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Snapshot Management: Leaders under the Spotlight Use Emotional Intelligence - By Reldan Nadler- Free Speech: Does Someone Lack Self-Control If They Harm Another Person For What They Believe? - by Submitted on Feb 02, 2017 from Oliver JR CooperWhile there are going to be times when one will come across people who have a similar outlook to them, they are also going to be times when they don’t. When this happens, they could find that someone will have a completely different way of looking at something. Part of Life It could be ...
Views: 1267 - Free Speech: Does The Attack On Free Speech Show How Feminized The Western World Has Become? - by Submitted on Dec 01, 2017 from Oliver JR CooperWhile men are a physical expression of the masculine and women are a physical expression of the feminine, it doesn’t mean that each sex only has masculine or feminine traits within them. Now, this is not to say that each person on this planet is made up of half of one side and half of the ...
Views: 1036 - Free Speech: Has The Term 'Hate Speech' Been Created To Silence People? - by Submitted on Dec 17, 2017 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone was asked to share their thoughts about ‘hate speech’, they might have a number of things to say. Firstly, they could say that it has no place in today’s world, which is why it is a good thing that it is banned. The Main Benefit On top of this, they could say that it will be a ...
Views: 1044 - Free Speech: Is Being Offended A Great Way To Control People? - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperIn the western world, offending someone is often seen as being as bad, if not worse, than actually causing harm. When someone has this view, words are going to be seen as another form of violence. It will then be necessary to punish a person who has said something that is ‘offensive’, and ...
Views: 1168 - Free Speech: Is It Dangerous For Someone To Think Critically In Today's World? - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone goes along with the status quo, it is unlikely that they will have to worry about saying the wrong thing. Through accepting what they have been told by the mainstream media, politicians, and what they have learned whilst they were in the education system, amongst other things, they ...
Views: 976 - Free Speech: Why Are Some Students Full Of Rage? - by Submitted on Mar 06, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone has watched at least one video of a speaker give a talk at a university, they may have seen a number of students try to silence the speaker. After seeing this, they may have wondered what was going on. This would have been somewhere where people are supposed to go to engage their ...
Views: 1135 - Free Speech: Why Does The 'Silent Majority" Exist? - by Submitted on Dec 19, 2017 from Oliver JR CooperIn recent years, there have been a number of surprising results in the political realm, and this is often put down to the fact that there is a ‘silent majority’. At the same time, it wouldn’t be accurate to say that everyone was taken aback by these results. The Difference What this comes ...
Views: 1199 - Free Speech: Why Is The United Kingdom Banning Free Speech? - by Submitted on Mar 19, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperAs time goes by, it is becoming increasingly difficult for someone to speak their mind in the United Kingdom. Free speech – the ability for someone to share their views – is gradually been curtailed. As a result of this, certain things are now being called ‘hate speech’. But even though free ...
Views: 1171 - Free Won't: 5 Steps From Impulsive to Intelligent Behavior - by Submitted on Feb 07, 2012 from Judy RingerThe capacity to withhold an action that we have prepared but reconsidered is an important distinction between intelligent and impulsive behavior. ~ Marcel Brass, of the Max Planck Institute for Human Cognitive and Brain Sciences and of Ghent University. Several years ago, I related a Ki ...
Views: 1251 - Freedom Or Safety: What Would You Choose? - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperAfter recent experiences and awareness’s in my life and also from what is happening it the public domain, I felt it was right to talk about my views and understandings of these two incredibly important areas of life. The Dichotomy On one side we have a great need to feel safe and on the ...
Views: 2533 - From Design to Street Art, 5 Looks Inside Great Creators' Notebooks - by Submitted on Jun 21, 2011 from Beryl RademanThe character and origin of creativity is the main topic of many a theory. Yet, rather than theorizing regarding it, wouldn't it be great if we're able to just lift the lid of the great creative mind to see just how the devices works? Well, we kind of can—by way of excellent creators' private ...
Views: 605 - From the Wild - by Submitted on Jun 12, 2007 from FSB AuthorsHe came out of the night, appearing suddenly in my headlights, a big, golden dog, panting, his front paws tapping the ground in an anxious little dance. Behind him, tall cottonwoods in their April bloom. Behind the grove, the San Juan River, moving quickly, dark and swollen with spring melt. It ...
