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A Deeper Look at Personality.
I’ve known Tony for quite a while. He’s going through a rough time now, divorcing for the third time. He doesn’t really understand why his marriages fail. Two reasons: (1) he doesn’t know himself deeply. That means he always reacts to people instead of ... Views: 1739
There are two ways to build self worth—the old way and the new way. The old way was the one I was taught. I was taught how to improve self worth by making myself better—like I was defective and needed correction. Self worth only became an issue in my high school years. In fact I really didn't ... Views: 1738
What does my intuition have to say?
When was the last time you asked yourself that?
If it's been awhile (or never), I encourage you to pause a minute and ask yourself, "Why haven't I?"
Your intuition is your inner voice, your own North Star.
It's there. But you need to be willing to ... Views: 1738
The term ‘negative thoughts’ has become very well known in today’s world and this is true for people who are into self development and people who are not. Thoughts are generally the primary focus in the area of change and personal transformation.
These are said to control how one behaves, ... Views: 1737
In relationships, before we can be fully present for another, we should know how to be fully present for ourselves. This complete presence is the finest form of attention we can give anyone or anything. It is how we see (with William Blake)
…‘the world in a grain of sand
and heaven in a ... Views: 1736
Watching the Olympics, I found myself wondering whether the competitors would work so hard, becoming expert at what they do, if there were no one around to acknowledge their achievement. (Many no doubt would.) And what about me—would I have spent time and effort writing a book and these weekly ... Views: 1735
You have been given a wonderful power within your mind to change your life and create a life of happiness and joy. If you can learn to properly use affirmations and adapt your life to fully take on this positive thinking technique, you will have the chance to finally get past all those negative ... Views: 1735
The self image of a person is the rudder that determines every single aspect of their lives, to include career, friendships, martial partners, hobbies, and physical health. When a child grows up with a damaged self esteem, their rudder constantly sways them towards negative and toxic ... Views: 1734
“How smart or dumb you are depends on where you’re standing,” said Burt Reynolds in Smokey and the Bandit. We do not always have the ability to think clearly or understandingly. In fact, it would be unfair to analyze others when we ourselves do not have a stable and harmonious balance in our own ... Views: 1733
There are some people who are able to be themselves, and while they can adapt, this is not something that always takes place. Not only do they have a sense of themselves, but more importantly, they will feel that it is safe for them to be themselves.
At times, they’re going to understand the ... Views: 1733
According to Wikipedia, 'sadness' is a feeling of being alone or lonely, which can feel as a "severe pain related to sorrow", and which results from something negative happened to you. Sadness is when your mood is temporary lowered, whereas with depression you will have the same feelings but ... Views: 1732
Who are You? Do you know yourself? Do you know your personality?
Please stand in front of the Mirror. Look at Yourself...
Who is in the Mirror? You are. What is this picture? What you see is reality?
Do you smile? Are you satisfied? Are you happy or are you bored, dissatisfied,sad?
This ... Views: 1732
This is all about being true to the energy blueprint for your life which you as a Soul designed before you were born, and about being true to your inner dreams and aspirations.
So many young people these days are looking in magazines for an idol on whom to model themselves – a pop or rock star, ... Views: 1731
Although it is possible for an emotion to enhance one’s life, it is also possible for an emotion to have the opposite effect. If one feels angry, it could be a sign that they have been violated, but if they always feel this way it shows that something isn’t right.
It could mean that one is ... Views: 1731
It has been said that every emotion has a purpose, and this means that it is going to be important for one to pay attention to all of them. However, even though this is the case, it can be easier said than done.
What this comes down to is that while they might be able to embrace certain ... Views: 1730
April is National Child Abuse Prevention Month; this is to honor the abused. A child can be abused by parents, stepparents, grand parents, siblings, and other relatives. This is a hypothetical story about a child and his mother, however, it could be the story of anyone.
