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"Today, I will have no competition or comparison. I will simply be me, and that is enough." -Unknown
It's safe to say that I was never meant to be anyone other than myself. So, what was with this business of comparing myself to someone else?
Honestly? Sometimes it made me feel better about ... Views: 1249
The purple haze of the evening hours washes through the valley as an observer stands on a hill top. She watches the hustle and bustle of the village below. The residents come and go as they please.
She notices the negative reckless traveler causing chaos in the flow of the pattern in the ... Views: 1386
Every day of life, everyone draws upon what researchers call the innate capacity for overcoming adversity: Resiliency. When dealing life's small hassles, such as getting stuck in a traffic jam or diffusing an argument with a coworker, or making the necessary arrangements to take care of a ... Views: 822
A controversy has developed about what is known as "feel-good" self-esteem. At the heart of the controversy is the assertion that making oneself or someone else feel "special" by using methods such as looking in the mirror and saying "I am somebody," doesn't do any good, and may do harm. One ... Views: 1304
In the journey to build self confidence lots of people waste their time and effort trying to impress everyone around them in order to become worthy
The problem with this approach is that:
•The person assumes that he is worthless unless otherwise proven
•The person feels worthless ... Views: 1254
Has your foot been on the brake? If so, it's time to take your foot off the brake and get back behind the wheel of your life. Proclaim, “I will not stop my journey too soon. It’s time to get out and overcome every obstacle in my way!”
Here are eight steps that you can take:
1. Imagine ... Views: 1568
One of the biggest barriers to living fully in your spirituality and in your life is an ever-so-deeply-conditioned, limiting, and self-defeating belief system.
This is the core and the root of self-destructive behavior, sub-satisfactory results and negative thinking. Over the years of ... Views: 1025
Self Esteem is more than feeling good about yourself. It's having self confidence and self respect. You can feel confident in doing a particular thing, but unworthy to receive the benefits of your success.
The opposite is also true. You can feel worthy and deserving of success and / or ... Views: 4049
The greatest challenge we face in our lives is the Search for Meaning. What is life really about? What are we really here to do?
These are big questions. Nobody can pretend to have the answers for anyone else. As Viktor Frankl once said, it is like asking a Chess Grandmaster what THE best move ... Views: 958
We all assume what human life is normally and how life moves on. But actually human lifetime is strange. there are many facts being known to us and a few to everyone that helps make human life yet to become fully discovered.
Numerous studies and concepts have evolved to learn human mind and ... Views: 2705
What is the secret to making dreams come true? Do you know the one thing that matters most in getting what you want? Would you guess the key to success is hard work, perseverance, commitment, right connections, good timing, or lucky breaks?
You might be surprised to hear it has little to do ... Views: 868
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1-Minute private technique kills business stress
This 4-step, on-the-spot stress management technique is being used—right this minute, as you are reading this—by ... Views: 2561
What is the law of attraction all about and how can we use it to our advantage? Is there really a secret to the mysterious law of attraction? Many people wonder, why is it some people seem to attract abundance without even knowing it, while some remained unsuccessful although they try their very ... Views: 793
When asked about the people you admire the most, it is very likely that you adore at least one of those people because they are just so confident about themselves in everything they do. Perhaps you envy them because you find it so hard to build confidence in yourself. Well, do you believe that ... Views: 1204
Having a weak will is often considered “normal”. Strong-willed individuals are admired for their success. While those with little to no will power just assume willpower is something some people get and some don’t. This belief deters them from ever attempting to change, or find the source of ... Views: 1301
From friends and colleagues who want to quit smoking to people I know in drug rehab, one thing has been constant in their quest to achieve their goal, that is their personal commitment. Personal commitment or convincing one's self that this is what you really want is not easy. It is very ... Views: 805
Have you ever thought about what you would do if you had amazing powers of persuasion? Chances are pretty good that you'd use thee powers to improve your life, both professionally and personally. This would have a big impact on your life, causing it to take a massive turn for the better. ... Views: 2243
The slogan “press on” has solved and always will solve the problems of the human race.