Views: 1208 - Frustrated? Let Go of Your Emotional Energy - by Submitted on Feb 03, 2011 from Julie DonleyYou’re really frustrated. Angry. There is so much happening in your life and you have so many emotions floating around you can’t think straight. You’re tired. You’re moody. Ok, even irritable. Friends are complaining. Your spouse is complaining. Your kids hide when they see you. So you withdraw ...
Views: 2162 - Future of the English Premier League - by Today's consumers have more options than ever before, especially when it comes to sports. With American football in the United States and Canada and international football in England and throughout the rest of the world, there is always something to see and always to entertain. For years, the ...
Views: 140 - Gap Year Travel Insurance help! - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2022 from Hotels Etc.comTaking a year out to go traveling? Make sure you have organised a travel insurance policy before you travel, the last thing you need is to spend all your hard saved money on unnecessary bills like medical expenses. With no travel insurance such as a huge amount could mean having to ...
Views: 587 - Gender Roles: Can Gender Roles Stop People From Growing? - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2014 from Oliver JR CooperFor many years, men were seen as being one way and women as being another way. And as time has passed, these differences are no longer as extreme as they used to be. But while some things have changed, in regards to what men and women are like, there is still work to be done. This is ...
Views: 1875 - Gender Wars: Has The Time Come For Men And Women To Heal Their Emotional Wounds? - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperWhen it comes to the mainstream culture, it is not uncommon for men to be put down and to be seen as the bane of the earth. This doesn’t mean that women are not also seen as the problem, but this could be seen as something that takes place underground, to speak. So, while there are plenty ...
Views: 916 - George Teal County Commissioner - by Douglas County commissioner candidate’s military record prompts allegations of misrepresenting service
The military record of a Republican candidate for Douglas County commissioner has sparked criticism from political opponents and veterans, with the county’s sheriff breaking with his own ...
Views: 150 - Get out of Debt in 5 days! – Emergency Loopholes and Tricks - by Submitted on Mar 26, 2011 from Andrew SellarThis is to be used if your caught in a debt cycle. Every month paying off more than you earn. It is not for everyone, but it will change your life, in as much as the calls, letters, sleepless nights and depression will end. If you are at this point, then you have to drastic steps, there ...
Views: 10960 - Get Out of the Pool - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2011 from Vickie GriffithThat old James Brown song is playing through my head … you know the one I mean: Whoa-oa-oa! I feel good, I knew that I would, now I feel good, I knew that I would, now So good, so good”. I feel happy today … So, why is that so hard to admit or even say out loud? It used to be that the ...
Views: 1268 - Getting to Know Someone Better - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2020 from Kare AndersonHint: what’s not revealed is sometimes most revealing. You never really know somebody until you see the choices she makes. As a nurse, you’ve long known that it is usually not the “medical” but the “people” challenges that determine how well you can do your job. We instinctively pigeon hole ...
Views: 969 - Getting To Know The Work Of A Travel Agent - by Submitted on Feb 03, 2022 from Hotels Etc.comFor people who are fond of traveling to different places, visiting marvelous beaches, and taking a trip to the most exotic island paradise, the job of a travel agent seems to be a far better job than anything else. However, some people contend that the viability of a travel agent being a ...
Views: 631 - GETTING TO YES! - by Submitted on Jun 13, 2013 from Joel Bryant, Ed.D.A book entitled, Getting to Yes, appeared several years ago. It focused on the art and science of negotiation, and how to make beneficial compromises as we each pursue our peculiar aims. As used in this article, however, getting to yes implies mastering the steps needed to experience the ...
Views: 1068 - Ghana Life: How elastic is loyalty? - by Submitted on Apr 01, 2020 from Wajahat AliPeople in Ghana identify with their extended family, clan, and tribe in decreasing order of intensity. There is little shared identity with people from different tribes, and even hostility that occasionally breaks out in local wars that must be suppressed by the national army. At the national ...
Views: 487 - Girl's Forum - by Submitted on May 05, 2012 from Rosemary PriceGirl's forum. One of the reasons people are so keen to use computers now is because they enjoy reading and writing. Sometimes it is possible to combine this with making friends and finding out things, getting support and sharing views. We go onto discussion boards and message boards and forums ...
