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The Most Common form of Abuse Experienced by Christian Women in MarriageIs Divorce Harder for Christians than for Everyone Else?What God and the Bible Really Say About Divorce- Save Your Marriage: End Limiting Beliefs - by Submitted on Jul 24, 2013 from Lee Baucom“What can I do?,” cried Sharon, “I can’t do anything! I don’t even know where to start! I want to save my marriage, but he refuses to even think about it.” And with that, Sharon launched into a discussion that lasted at least 25 minutes, telling me why nothing could be done, why her marriage ...
Views: 2096(1 vote) - ***Should I Try To Save My Marriage? - by Submitted on Oct 10, 2013 from Dr. Charles and Dr Elizabeth SchmitzBy America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts. As we have said for many years, “Most marriages and relationships are worth saving and can be saved, but not all!” Here’s what we mean. In the case of abuse – sexual, physical, mental – many failing marriages and relationships are simply not ...
Views: 2095(24 votes) - I Don't Love My Husband Anymore: I Don't Feel Anything for My Husband - by Submitted on Jun 01, 2018 from John BraxtonI Don't Love My Husband Anymore: I Don't Feel Anything for My Husband I don't love my husband anymore. It's a bold statement for any married woman to make, even if it's just to herself. When you start to realize that the intense feelings of love and desire you once had for your spouse are ...
Views: 2094 - Anger Management Tips For Married Couples - by Submitted on Oct 01, 2008 from Danielle TaylorEveryone gets angry at some time or another. The way you manage the anger you feel will make a difference in whether the situation gets resolved sooner rather than later. When you argue with your spouse, there are some compromises that must be made. It cannot just be about ‘I am right and you ...
Views: 2090 - Once and Future Monogamy - by Submitted on Feb 10, 2013 from Sam VakninThe ancient institution of monogamous marriage is ill-suited to the exigencies of modern Western civilization. People of both genders live and work longer (which renders monogamy impracticable); travel far and away frequently; and are exposed to tempting romantic alternatives via social ...
Views: 2090(6 votes) - How To Get Over A Broken Heart? There Is A Cure - by Submitted on May 30, 2010 from Velma MerrickHow long will it be before you can get through your daily routine without feeling the wave of pain sweep over you, without sensing that knot in the pit of your stomach, without dwelling on what went wrong? Broken heart? Rejection? Failure? It hurts (and hurts, and hurts). You're devastated and ...
Views: 2089 - Obsessed With Wife's Past: Wife's Past Destroyed Marriage - by Submitted on Nov 24, 2018 from Colten ReeseObsessed With Wife's Past: Wife's Past Destroyed Marriage For most people, marriage is a sign of a new chapter in their lives. Many also consider it a new beginning where they can start fresh. When you know someone who just got married, wait for a few months and you'll be seeing brand new ...
Views: 2086 - Relationships: Is It Important To Grieve The End Of A Relationship? - by Submitted on May 21, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperWhen a relationship comes to an end, it can often lead to pain. For some people the end of a relationship will be experienced solely as a loss and for others, although there is a sense of loss, it will also be coupled with a sense of freedom and that the time had come. This will of course ...
Views: 2085(1 vote) - My Husband Is Bored With Me: I Think My Husband Is Bored With Me - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2021 from Maci AspenMy Husband Is Bored With Me: I Think My Husband Is Bored With Me When you think of marriage, what comes to mind? I'm sure you can think of a laundry list of things: good and bad. While many marriages end in divorce, others continue to grow and flourish despite tough times. What makes the ...
Views: 2084 - How To Manage The Increased Stress In Your Life After Your Divorce - by Submitted on Jan 09, 2012 from Diane AdkinsDivorce is stressful.No one would argue that point.However, life after a divorce brings on new stressors as well. Your life has changed, and these changes can lead to an increase in stress. Tasks that used to be shared now fall on just your shoulders. In addition, there may be additional ...
Views: 2083 - The One Word You Can Use to Magnetize the Right Man - by Submitted on Mar 18, 2013 from Bobbi PalmerA single man I know once said: If a woman I'm interested in doesn't seem to love herself, why should I love her...and trying to convince her that she's great would be too exhausting. When a man meets this kind of woman he may be attracted initially, but after figuring out that she is a ...
Views: 2082(1 vote) - How To Treat Your Wife With Respect: How To Show Respect To Your Wife - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2021 from Maci AspenHow To Treat Your Wife With Respect: How To Show Respect To Your Wife Do you know how in a marriage that you start taking things your spouse for granted? In fact, it is often easier to focus on the frustrating things that your spouse does instead of the positive qualities that drew you ...