In this day and age, ... Views: 1730
If one was to lie down in a crowded place, there is a strong chance that they would end up being walked over. And it wouldn’t matter whether someone wanted to walk over them or not, as they wouldn’t have much choice.
However, this is not to say that one needs to do this in order to be walked ... Views: 1729
If I had a dollar for every time I've either heard someone say, "What if I can't do it?" (or said it myself), I think I'd be rich!
This question is one of the most challenging questions that every spiritual, heart-centered entrepreneur faces as they grow their business.
I faced this ... Views: 1729
While some people are able to maintain their sense of self when they are around others, there are going to be other people who are unable to do so. However, even though this is what is taking place, it doesn’t mean that someone realises what is happening.
Part of Life
For example, if ... Views: 1728
It is often said that the opposite of love is hate and, therefore, if one doesn’t love someone, they are going to hate them. This is then going to be something that is black and white, and that will be the end of it.
A Closer Look
However, if one was to take the time to think about how ... Views: 1728
There are going to be times in one’s life where their external reality mirrors back to them exactly what they want to experience and then there are going to be times when this doesn’t happen. And these experiences can end up defining not only how one feels, but also what they believe about ... Views: 1728
I do not quite remember who said this but one of the most familiar quotes which I found nearly everywhere I went when I was getting into college was ‘when the going is tough, the tough gets going’. Impossible, as it seemed to me then, the saying was in picture frames, was hung behind doors in ... Views: 1727
The law of attraction states that we get in life what we focus on. So if you're down in the dumps focusing on your faults, your lack, limitations and what you don't like about your self, then the chances are that you're attracting that similar negativity into you life. If you have a low opinion ... Views: 1727
“There are three things to aim at in public speaking: first, to get into your subject, then to get your subject into yourself, and lastly, to get your subject into the heart of your audience”- Alexander Gregg
The ability to speak well does not ensure that you will become a great leader. It ... Views: 1726
Creating a positive sense of self is as important to the teenage daughter as her reading the "Do not feed the lions" sign at the zoo. Disregarding either can result in losing very necessary parts of herself.
"The Secrets to Having the Teenage Daughter you Actually Like" with Dr. Cheryl ... Views: 1725
1. How do I begin to like myself when I’ve had low self worth my whole life?
2. How do I stop cutting myself down and insulting myself?
3. How can I change my self worth when I still get put down by others?
4. How can I be as confident as so many other people?
5. Isn’t it true that if I ... Views: 1724
What is risk and why is it something to be feared, to be avoided?
To risk is to be exposed to the possibility of a loss or harm. To be risk adverse is to say to yourself, "If I do this thing I might lose something I value or something bad could happen to me. Better to stay right where I am ... Views: 1723
Do you know what a great batting average is? Do you know what a batting average means? If you are a baseball fan, then the answers will come as no surprise. For all the other folks it may come as a revelation to discover the answer to both of these questions.
And what does this have to do ... Views: 1723
When one uses social media, it gives them the chance to express themselves in a number of ways. As a result of this, it can be somewhere where they share things from time to time and stay up to date with people, or it can be so much more.
In this case, it could be a small part of one’s life ... Views: 1722
There are certain things that can be passed on from one generation to another that are beneficial and life affirming. This could relate manners, values and etiquette. These aspects will not only affect how one lives their life, the lives of others are also going to be affected.
Through being ... Views: 1719
Do you know what levels of consciousness are? Depending on the source, it said that there are between four to 1000 different levels of consciousness you can achieve. Dr. David Hawkins, after a 29-year long study, has concluded that there are indeed multiple levels of consciousness, which he ... Views: 1718
Nowadays, it doesn’t take much for someone to be famous, and this has meant that more people are ’famous’ than ever before. In the past, it was often necessary for someone to have achieved something significant in order to be known by others, but in today’s world, this is no longer the case.
... Views: 1717
When it comes to what the media focuses on, there are many things that are positive and constructive and then there are also numerous things that are negative and destructive. This is to be expected, as there are pros and cons to most things in this world.
