie LakeDepressed. Dragging. In a funk. I woke up that way today at 4:30 a.m. There’s no good reason for it. I understand that I make my own reality, but I was having trouble turning off the funk. I got up, threw some clothes on in the dark and stumbled my way downstairs into the office. I know that ...
Views: 1752(3 votes) - Let Go of Anything That No Longer Serves You - by Submitted on Jul 06, 2016 from Kemi Sogunle“The trees do not hold on to dead leaves but lose them in order to create room for new ones. We can learn from this, by letting go of the past and focusing on the now. We cannot change the past but we can make the present and future brighter and better not bitter.” ~ Kemi Sogunle We all go ...
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