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The Most Common form of Abuse Experienced by Christian Women in MarriageIs Divorce Harder for Christians than for Everyone Else?What God and the Bible Really Say About Divorce- DIVORCE: A TRANSFORMATION PROCESS - by Submitted on Sep 29, 2010 from Darlene LancerThe emotional unbonding that can occur during divorce is the cornerstone for transformation and is my focus. The task of emotional separation involves unbonding romantic and dependent aspects of the relationship, and mourning. This is the stage where growth and transformation unfold. It includes ...
Views: 1971(1 vote) - Wife Never Initiates Affection: My Wife Avoids Me Sexually - My Wife Never Initiates Intimacy - by Submitted on May 23, 2018 from John BraxtonWife Never Initiates Affection: My Wife Avoids Me Sexually - My Wife Never Initiates Intimacy In order to ignite your wife's sex drive to save your marriage it is important for a man to maintain an aura of romance, affection and attention 24 hours a day. A woman's sex drive is on tap all day ...
Views: 1969 - Rewriting the Script :After Divorce the Process - by Submitted on Jun 04, 2012 from Dr. Carol BateyRewriting the Script: After Divorce Carol S. Batey After the divorce was over, “I asked, where I go from here?” I would like to share my process for myself about my marriage ending, learning to live in the present without partner and looking into the future. My for process ...
Views: 1968 - Bouncing Back After a Divorce or Rupture - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2011 from Ligia HoubenI f you are going through a divorce or a romantic break-up you may be experiencing many emotions....from anger, fear, disappointment, hopelessness toward the future, sadness, to grief (this emotion sometimes is not recognized, but it can be real). In many cases divorce is not a devastating loss, ...
Views: 1965(9 votes) - Georgia Separation Agreement - by Submitted on Jul 25, 2012 from Melvin MalenLike many other states in United States, Georgia has also got legal separation laws. Legal separation laws were induced in the system so that those married couples who do not wish to live a marital life considering their marriage is dead but do not want to end the marriage. Ending marriage ...
Views: 1965 - How to Cope With Divorce: Sara’s 7 Steps to Heal Her Broken Heart - by Submitted on Dec 04, 2011 from Donna Marie ThompsonDivorce. Whoever thought it would be happening to you? To most people, there was no way that this was happening to them. What ever happened to till death do us part? Tame the Pain of Divorce There are many ways to cope with the pain of divorce - no one way works for everyone. Luckily, ...
Views: 1964 - Common Sense With A Spiritual Aspect On Divorce! Part 1. - by Submitted on Jun 28, 2011 from Brian AllenHello, I have seven parts to cover on the above title this is the first part: Its just seems so easy these days to get married and when it doesn’t work out for what ever reasons then just get a divorcé. Well yes in theory but it’s not as easy as that as you may or may not know. I guess ...
Views: 1961 - Get an Ex Husband Back- The Rules - by Submitted on Mar 21, 2011 from Gery Writer“I still love him.” For an incredible number of women, this is actually the undeniable reality. Even after the happy times and the bad, all the petty annoyances and all the huge arguments, a real feeling of love can continue to persist even years after divorce. Marriage could be a lifetime ...
Views: 1961(2 votes) - NO FAULT DIVORCE – what does this mean to us? - by Submitted on Sep 04, 2012 from Adele TheronInstant rewards and instant healing has a much nicer ring to it, then the words combined; LONG – TERM. However if waiting that particular extended time will further HELP in the long run it stirs the question if waiting is more worthwhile. But how do you determine what works best for you? ...
Views: 1961(1 vote) - Using the Married Filing Joint Status during Divorce - by Submitted on Sep 11, 2009 from David KaneAn area that needs to be examined while you are going through the divorce process is determining the tax filing status that will be the most advantageous to you. During the pre-divorce year(s), you have a couple of options that can increase or reduce your tax liability depending on which filing ...
Views: 1961 - Tips To Get Back Together With Your Ex girlfriend or boyfriend - by Submitted on Jun 04, 2012 from Dean SandersAlmost every single person over a particular age has, in the past, experienced the pain of a relationship coming to a finish. Trying to forget about it and moving on is the way many individuals make an effort to deal with it. That's a shame. The reason why? Mainly because the majority of ...
Views: 1960 - Bet You Don't Know How To Apologize - by Submitted on Jan 24, 2016 from Tina TessinaAre you and your partner having a tough time getting over an argument? Here are some tips to help. 1. Surrender to your responsibility. When you become aware that you have made a mistake, admit it and apologize. Use it as an opportunity to learn and grow. You don’t have to be afraid of ...
