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In order to know how to save a relationship, you must first decide if it is worth saving.
Step 1 - Deciding whether it is worth saving
While almost every relationship can be saved with hard work, both parties must decide that they want to make it work. If one partner has decided to back ... Views: 5624
Love is that miracle that keeps us as one. Sometimes it turns out to be extremely odd. We unknowingly fall in love, the relationship grows and all of a sudden it split up for some reasons that are unavoidable. However, true love doesn’t change even after a split up. Do you still think about your ... Views: 5615
Why Do Married Women Flirt With Other Men: My Wife Stares At Other Men Constantly
Why do married women flirt with other men? You're asking that question from the perspective of a man married to one such woman, yes? Your wife is a flirt and she's not afraid to show it. Maybe you tell her that ... Views: 5583
Divorce is always good for women, if not right away, then eventually. I say this because women typically do not divorce on a whim, they do so after years sacrificing their wants and needs for the benefit of others, until they finally learn that unhappiness is not par for the course.
Women ... Views: 5569
My Wife Is Always Mad At Me: My Wife Gets Angry Over Little Things - Why Is My Wife Always Upset With Me
Are you in a marriage where you're always feeling like my wife is always mad at me?
Well you're certainly not alone.
I actually was in your exact situation but figured out how to ... Views: 5566
You are confused and you can't help but wonder how to get my girlfriend back. The confusion and pain is too much to cope with, however for reconciling after a split up, you are going to have to think with a tad bit of rationality. Therefore, let's see what is the answer to how to get my ... Views: 5549
Do you want to know how to tell if your ex still loves you? I’m sure that is a question everyone wants to get an answer to after a split up. Even if there actually isn't any way to tell 100% (only your ex knows for sure) if your ex still has feelings for you. However these indications is going ... Views: 5549
My Ex Is Flirting With Me: Ex Flirts With Me but Wants to Be Friends
Broken up then you like me and I would think most other people want to know "is my ex missing me" and "do they really want you back"? It could be that your ex is paying a bit of attention to you. Offers to spend time with ... Views: 5532
My Husband's Personality Changed Overnight: Sudden Personality Change In Husband
One of the most often asked questions I face in dealing with marital conflict is: "Why did things change so much since I married?" or "This is not the same person I met!" or worst yet... "I was deceived... I met ... Views: 5494
My Wife Stopped Wearing Her Wedding Ring: She Doesn't Wear Her Wedding Ring
Your wife stopped wearing her wedding ring. You're not sure how long ago it happened but one day you looked at her hand and noticed something was missing. If she always wore the ring and suddenly her finger is bare, ... Views: 5446
My Ex Blocked My Number: My Boyfriend Blocked Me On His Phone
Your ex boyfriend won't answer the phone. Each time you call him and he doesn't pick up, you get more frustrated and upset. You just want a chance to plead your case, right? You want to have the opportunity to tell him how much you ... Views: 5438
Many victims of narcissists are firmly convinced that they have been "chosen" by their abusers because of their capacity to empathize, their innate sensitivity, compassion, and their ability to love and care. Indeed, these qualities tend to attract exploitative psychopathic predators who ... Views: 5423
My Husband Is In Love with another Woman but Wants to Stay With Me: My Husband Told another Woman He Loves Her
My husband says he loves another woman and is thinking of leaving me. This is a nightmare that most women will not wish to have it happened especially when she loves her husband so ... Views: 5385
What are the signs your ex isn't over you yet? You're wondering since you still love your ex and you are hopeful that they feel the same about you. No one wants to break up however when they do happen, they give us an opportunity to reflect on our relationship that was unsuccessful and our ex ... Views: 5376
Husband Says He Doesn't Want To Be Married Anymore: What To Do When Your Husband Doesn't Love You Anymore
Are you hanging on by a thread, at the moment, trying to figure out where it all went wrong? How are you supposed to know what to do when your marriage is falling apart and your entire ... Views: 5372
How Do I Seduce My Wife: How to Seduce Your Wife and Have Her Initiate Sex More
The husband who wishes to enjoy sex more often must get clear on the fact that his wife is not interested in any kind of an offer where she loses. A man's wife will almost always reject a seduction attempt if she ... Views: 5355
My Husband Doesn't Love Me but Won't Leave: Husband Doesn't Love Me but Wants To Stay Together
No wife has ever enjoyed it when she notices that her husband no longer feels the same towards her. When you think of how your husband used to adore you at first, it will be very difficult for you ... Views: 5329
How to Break the Ice with Your Ex: Re-Establishing Contact after No Contact
It probably feels like forever since you last enjoyed a regular fun conversation with your ex.
