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Self Esteem is one of the fundamental ways in which we gauge and value ourselves and decides how we live our lives and interact with other people. It is an underlying part of our every decision, feeling and response and the level of our self esteem affects how we live and what we strive for, ... Views: 936
What Is Self Image?
In very simple terms, your self image is basically the mental picture that you have created of yourself. It is made up of a number of elements which fall into two broad groups. The first group contains the things which others are able to see and which could be ... Views: 1280
Self-esteem is a term you hear bandied around all over the place and whilst you understand that we all have some and that it's better for it to be high than low, do you actually understand exactly what self esteem is and where it comes from?
What Is Self Esteem?
In the most simplistic of ... Views: 897
Although beauty is such a daunting subject to discuss, because it may be perceived in so many ways, one thing is certain: a nutritious, health conscience person is invariably gorgeous, confident and pleasurable a majority of the time. It’s because certain neurotransmitters that are released ... Views: 1405
Pack up those limiting beliefs and move into your comfort zone
What a great feeling it is to toss that last moving box into the driveway, walk back into your new place, and realize that you have created “Home.” This is where you come after a long day, where your routines are established, ... Views: 1291
The act of worry is not anything to be taken lightly and is considered a major influence that enables a series of negative outcomes to become a reality. People tend to become out of tune with relationships, jobs, family and most importantly, themselves. Although it is human nature to be ... Views: 1671
Criticism is a fact of life. No matter what you do people will, at some stage, have there opinions about it and feel the need to voice it in a way that doesn't always seem positive. Some people tell you to ignore criticism, others say it's an opportunity to grow and learn...just what is the best ... Views: 2622
I can hear your thoughts… “What? Rocks in a backpack? Why that’s crazy! Makes no sense to carry heavy rocks around.” But you are, whether you know it or not. When you hold onto bad experiences from your past and use them as excuses for your actions, you my friend ARE carrying around rocks in ... Views: 1637
Self-responsibility both reflects and generates self-esteem. People with high self-esteem feel that they are in charge of their lives. They have a sense of agency and self-efficacy. They take responsibility for their feelings, actions, and lives. It also means that you take responsibility for ... Views: 3065
What thoughts does Staying In Integrity bring up for you? Does it mean that you are being true to your beliefs? Does it mean following through on your word, keeping your commitments? Does it mean being accountable?
Now, when you think about these areas, do you have any feelings of ... Views: 2629
As you travel through life, you’ll want to have a direction to follow. Clarifying what you desire in your life will give you this map. Not only will this aid you in your path, it will also be a guide for who you attract into your life. If your relationships are not bringing you joy and ... Views: 1460
Are you listening? No, I’m not really talking about listening to others when they speak. I’m talking about connecting with yourself, your head with your heart and your source - the infinite being. Are you using all three levels of being?
Picture three spheres connected vertically, a ... Views: 1136
Yup, that’s what I said.
Do I have your attention?
Alright, let’s talk.
I’m not advocating acting as if no one else in the world matters. What I am saying is how many of your decisions are based on what you think someone else may think or say? Do you follow your dreams or do you ... Views: 2018
It happens to all of us from time to time… we just wake up lacking the energy to do anything…
Not wanting to go out of bed, not wanting to stay in it either. That's normal. That's the stuff of life, so to speak.
What is NOT normal is getting attached to a lack of energy and motivation. ... Views: 5294
At times, all we need is a way that can keep us motivated and get us back on track. The following suggestions will help you accomplish just that.
Appreciate failure - Many people find failure difficult and demoralizing. For them, failing on something – whether it’s a single goal or a large ... Views: 3631
Motivation is intriguing. At times, you need huge motivators – life changing events that turn your life around – and sometimes, you need only a nudge - those little pushes – a sweet quote on a card – to empower you to map out your success strategy. Here are few suggestions to help you keep the ... Views: 1783
Competing Commitments may be getting in the way of following your dreams. You say you’re committed to achieving a certain goal, yet your actions say otherwise. What you say and what occurs are total opposites. Your actions speak louder than words.