Views: 1510 - Giving Children Choices Fosters Responsibility - by Submitted on Jul 08, 2015 from Marvin MarshallYoung people have choices, both conscious and nonconscious. These choices are a significant factor in determining their lives. The sooner young people become aware of this, the earlier they will start to make responsible choices. Young people also become more responsible when they learn that ...
Views: 2049 - Giving Up: Is Giving Up Good Or Bad? - by Submitted on Aug 14, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperThere are a number of things that one can be told when it comes to being successful, and what they may have heard on more than one occasion is that they should never give up. This could be something they have heard from their finds and/or family, or they may even have heard it from someone ...
Views: 1349 - God, Please Let Me Feel... - by Submitted on Oct 04, 2007 from karen mcfarlaneExcerpts from The Sedona Method: Special Preview Teleseminar David Ellzey, professional life and business coach, hosted a recent teleseminar for Joy and Success International in which he shared some of the secrets of the Sedona Method. The Sedona Method has been used by over 1/3 of the teachers ...
Views: 1190 - Good Things Come to Those Who Wait…and Back Off from Time to Time - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2010 from Elizabeth FreedmanImagine that you’ve just purchased a new car. Your first “real” car, you’re proud of the time you spent reading up, really doing your homework, and taking to find the right model in the right price range for you. Now, imagine that you’ve just picked up your friend for a ride in your new car, ...
Views: 1000 - Goodwill Thinking - by Submitted on May 26, 2012 from Razan Z. KilaniWorry is a misuse of imagination. Dan Zadra What I have learned from life and coaching is that most people spend more time worrying about troubles than actually thinking of preventing them from happening, or handling them positively after they do. Additionally, what I have learned from my ...
Views: 1875 - Gratitude: Is Gratitude Dangerous? - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2014 from Oliver JR CooperWhen one does something for another and they are grateful, it is going to create a better impression than if they were ungrateful. This response if likely to endear them to the giver and it could mean that the other person is only too happy to offer their hand in the future. And the same ...
Views: 1815 - Gravity: My Interpretation Of The Metaphors - by Submitted on Nov 09, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperThe trailer to this film really caught my eye and stood out like very few films do. And while some are quiet engaging and interesting, this was gripping and instantly pulled me in. It soon became apparent that George Clooney and Sandra bullock were in the film. After watching it, I mentioned the ...
Views: 2345 - Great Tips For Saving Money When You Travel - by Submitted on Jan 04, 2022 from Hotels Etc.comThe world has certainly become a smaller place and traveling to far corners of the globe on business or vacation is fast becoming commonplace. If you’d like to jump onto the traveling bandwagon but are worried about not having the budget for it, here are few tips for having a great holiday while ...
Views: 476 - Greatness: Should Someone Have To Hide Their Greatness In Order To Avoid Offending Others? - by Submitted on Mar 09, 2017 from Oliver JR CooperAlthough someone can be good at something, it doesn’t mean that they feel comfortable letting other people know. But if this doesn’t relate to what they can do, it could relate to their appearance. In this case, one could feel the need to cover up their body, or to hide their face in some ...
Views: 1362 - Green Hardwood Floors and Finishes, Healthy for Environment - by Submitted on Jul 13, 2021 from kingof seoIn today's world, wherever persons need everything lavish, persons are now actually used to of lavish lives. Previously persons used to own cemented surfaces in houses and practices but as the entire world movements towards growth, wood surfaces are commonly used in several countries. Green ...
Views: 778 - GREEN, YELLOW & RED LIGHTS - by Submitted on Jan 29, 2020 from William CottringerGREEN, YELLOW & RED LIGHTS By Bill Cottringer “Three things cannot be long hidden: The sun, the moon, and the truth.” ~Buddha. The sheer power of the number three, or dividing things into thirds, is probably one of the first governing principles of the universe discovered and ...
Views: 1097 - Grief Reclaiming your life after a loss - by Submitted on Feb 11, 2011 from Elizabeth McNallyAll kinds of losses can make you feel like it’s the end! Some are worse than others. Whether it is a separation, a divorce, a death, it will wind you out! The grieving period will extend according to your needs and one day, you will feel the need to claim your life back. Life’s ...