—Calvin Coolidge, 30th U.S. president
We all start our journey of aspirations with visions, goals, and plans. That seems to be the easy part of the journey. The question is, how do you sustain your ... Views: 872
There's a reason why you want to do your affirmations right. It's called results. You shouldn't just dash off a quick read of the Self Confidence Formula—you should attack it like a religious congregant, because it holds the secret to your future prosperity.
It consists of a carefully crafted ... Views: 1254
Intangible forces are always at play in our lives. Individuals who learn to control these forces are able to gainfully engage them while those who do not obtain this mastery will always be dominated by these forces. There seems to be no middle way: Either gain mastery, or, be dominated by these ... Views: 876
How would you describe a self-confident person? Generally, many people consider a self-confident person to be a perfect know-it-all, who is the center of attention, and never shows weakness.
Some folks confuse the terms self-confidence with self-esteem. The former is cosmetic, and may not be ... Views: 2273
When we look closely at a beautiful quilt we realize that the individual patches are usually made from various materials and are from many different sources; such as hand-me-down clothing, baby jumpers, and hand stitched pieces made by grandma. Yet, sewn together they result in a ‘feel ... Views: 2977
Self-esteem is one of the natural things that we all have been blessed with since birth. A tiny baby cannot do anything for her, hence can cry, drink, blink, observes, and can feel emotions. Although the intensity of the emotions are not very much visible, but they are present even at the time ... Views: 1714
The yearnings of a woman’s heart and the way her life is are often miles apart. The confident and secure woman knows what she wants and goes after it with unflappable action, undeterred by obstacles that come up along the way.
1. A confident & secure woman REPOSITIONS HERSELF
A ... Views: 14028
Hidden in private spaces all over North America women are crying softly to themselves. They are fierce women who have risen above many challenges to succeed in this world. They courageously lead corporations, trade stocks, build empires and create sweeping changes in third world countries. They ... Views: 1189
Imagine a water pitcher filled to almost overflowing. Now, see yourself pouring a glass of water from that pitcher. Make sure the glass, like the pitcher, is full. The water pitcher represents what I like to call the fountain of self-esteem. The glass of water represents you. From the time you ... Views: 828
Leave it to the medium of music to deliver the global outpouring of endorsement and admiration for the wonderful voice of an amateur singer from a tiny Scottish village named Susan Boyle.
Her April 11, 2009 appearance on “Britain’s Got Talent” has stirred nothing short of a global phenomena and ... Views: 1503
In working exclusively with women clients, I have found that many women suffer from a poor self image which often becomes engrained simply through the hurtful words of another. This low level of self esteem can take root in childhood and, if left unexamined and untreated, can last into ... Views: 734
The Pea
One day I found a gift. In my pocket was a package of peas. How special I am to have this gift. This gift was going to bring me great joy. They were going to bring me happiness; they were going to bring me an abundance of food. Each day I spent time with my peas. I imagined a great ... Views: 1022
The process of building up your self esteem can be a challenging concept. It takes daily effort and practice as well as continual reminders to yourself that your happiness does not rest on external factors such as financial security or social standing, but on the value you put on yourself as a ... Views: 1077
If you’re like most people, self-defense training sounds interesting. However, you just never get around to actually participating in it. Here are four reasons you really should finally schedule that self-defense class today.
More News Reports of Violence
It’s not a shock to anyone that has ... Views: 900
My two year old daughter asks me for ice cream about one hundred times a day. You think I'm exaggerating for effect, but I am really not. She starts when she first gets up in the morning, requesting it as her breakfast. (I say no). She asks mid-morning, several times. She asks for it as an ... Views: 894
The law of attraction states that we get in life what we focus on. So if you're down in the dumps focusing on your faults, your lack, limitations and what you don't like about your self, then the chances are that you're attracting that similar negativity into you life. If you have a low opinion ... Views: 1704
Self confidence is a topic that's very important to many people. Typically, the more confidence you have in yourself, the happier you are and the more things work out for you.