Have you ever had this happen? Have you ... Views: 4780
As within, so without. The way you think about yourself is the way the world thinks about you. If you value yourself, the world values you. If you don’t value you yourself, you might find that money does not flow to you. If you ignore your needs, you may find people not paying attention to you, ... Views: 2662
Want to know what it feels like to be the best version of you and finally come out of the closet?
What panties are you wearing? Yes, you heard me right. If you want to be the best version of yourself, and live like you mean it, you need to start with what’s underneath.
It’s time to ... Views: 1390
You’re sitting in your bed and contemplating about your life, about the ups and about the downs. You say it’s time for a change, you say it’s time for you to make something of yourself and you really believe it’s possible. In fact you will start changing your life starting tomorrow. Tomorrow ... Views: 3150
I recently received a letter from a very light soul who candidly and sincerely offered the following:
"Understanding who we are is so confusing. I learn lessons every day, but I see I am still lost… We read many books, trying to find ourselves. I have a heart that wants to give and to ... Views: 1282
Are you a beautiful person?
No matter how you answered, I challenge you to think again.
Let me pose the question another way: Do you feel beautiful?
That’s a horse of a different color.
I’ve heard people remark on how refreshing it is to meet someone real, genuine and authentic, ... Views: 1467
There’s a common misconception that people have that seriously hinders them from being relaxed and confident around people. It’s the limiting belief that they have no control or influence over the feelings and emotions that they feel throughout their body. That they just kind of happen…and they ... Views: 1883
Self-esteem is essential to living free of external "busy bodies" that want to tell you have to live. It is very important to love and accept yourself if you want freedom of expression and to live out a high level of your potential gifts and talents.
As long as you are "looking for love in ... Views: 838
Self-image and confidence is not to be taken lightly. You cannot really rise above, or at least stay above your self-image. In fact, your brain acts as a cybernetic mechanism, which is a fancy way of saying "thermostat". Whatever is your set point tends to be your self-fulfilling prophecy.
If ... Views: 816
Women are notorious at finding fault with themselves. A Dove study last year found that over 40 percent of women are unhappy with their looks, and over two-thirds suffer low confidence about their bodies. Many blamed the airbrushed, ideal models for setting unrealistic, unattainable standards. ... Views: 1588
In working with women for decades, I've found that self-esteem is the common denominator of many women's issues. With better self-esteem, women are more able to find balance, handle stress, and claim their autonomy.
Universally, women are considered inferior to men, and although our culture ... Views: 2317
Most women suffer from lack of self-confidence, even despite greater job and educational opportunities than ever before. Lack of self-esteem starts as early as nine years old for girls and steadily worsens in adolescence, even if they excel in school.
Self-confidence is a manifestation of ... Views: 1877
Do you wonder if you are Codependent? Do you regularly sacrifice your opinions, needs or wants, and then feel resentful? Do you feel guilty saying no and resentful when you don’t? Are you controlled by, or try to control someone else, whom your thoughts and feelings revolve around, as in the ... Views: 2695
Most parents share the goal of raising happy, healthy, well-rounded and polite children, but what about confident, compassionate and self aware children? What can we do to create an atmosphere in our homes that encourages our kids to see, hear and correct their own inappropriate behavior ... Views: 1233
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Diffidence vs. Self Confidence - by Success Skills, Self Confidence, Efficient performance, K S Venkataraman, Dynamic Youth
Diffidence vs. Self Confidence
K S VENKATARAMAN
During that evening, Mani Sharma, a great singer was to sing in that famous music hall. There was a very huge crowd of his fans. The house overflowed with eager fans. Quite a number of connoisseurs of music had gathered in the hall and had ... Views: 2321
Sarah walked into a party of people she didn't know. She was handed a drink and whisked into a lively conversation with several women. The gal across from her asked, "So, what do you do?" Sarah started to respond just as the woman turned her attention to a nearby group that had burst into ... Views: 3134
We all get nervous from time to time. Have you ever felt intimidated or scared of others? Good news: Most of them are also like you--scared as a puppy.
For example, you see a glamorous actress on screen, and you gushed, "wow, I wish I can be like her, admired, popular, successful, with lots ... Views: 768
Teaching life skills to your children can be fun, give them great lessons for life, and give your family some real quality time together.