And with that in mind, it is ... Views: 1717
No matter what your profession, building self-esteem and confidence in yourself is the key to success business interactions. All things being equal, the higher your conviction in yourself, the higher your results will be.
So, how do you build your own positive mental attitude, self-esteem and ... Views: 1716
Leaders Speakers, a leadership soft skills training company located in Charlotte NC was requisitioned to facilitate one of their 2 day Master Presentations Workshops last week on October 13-14, 2017. The Childress Klein School of Real Estate is located at the UNCC campus at 320 E. 9th Street ... Views: 1716
You may find a few people who are just extraordinary with their skills and they know various methods to improvise tasks with excellence. They are heading numbers of organizations and some others are considered to be very highly talented because of their great achievements. You may think that ... Views: 1715
When a person acts with complete confidence, even for insane purposes, it fills a void in us. Charismatic individuals make their followers do insane things by the force of their personalities. It proves the point that the force of a person’s will, of his self acceptance, can be so strong that he ... Views: 1715
It’s now been a few weeks since you set your goals for yourself for the upcoming year. Maybe you wanted to get in shape or eat healthier. Maybe you intended to manage some aspect of your finances better or start the process (resumes, networking, etc.) toward your next career move. If you’ve ... Views: 1714
Nowadays, it is no longer necessary for one to watch TV or to go to the theatre in order to be entertained; the only thing they need to do is to have some kind of device. This then gives them the chance to watch something no matter where they are.
So if one is in a position where they have a ... Views: 1714
Long ago I read a book that featured one of Dr. Sigmund Freud’s most famous
theories. Freud said that man has two basic needs: love and work. As a young
woman, I had already figured out the universal need for love, but the idea that
‘work’ was equally as important was a big ‘aha’.
And so ... Views: 1713
Whether you’re going on the first date, a job interview, first day at work or school, or influential business meeting, first impression is what people will remember about you. It’s important to know that first impression is practically not reversible and because of that it’s tremendously crucial ... Views: 1712
The act of worry is not anything to be taken lightly and is considered a major influence that enables a series of negative outcomes to become a reality. People tend to become out of tune with relationships, jobs, family and most importantly, themselves. Although it is human nature to be ... Views: 1712
People often ask me how I live such a magical life. It's easy. I believe in magic.
HA! The song "Do You Believe in Magic" by the The Lovin' Spoonful just ran through my head. But I digress - or do I? Actually that flash of music just proved my point. What you believe in is brought unto ... Views: 1711
Have you ever had a conversation with someone where you start to get nervous and shy, and worry about your conversation performance? Do you start to think that everything you say sounds stupid or awkward or insincere? Do you start to obsess over what other people think about you? Do you ... Views: 1710
"You are here to enable the divine purpose of the universe to unfold. That is how important you are!" Eckhart Tolle
Appreciating self-worth is the beginning of our progress. Self esteem and self worth is so important to our well being! What would happen to this world if we all loved ... Views: 1710
It is common to hear people wonder what ever attracted them to join the company in the first place. What does it take to get a job with your most admired company? How do you identify a company that is best suited for you?
Even though job-seekers are encouraged to be opened to many ... Views: 1709
I was talking with my wife, who is a mental health counselor, the other day and she was lamenting a bit about some of her clients not wanting to make the necessary changes in their lives to get over their issues.
She was mulling over why people don’t or won’t get better and then she came out ... Views: 1708
Many people are hesitant to act confidently for fear of being perceived as arrogant. But confidence is needed in achieving goals and reaching success. This fear, then, holds many people back from reaching the results they desire and deserve. By understanding the difference better, a person ... Views: 1708
If someone has paid attention to the news recently, they might be aware of the fact that a certain film producer has been accused of sexually harassing, assaulting, or raping a number of women. Then again, this could be something that they are not even aware of.
This could show that they ... Views: 1708