So what can help you get self confidence? Here are the top ten things that can help you improve your confidence ... Views: 752
No matter where you are today it seems as if the expression “self esteem” keeps cropping up. If a person is successful in business and in life they are said to have “high self esteem” whereas if they are unsuccessful they are said to have low self esteem, but is it really that simple? What ... Views: 1150
Oops, another excuse…
Do you ever catch yourself making excuses when things don’t turn out as you had expected? Have you ever neglected taking responsibility for the events and circumstances of your life? Or have you ever tried to explain why you didn’t, couldn’t, shouldn’t or simply wouldn’t ... Views: 974
It is very essential for an individual to have a healthy self esteem in order to live a successful and happy life—both on a personal level and professional level. Self-esteem refers to the amount or dose of realistic respect that you possess for yourself. Individuals with a healthy dose of sense ... Views: 776
For as long as I can remember – I have been called an optimist. This is a term that I embrace and love. When somebody calls me an optimist, I feel truly seen and understood. I feel like my habitual way of showing up in the world is spot-on with how I wish to be experienced – I feel like I’m ... Views: 1486
Do you ever have those moments? Do you ever have those days? Do you ever have those nights? Weeks? Or months? The ones where it feels like nothing can go right...that no matter what you do, no matter what you try, it doesn't seem to get any better? Do you think, "When am I going to find my dream ... Views: 925
A great friend of mine once said “The two most important days of your life are the day you that were born and the day that you Find Your WHY”. Right now you need to look inside and ask yourself a real serious question, “Have I found my WHY?” You were already born, and you really had no real say ... Views: 3674
Self-esteem, it is one of psychology's concepts that define us. It is the driving force between our behavior towards ourselves and even towards others. Self-esteem is our own evaluation of our own worthliness and our judgment towards ourselves. Other words for self-esteem are self-respect, ... Views: 2391
Studies have found that having friends is one of the most important contributions to having a happy and healthy life. Forming friendships isn’t difficult, but it does take some effort.
Friendships Come in All Shapes and Sizes
Some friends we know from childhood are with us our entire ... Views: 6952
Once you’ve met people and discovered you have some things in common, the next step is to arrange to meet again. If that’s satisfying to both of you, you’ll need to continue to meet.
Ideally, you and the other person will take turns initiating contact. But if you initiate more at the ... Views: 6823
"What we obtain too cheap, we esteem too lightly; it is dearness only that gives everything it's value."
---Thomas Paine
Sooner or later in everyone's Life, there comes a day when we must strike a bargain with Life. We must lay out the parameters of our hopes, desires and expectations.
Few ... Views: 801
I was speaking to a friend of mine the other day called, Wain, and he was talking about the work that he had been sharing on social media. He had recently created another page and had put in a fair amount of work to build it up.
From what he was saying, it made me think about how it is easy ... Views: 1058
Have any good things come from the virus situation? It sounds awful to say this but I think yes there has. It is an awful and terrible situation and there have been many deaths, stress, upset, negative changes, worry and chaos caused by it, many have lost their jobs, many have lost their ... Views: 984
Coping with the virus by Rosemary Price psychic
Ever since the lock down in the Uk I have had people flocking to me for readings about how they will fare doing the lock down. Unfortunately, I am an honest and realistic psychic and tarot reader so I am not going to promise anyone that they ... Views: 978
Confidence may be one of the most intimidating characteristics that anyone could have. Your confidence reflects on your foes as it does on your friends. Once you show that you can do something and show your capability of doing it without hesitation, people around you begin to form an idea around ... Views: 873
People are taken part in an inner dialogue or self-talk consistently. It is a sort of automatic response to just how we feel, as well as it influences our behavior based on our experiences in life. If your point of view is always negative, as well as if you consistently engage in negative ... Views: 1033
In this article I would like to share an issue that is a bit sneaky and can have big consequences in the long run.
That issue is: the words we use in our minds and in conversations with other people.
And, to be more specific, two words and variations of them that can sink your self-esteem ... Views: 1735