Views: 1957(1 vote) - My Wife Wants A Divorce And I Don't: She Wants A Divorce And I Don't - by Submitted on Jun 30, 2018 from Henry JosephMy Wife Wants A Divorce And I Don't: She Wants A Divorce And I Don't Divorce is a terrifying word when you're deeply in love with your wife and hoping for a long and happy future together. Most couples will inevitably face conflict in their relationship and at times, they may struggle to find ...
Views: 1957 - Families Don’t Have To Be Ruined In Order To Get A Divorce - by Submitted on Apr 04, 2007 from Belinda Rachman, Esq.You are preaching to the choir when you outline the emotional and financial devastation that can be wrought on emotionally vulnerable couples who get involved in the adversarial system that IS divorce court. I was a child of a litigated divorce. I taught emotionally disturbed children from ...
Views: 1956 - COMING TO THE TABLE - by Submitted on Nov 24, 2009 from Sadie SheafeOften couples carry baggage from relationship-to-relationship. They do not realize that their new relationships fail as a result of the previous baggage. In any new relationship there is always one constant…themselves! Often, problems first arise with the couple's intimacy. These can have ...
Views: 1955(2 votes) - Why Love Relationships Fail - by Submitted on Jun 06, 2011 from Bob MakranskyLove relationships fail because at no time in our training by society are we given a factual model of what a love relationship is, or how to make one succeed. There are fundamentally three levels on which intimate relationships operate, and our social training only prepares us to deal with one ...
Views: 1955(2 votes) - Dr. Romance: Got a Tough Ex? - by Submitted on Jan 06, 2014 from Tina TessinaRelationships: Three Tips to Dealing with a Really Difficult Ex-Spouse Dr. Romance’s three tips to dealing with a difficult ex. 1. Choose your battles. One of my clients once said “I don’t want to die on that hill.” She meant: that battle isn’t worth what it will cost me – I’ll ignore ...
Views: 1954(1 vote) - Why Leave it Too Late to Save Your Relationship? - by Submitted on Aug 16, 2009 from Nicole BaikieThis is a question I have given a great deal of thought too. Why is it that the minute someone hears a strange noise coming from their engine they immediately take their car into the mechanics for an expert opinion but their relationships can run itself into the ground for years and they will ...
Views: 1954(2 votes) - Marriage, Divorce, and the Economy: No Excuse for Irresponsible Parenting - by Submitted on Apr 24, 2009 from Rosalind SedaccaIs our down-turned economy having an effect on divorce in the United States and other nations around the world? While it’s too early for statistical evidence, reports from marriage counselors and divorce attorneys around the globe are in agreement. They’re finding many couples who were ready to ...
Views: 1952(3 votes) - I'd Rather Not Say - by Submitted on Mar 01, 2011 from Martha Tara LeeI was on the MRT train with a new friend the other day, and he asked me what caused my marriage to end. We were both standing, dangling from different handrail supports. I looked around. We were surrounded by a lot of other commuters. This person is not exactly soft-spoken either. I ...
Views: 1949(4 votes) - *** Mastering Fear in Your Divorce - by Submitted on Jul 19, 2007 from Carolyn EllisThere’s nothing like getting divorced to kick up a whole new dimension of fear. Will I be alright? Will my children grow up emotionally scarred from my relationship breakdown? Will I be able to cope financially? Am I doomed to be single? What if my next relationship tanks too? Underlying ...
Views: 1948 - How to Avoid the 5 Divorce Mistakes that Keep you from Moving On - by Submitted on May 15, 2017 from Martha BodyfeltAlthough feeling overwhelmed and confused during divorce is normal, avoiding these common boomer mistakes can save you unnecessary drama and stress so you can move on with your life. Missing the Big Picture. Divorce feels awful because as a society, none of us are taught to plan ahead for ...
Views: 1947 - Is it Time to Get a Divorce? - by Submitted on Apr 20, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraMaking a decision whether to get a divorce or not is an awfully difficult choice that a person must make in his/her lifetime. One has to think about a lot of important factors, like children, the number of years you’ve been together, the major differences, and the possible effects of divorce on ...
Views: 1944 - 6 Things I Wish I Knew Then That I Know Now After My Divorce (by: Dr. Anne Brown PhD, RN) | DivorceForce - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2016 from Dr. Anne BrownWe always hear people say, "I wish I knew then what I know now," so here is some help if you are navigating a divorce now ... 1.Believe in Yourself! Three words that are so powerful they can change any "I can't into "I can". When you hear the words "I want a divorce", there will be times ...
Views: 1943(1 vote) - The One Secret to Intimacy, Trust and Love - by Submitted on Nov 10, 2012 from Ken EllsworthWhen we begin a relationship we start off by revealing parts of ourselves, our likes and dislikes, what I like to call our preferences. These include things such as politics, religion, our favorite movies, the food we like, basically our thoughts, views and beliefs. If we agree, like and accept ...