One way to give this important life coaching to your children is to teach them the basics of running a business. You don’t have to be a successful business ... Views: 1791
So many decisions to be made every day !!
How do we choose what is right for us personally?
There is an overabundance of information available.
There seems to be an equal amount of pros and cons on any given subject.
Which vitamins & supplements are really necessary? Do we move on or ... Views: 2878
Do you have the answer to this puzzler?
You can’t fake it, but you can definitely hide it.
You can’t buy or sell it, but it never stops giving to those who have it.
You can’t see it, but everyone feels when it’s there.
Got your answer?
Most people chime in with answers like ... Views: 1206
“……. When man is strong enough to truly look at himself objectively, he will find it happened when he was totally involved in service to others. This is when we remember and the question is answered of who and what we are. Then and only then, can we see clearly and know Great Spirit.
This is ... Views: 2108
In fitting rooms across the planet, “Does it make me look fat?” — is without a doubt the pivotal issue that makes or breaks a clothing sale. Ultimately, it’s a rhetorical question because the woman doing the trying-on will make the call herself. If she has even the slightest uncertainty that the ... Views: 2008
I always thought I was weird. I felt like an outcast in middle and high school, Girl Scouts, college, and most of my jobs. I still feel weird sometimes. I never felt twelve when I was twelve, I never felt 25 when I was 25, and I don't feel like I'm 48. Whatever those ages are supposed to feel ... Views: 1045
The Secret Science of Change: Stop Being So Hard on Yourself
By Suzie Wolfer LCSW
www.suziewolfer.com
Most people have an Inner Critic that tries to brow beat or guilt them into change. You may hear that little voice saying “You should . . . “or “You shouldn’t . . . .” I call this ... Views: 3449
Core confidence, coming from an inner place of authenticity by default will cultivate a healthy sense of self-esteem. Let’s get clear here: self-esteem as I define it is not narcissism and is essential to personal power and a secure self-image.
If you buy into the idea that putting yourself ... Views: 897
Core confidence is the key to breaking the never-ending cycle of not being "good enough". As you know "good enough" is relative so how could you ever make this determination as a way to being?
It is so connected to "doing" that you will always have something else to, well, do. Basing your ... Views: 1003
Self-esteem and self-image make a huge difference in the level of success you can have not only in your business, but it will affect relationships and even health. There have actually been studies that show that low self-esteem lowers your health, as for one thing, it impacts your susceptibility ... Views: 962
Core confidence, coming from an inner place of authenticity by default will cultivate a healthy sense of self-esteem. Let's get clear here: self-esteem as I define it is not narcissism and is essential to personal power and a secure self-image.
If you buy into the idea that putting yourself ... Views: 765
The term narcissist comes from Ovid’s myth of a vain young boy Narcissus. To make a long story short, one day the teenage boy happens upon a lake where he sees his reflection and falls in love with the boy whom he sees. At some point later, he learns that the image he sees is actually himself. ... Views: 2357
Have you watched the movie about Amelia Earhart, the first woman to fly solo across the Atlantic Ocean? It is an interesting movie and, like most people who push past known boundaries, she was a very intriguing person. She followed her dreams, and certainly her belief was that there are no ... Views: 1628
Over the course of my career as an etiquette and image coach, I have had the privilege of working with some very high profile and influential people. But nothing gives me more joy than to find ways to give back and teach our young people using the same skills and techniques.
You are never too ... Views: 2934
How do you feel about your life? Do you feel like you're on a treadmill, doing things you'd prefer not to do? Do you feel that you might only become powerful at the cost of being ethical?
Personal power is a strange thing, and it has absorbed me for several years. On one level, it is ... Views: 2710
Belief is such an important part of the Law of Attraction. Belief begins with believing in yourself. Sometimes it can be hard believing in yourself. There have been those giving you feedback all your life. Some of the feedback has been positive and some not so positive. Not everyone can give ... Views: 1247
The positive thinker sees the invisible, feels the intangible and achieves the impossible.
- Unknown
Our thinking informs our experience. A positive outlook, your attitude, can transform a traffic jam into an opportunity to practice patience. But a new thought is not enough. You must ... Views: 2184