Your last conversation may have been the big break up or "it's over" conversation that left your heart broken. It's been ... Views: 5317
My Wife Has A Bad Attitude: How To Deal With A Disrespectful Wife
A large number of husbands complain that their wives are nagging and distressing. Some of them find things to do and places to go outside the home in an effort to escape their wives pestering nature. If you feel your wife is a ... Views: 5284
When you are in an unhealthy relationship, it can be detrimental to your mental, physical, and spiritual health. The truth is that many people are in relationships, and they do not even know that it may be an unhealthy one, or many people may deny that they are in an unhealthy relationship. This ... Views: 5263
My Ex Is Mad At Me: My Ex Is Angry and Ignoring Me
Just when you think you've finally made contact and he or she's responding to your emails and phone calls, your ex suddenly starts screening your calls and then answering them later or text messaging instead of calling back. Next thing you ... Views: 5242
Erasing the memory of a loved one is not easy especially if you have been in a beautiful relationship which has suddenly gone sour. You experience a lot of pain and negativity when you lose your self-confidence and wonder what really went wrong.
How to erase someone from your memory? ... Views: 5223
Should I Visit My Ex: Should I Go See My Ex
You've probably heard the advice that you shouldn't constantly call or message your ex just after a break up. The cool down period is always recommended and taking a break from your ex is very important even if you're unsure whether you want them ... Views: 5218
Relationships are built on trust. No matter how much you love your partner, if you are excessively jealous, it will be difficult for your relationship to last. Jealousy can take a toll on any relationship, regardless of whether you are married or dating for years. Being jealous is harmful to ... Views: 5198
By Sam Vaknin
Author of "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited"
When the narcissist has money, he can exercise his sadistic urges freely and with little fear of repercussions. Money shields him from life itself, from the outcomes and consequences of his actions; it insulates him warmly ... Views: 5177
Is there anything more mortifying than making a fool of yourself in front of the ex boyfriend you still love? If you've done it, you're likely going to say it's the worst thing that can possibly happen to a woman. It's not, not in the big picture of life, but it is awful in the moment and in the ... Views: 5144
Breakup fog.
Everyone suffers from it after a breakup. You can't think. You struggle to form coherent sentences. Even simple tasks, like brushing your teeth, seem impossible.
"What went wrong?" you wonder. "How did this happen? Why doesn't she love me anymore?"
"How do I win my ... Views: 5132
Do Divorced Couples Get Back Together: How Often Do Divorced Couples Reconcile
How often do people break up and get back together?
Well, here is the answer.
Frequently!
Yes, you didn't hear it wrongly.
People are breaking up and getting back together all the time. In fact, if you ... Views: 5089
Although a woman can want to experience a relationship with a man that is healthy and functional, there are numerous things that can get in the way if this actually taking place. And one of these things is when a man is controlling.
To a one degree or another, both men and women are ... Views: 5069
Normalcy bias is a natural, but uninformed response to the unknown, unrecognized risks in a situation. For 15 million women a year, it’s an incapacitating response to abuse in relationship.