Views: 1943 - Grief Neutralizes Thought - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2018 from Sheryl PaulWe are addicted to our stories. The thoughts come in and take us away on their magic carpet promise of arriving in a land of certainty, where the vulnerability and pain of life can’t touch us. We learn early to climb aboard this carpet because, as young people, we usually don’t know how to ...
Views: 1171 - Grief: Can Someone Carry A Lot Of Grief If They Experienced Childhood Trauma? - by Submitted on Feb 07, 2021 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone was to take a step back and to reflect on how they usually feel, what might become clear is that they often feel low and even depressed. This could be how they have felt for as long as they can remember. There could also be moments when they don’t feel anything, which will give ...
Views: 713 - Grief: Can Someone Carry A Lot Of Grief If They Experienced Development Trauma? - by Submitted on Mar 02, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperWhat someone may find, if they were to step back and reflect on their life, is that they often feel down and depressed. If they are not in this shut down state and they are in touch with how they feel, they could typically feel very sad. So, being out of touch with how they feel is not going ...
Views: 463 - Grief: Is Grief A Mental Illness? - by Submitted on Jun 24, 2015 from Oliver JR CooperAs time goes by, more and more normal human experiences are being given labels, and what was part of life at one point in time, ends up being seen as a mental illness at another. For example: if one was experiencing anxiety in the past, they might believe that it is just part of life. It is ...
Views: 1888 - Grieving Unmet Childhood Needs Doesn’t Happen Overnight - by Submitted on Jan 23, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperIf one was to engage in the grieving process, it could show that they have lost someone in their adult life. Then again, what it could illustrate is that their childhood was a time when their needs were rarely, if ever, met. Consequently, one is going to be grieving a time in their life when ...
Views: 853 - Grieving: Is Grieving An Important Part Of Being Able To Embrace Life? - by Submitted on Jul 29, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperExperiencing loss is part of the human experience but that doesn’t mean that someone will grieve after they have experienced a loss. As a result of this, they can do their best to carry on as normal. Still, this is not to say that they will consciously avoid how they feel as this can be ...
Views: 322 - Grieving: Why Do Some People Try To Stop Others From Grieving? - by Submitted on Sep 27, 2015 from Oliver JR CooperWhile there are plenty of things that separate human beings, they are also plenty of things that bring them together. For instance, no matter what someone’s gender is or where they are from on this planet, they are still part of the human race. There are of course many other ways in which ...
Views: 1813 - Grounded: Is Human Touch An Important Part Of Feeling Grounded? - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2014 from Oliver JR CooperIt is not uncommon to hear people say that they feel ungrounded and while this may be a term that is more commonly used amongst people who are into self development, it is something that anyone can experience. It therefore won’t matter if they are into self development or not, as they can still ...
Views: 1885 - Grow By Making Decisions - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2017 from Yvette BethelThere is a whole spectrum of possibilities when it comes to decision making authority. In organizations that value structure and control, policies and procedures form a framework for day-to-day work. Policies, range from very granular, dictating all imaginable actions, others are flexible enough ...
Views: 1483 - Growth in all Dimensions - by Submitted on Jun 13, 2011 from cedric riceGrowth in all Dimensions The most effective person is the well rounded person. Being well rounded means that you are able to function on many different levels in life. You can be good at one thing but not good at others. When you have a glaring weakness in one area it effectively diminishes ...
Views: 1575 - Guidance: Can Developmental Trauma Cause Someone To Be Dependent On External Guidance? - by Submitted on Apr 09, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperOne thing that someone may find is that it is often difficult for them to know what to do. So, there will be how this affects them each day and the effect it has on their life as a whole. As a result of this, they are likely to have two ways of deciding what it is that they need to do. First, ...
Views: 395 - Guilt and Regret - by Submitted on Feb 01, 2018 from Sheryl PaulLet’s imagine that there are invisible tracks streaming like ribbons in the ether of psyche. Some of these tracks resonate at a higher vibration and some move at a lower vibration. The tracks of higher vibration carry the feelings that emanate from the source of ourselves: sadness, joy, ...
Views: 1298 - Guru Worship: Do Some Peoples Childhoods Set Them Up To Follow Gurus? - by Submitted on Dec 19, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone has the desire to develop themselves, they can end up getting into self-development. On one hand, this could be something that they only dip their toes into, so to speak, and on the other hand, it could consume their whole life. One Outlook When it comes to the former, it could ...
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