Views: 1940 - 6 Incredible Tips For Fathers To Win The Custody Battle - by Submitted on Dec 17, 2018 from Caitlyn BellA child custody case could be more disheartening than expected. Until the final date, both the mother and the father stay at the edge of their seats because the thought of not being able to see the child every day is in itself, depressing. Some shocking custody facts about the U.S. over the ...
Views: 1938 - What to do when things didn't turn out the way you expected. - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2019 from Martha BodyfeltSo I’ve been hearing this one thing a lot from readers and clients of mine who are trying to move the hell on... “It wasn’t supposed to be like this.” “We were supposed to grow old together.” “I was supposed to retire in a few years, but now I have to go back to work because of the ...
Views: 1937 - Why does he/she duped me? - by Submitted on May 07, 2012 from Raymond FohjemHave you ever been duped in a relationship? Have you ever trusted your partner and in return you get a breakup certificate? Am sure you have witnessed a situation where after accepting him/her as a lover they immediately turn you down. It happens all the time but the obvious question is why ...
Views: 1936 - It's Not Divorce That Screws Up Your Kids. But Are You? - by Submitted on Apr 26, 2018 from Dominique NicoleAs a divorce coach, product of divorce , two-time divorce survivor… and living in a very blended family, I’m very familiar with the effect “mud-slinging” of the ex has on children. I’d like to start out by saying that children of divorce, have it much harder than the adults involved. They are ...
Views: 1935 - Finding Your Spouse’s Assets - by Submitted on Nov 22, 2011 from Edward Amaral, Jr., Esq.Some divorces are friendly, while many others are hostile. Spouses in a hostile divorce should be more aware of many things. It is not uncommon for one spouse with greater financial resources to hide his assets, which would reduce the value of the marital assets that are subject to division. ...
Views: 1934 - How To Survive Your First Christmas Alone - by Submitted on Nov 10, 2008 from Annie O'NeillYour first Christmas alone doesn’t have to be terrible. Make sure that you plan what you are going to do well in advance and that you arrange to keep busy over the holiday period. Be organised and don’t leave any spare time when you might brood. Don’t worry about what your ex partner is ...
Views: 1932 - When Your Relationship is Rocky, Look Right at Your Expectations - by Submitted on Mar 27, 2014 from Michael BroderOne of the best ways to think of a relationship on the rocks is to reflect on your expectations for your relationship. What are they? What is it that you really want from your partner? What could your partner do now that would — from your point of view — make the relationship work again? Make a ...
Views: 1932 - Common Sense With A Spiritual Aspect On Divorce! Part 5. - by Submitted on Jun 28, 2011 from Brian AllenHello every one and welcome to part 5 of my 7 part blog that looks at divorce with lots of common sense but with a spiritual aspect to it all. Ok so now we are single and we shall treat this part as if we are now looking to hook up again, find a partner, lover or any other label you wish to put ...
Views: 1931 - Common Sense with a Spiritual Aspect On Divorce! Part 4 - by Submitted on Jun 28, 2011 from Brian AllenSo now you are divorced on paper its official and every one says “you should have a party and celebrate”….. Why? Is it really some thing to celebrate? Let’s look and see. So many people are like sheep, they feel if they don’t do the normal thing or the popular thing then they will lose face. ...
Views: 1930 - I Cheated On My Husband He Found Out: My Husband Found Out That I Was Cheating On Him - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2021 from Weston BrantleyI Cheated On My Husband He Found Out: My Husband Found Out That I Was Cheating On Him If you study the statistic, you will notice that the divorce rate has increased over the years. Couples have cited a variety of reasons for the cause of divorce and one of the most common one is none other ...
Views: 1929 - How To Leave A Marriage When You Have Nothing: How To Leave My Husband When I Have Nothing - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2021 from Bentley MilesHow To Leave A Marriage When You Have Nothing: How To Leave My Husband When I Have Nothing Ever imagine finding ways to leave your spouse even when you really don't want to? You may have fleeting moments of thinking that leaving could change your whole life. Some people have actually done ...
Views: 1928 - My Spouse Wants a Divorce - I've Been Served with a Petition for Dissolution, What do I do Now? - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2012 from Lance Claery"My Spouse Wants a Divorce - I've Been Served with a Petition for Dissolution, What do I do Now?" By Lance Claery, Partner at Los Angeles and San Diego Law firm Claery & Green, LLP If you have been served with a California petition for dissolution of your marriage (divorce), you are likely ...