Normalcy bias can be described as inaccurate, inadequate thinking that makes things worse. It surfaces ... Views: 5032
Are you saying to yourself at the moment, why won't my ex boyfriend call me back? Have you called him a few times or on one occasion however he is simply not returning your texts or phone calls? I recognize the way how you feel. However luckily, there is a means to get him to call you ... Views: 5004
I often see young women who are suffering from depression, as well as being unhappy (not the same thing). When we peel back the layers of their life a bit, and I ask about their relationship with their husband, often they say, “oh yes, we’re fine”, then they rattle on to ... Views: 5003
Remember back in the early days of your marriage when your wife seemed overly concerned with whether or not you were happy and fulfilled? At the time it may have felt that she was hovering too much in an emotional sense. You miss that now though, don't you? It seems lately that she doesn't care ... Views: 4993
My Ex Changed His Number: He Changed His Number Will He Call
Since the day I broke up with my ex-boyfriend, I wanted nothing more than to contact him. I wanted to talk and hear his adorable voice. I wanted to talk to him and see whether it's possible to reconcile. A few times my ex-boyfriend ... Views: 4976
"My fiancé broke up with me!" It is tough enough when you hear another woman says that. When you turn out to be the one whose relationship just ended, it's shocking. How can you all of a sudden go from preparation for a wedding to facing a future entirely alone? It is not reasonable and you are ... Views: 4945
Jump the Pond
Every one was raised in a particular pond: Their home, their community. And in that pond, the fish tend to look alike and swim in schools of similar fish. The pond becomes familiar; it is what the person knows. It is the sum of their experience. It is their normal, even if ... Views: 4891
Trying to convince your ex soon after the breakup will not yield positive results; in fact will only firm their resolve to stay clear of you. You need a much nuanced approach to convince them that you are their best bet and here is how you can do that. Read on
Let the anger dissipate
No ... Views: 4889
I am a great fan of technology and all the ways it enhances our lives and businesses, however it gives rise to a particularly 21st Century phenomenon, Cyber-stalking.
Cyber-stalking is defined as non-consensual communication that causes fear and alarm, where some people use the internet as a ... Views: 4881
My Wife Has No Time for Me: Wife Avoids Spending Time with Me
We're all well aware that each day only affords us a meagre twenty-four hours. When you factor in the time you spend working, traveling to and back to the office, sleeping, showering and eating, there isn't a whole lot of time left ... Views: 4873
My Wife Is Always Mean To Me: How to Deal with a Mean Wife
We all cycle through good moods and bad ones. Those changes can be attributed to almost anything including stress at work, worrying over money and even a fall out with a friend. Individuals who have been married for any length of time ... Views: 4868
Mother In Law Acts Like She Is Married To My Husband: My Husband And His Mother Are Too Close
An integral part of a lot of marriages seems to be an irritating, annoying, or cold mother-in-law. I agree that there are some psychotic mothers in law whom you have to stay clear from. However don't ... Views: 4854
For several years even centuries relationships has been studied by expert psychologists and doctors to know the actual problems in the relationship and get better from there. It looks like relationships are aspect of nature that is what everybody passing through. However the main issue in the ... Views: 4851
My Wife Thinks I'm Cheating On Her But I'm Not: How To Prove I'm Not Cheating - Constantly Being Accused Of Cheating
Accusations of cheating in relationships have existed as long as cheating has existed. Making accusations of cheating existed long before the internet, the telephone or even ... Views: 4846
Husband Says He Wants A Divorce But Hasn't Filed: Husband Left But Won't File For Divorce
You honestly believed that you had the perfect marriage, when it hit you like a ton of bricks one day that your marriage is heading for a divorce court! This was like a slap in the face for you - what ... Views: 4839
Why won't my ex call me back? You are asking this at the moment since you have been making effort that has proved abortive to get your ex to talk to you, right? You call and leave them message regularly all in vain. Your ex doesn’t reply and you probably don’t know why. You believe that you are ... Views: 4827
“The psychological impact of subordination to coercive control may have many common features, whether that subordination occurs within the public sphere of politics or within the private sphere of sexual and domestic relations ...... the psychology of the victim is shaped by the ... Views: 4812
Break up can be a very painful experience and letting a relationship go is easier said than done. One question often asked by women going through a breakup is “can you be friends with your ex boyfriend?” Don’t fall victim to this, as it could do more damage than good to your relationship. ... Views: 4783
Article By:
Jason Freedman
Po. Box 496
Salt Lake City, UT 84110
JasonFreedmanjournalism@gmail.com
The Tragedy to Triumph Story of Teal Scott
It was a cold, gray March morning at Greenhouse Effect Coffee in south Salt Lake City. I had arrived early so as to set up my notes and ... Views: 4782
It could be said that to some degree all mothers are controlling and that they have to be. From the very beginning a child has to have the right discipline and guidance to develop.
However, what happens when this control is taken to the extreme and the child is taken advantage of?
A ... Views: 4777
Persistence is an admirable quality any woman can imbibe. Especially when it relates to men because, it is one aspect of a woman they find irresistible. Your persistence at trying to get your lover back just might be the one thing that would get the attention of your ex and bring him back. The ... Views: 4764