Views: 1926(4 votes) - Divorce and Autism: Making the Best of an Unfortunate Situation - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2012 from Connie HammerThe myth that families of children with Autism have an 80% divorce rate was proven false by researcher Brian Freedman, PhD, clinical director of the Center for Autism and Related Disorders at the Kennedy Krieger Institute in Baltimore, as this article, Autism Families: High Divorce Rate Is a ...
Views: 1922 - One Moment At A Time - by Submitted on Apr 01, 2011 from Sheryl PaulOne of the slogans in the 12-step programs is One Day At A Time. In the life of someone enduring a transition - whether in the midst of a break up, becoming a mother, trying to conceive, or retiring - a more appropriate and helpful phrase is One Moment At A Time. This topic recently emerged ...
Views: 1920(2 votes) - Self-growth Tips for Men Getting Divorced - by Submitted on Sep 26, 2011 from LEO AVERBACHThe breakup of my marriage hit me like a train. At some level I knew it could happen but when the crash came, my world just disintegrated. In a flash I was no longer a husband, I was struggling to be a father and trust, built up over twenty years, was completely broken. We were a wreck and I was ...
Views: 1920 - Get Your Man Back - Hot Ideas Which Work - by Submitted on Jun 07, 2012 from Dean SandersWant some great information on how to get your ex guy back? Very well, below are a few ideas that might just meet your needs exactly. Keep in mind, having your guy back again depends upon what went down between the two of you and just how you have treated things since the separation. If you have ...
Views: 1919 - Book Review: Rebuilding: When Your Relationship Ends, 3rd ed - by Submitted on Oct 31, 2007 from Debbie MolisThis book review is part of a series that covers the topic of Divorce. Divorce is a judicial declaration dissolving a marriage and releasing the husband and wife from all matrimonial obligations. Carolyn Ellis is the Official Guide to Divorce. Rebuilding: When Your Relationship Ends, 3rd ed, ...
Views: 1917 - Do You Respect The EX? - by Submitted on Sep 08, 2013 from Tina TessinaYou're divorced, but you still see your ex. How do you handle it? Here are three tips to help. 1. Treat your ex as politely as you treat your friends or co-workers. Don’t be as familiar as you used to be. A little less familiarity will generate a little more respect. Say “Hello”, ...
Views: 1917(1 vote) - Secrets and Lies: The Damage of Deception - by Submitted on Jan 22, 2017 from Darlene LancerTrust is a fragile. Secrets and lies jeopardize trust and can damage us and our relationships – sometimes irreparably. We all tell “white lies.” We say “I’m fine,” when we’re not, compliment unwanted gifts, or even fib, “The check is in the mail.” But in an intimate relationship, emotional ...
Views: 1916(1 vote) - A Guide for Blended Families (Step Parenting) - by Submitted on Jan 19, 2012 from Dean SunseriA blended family or step parenting can be a very big challenge for everyone involved. The following are some guidelines to make the new family unit function more effectively. 1. Be Patient – A natural family is created slowly, yet a blended family is more abrupt. Allow time for ...
Views: 1914(3 votes) - You're Divorced. Get Over It! - by Submitted on Jan 28, 2011 from Dana McIntyreOnce upon a time, I was a happily married mother of a 5 year old son and wife to my very own Prince Charming. We lived in a little neighborhood in a cute three bedroom house that even had a picture perfect white picket fence. Unfortunately however, my Prince Charming turned out to be more like ...
Views: 1913(4 votes) - My Marriage Is Making Me Miserable: My Marriage Is Making Me Depressed - by Submitted on Sep 20, 2018 from Jennifer SageMy Marriage Is Making Me Miserable: My Marriage Is Making Me Depressed There are three things that are essential to the success of any relationship: 1. Love 2. Attraction 3. Trust For the purpose of this article, we will focus on the attraction part of a ...
Views: 1911 - Can You Prevent Your Boyfriend From Ever Leaving You? - by Submitted on Jul 17, 2013 from Eduard EzeanuDo you want your boyfriend to be with you forever but you are worried that one day he will eventually leave you? Then it’s important for you to understand the events that can truly occur and set the right course for your actions. Many women are worried that one day their boyfriend will lose ...
Views: 1910 - Am I in an Abusive Relationship? - by Submitted on Feb 20, 2013 from Yamaya CruzBe aware! There are people who are committing the most heinous spiritual crimes. They look like regular people. They could very well be your ex-boyfriend, current wife, or psycho girlfriend that you just can’t get rid of. Some people may refer to them as divas, or ladies men, pimps, or ...
Views: 1909 - Can You Be Friends With Your Ex? - by Submitted on Jul 08, 2011 from Brooke AlexandriaWhether you can be friends with your ex depends a lot on the kind of relationship that you and your ex had as well as the way that your relationship ended. The level of intimacy within your relationship has a lot to do with how long it will take for you to be friends, if ever. This includes both ...
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