Views: 2081 - Dear Dr. Romance: I Believe He's a Good Man at Heart - by Submitted on Oct 13, 2012 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: My husband left to be with a much younger women. The problem became obvious in our marriage three years ago. I thought It would be something we would surpass. I was confused and did not act until one Friday night he did not come home to sleep. He came back that Saturday ...
Views: 2079 - Dr. Romance on The Perks of Dating a Divorced Person - by Submitted on May 24, 2014 from Tina TessinaDr. Romance asks: Should you date someone who is divorced? Does it mean the person can't commit or trashes relaitonships? It's possible that those things are true, but let's look on the positive side. What are the perks of people who have already been through ...
Views: 2068 - "Uncontested Divorce; How Thinking About An Uncontested Divorce Figures Into Your Decision About Divorce" - by Submitted on Mar 07, 2005 from Karl AugustineAn uncontested divorce is the most common type of divorce. An uncontested divorce is a divorce that occurs when there are no disagreements between spouses over divorce related issues like custody, finances, living arrangements, spousal support, child support, etc. An uncontested divorce can be ...
Views: 2067(1 vote) - Divorce Wars - What to Do When Your Ex Is a Destructive Victim - by Submitted on Jan 18, 2013 from Jane WarrenHow is it possible that 3 men show up in my (Bob’s) relationship coaching practicewith virtually the same story? They’re all separatedwithin the last two years. They all have 2 children who are still in school and who live primarily with their ex-spouse, as dictated by the ex-spouse. They all ...
Views: 2062 - Splitting Individual Retirement Accounts During Divorce - by Submitted on Aug 28, 2009 from David KaneAn area where many individuals get into tax trouble is when splitting their Qualified Retirement Accounts (QRPs) and Individual Retirement Accounts (IRAs). Once you have come to the revelation that your assets must be split you may be tempted to start the process by making pre-divorce transfers ...
Views: 2057(3 votes) - How To Deal With Uncaring Husband: Secrets Of Keeping Your Husband In Love With You - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2021 from Bentley MilesHow To Deal With Uncaring Husband: Secrets Of Keeping Your Husband In Love With You Do you want to be able to have more control in the relationship with your man? Do you want to make your man love you more? Do you want to mesmerize him and get him addicted to you? If so, this could be the ...
Views: 2053 - I Feel Invisible To My Husband: Feeling Invisible To My Partner - by Submitted on Jun 30, 2018 from Henry JosephI Feel Invisible To My Husband: Feeling Invisible To My Partner The day you married the man of your dreams you probably envisioned a future filled with love and tenderness. It's natural for every bride on her wedding day to feel that way. You love the man and he's your own personal prince ...
Views: 2053 - “The Real Housewives” Not So Real After All - by Submitted on Jun 07, 2011 from Olga Vladi(Irvine, CA)—Are the “Real Housewives” a true portrayal of these women or just a Hollywood contrivance? A magnet for women, “The Real Housewives” series captivates viewers with its enticing temptation to identify with the ladies allegedly enjoying successful marriages and a fairy-tale, ...
Views: 2052(1 vote) - The Four Basics of Deciding to Stay Married or Get Divorced - by Submitted on Jan 29, 2010 from John KuypersI feel prompted by the Holy Spirit to reach out to both of you. My intention in this note is to summarize the basics of deciding to say married or get divorced – what’s going, what your choices are and where things can go for you. Basic #1. You both appear to have concluded the status quo ...
Views: 2050(1 vote) - But My Parents Divorced...Will I? - by Submitted on Dec 23, 2013 from Tina Tessina3 Must Do's If You Want To Break The Cycle If you're the adult child of a divorce or simply trying to improve your marriage, here are three tips to help you cultivate a good relationship with your partner. 1. Weekly State of the Union discussion. This is not an argument or complaint ...
Views: 2049(1 vote) - Healing From Betrayal - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2018 from Dr. Anne BrownLet’s look at the definition of betrayal so we can understand why it hurts so much. Webster’s definition: To hurt (someone who trusts you, such as a friend or relative) by not giving help or by doing something morally wrong. “The saddest thing about betrayal is that it never comes from ...
Views: 2049(1 vote) - My Husband Is Sending Me Mixed Signals: My Husband Doesn't Know What He Wants To Do About Our Marriage - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2021 from Bentley MilesMy Husband Is Sending Me Mixed Signals: My Husband Doesn't Know What He Wants To Do About Our Marriage There is no denying that one always knows that there is something wrong with the marriage. If you have stayed with someone as close as your husband or wife, the signs and symptoms of a ...
Views: 2044 - Divorce—The Beginning of the Change, or maybe this article should be titled,“Be Thankful that You Can Change Now” - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2011 from Jennifer CarusoDivorce is one of those rare times in life when one must ask serious questions about the self… Who was I with this partner? Who am I now? How did this happen to me? What should I do now? There are few such significant, life-changing moments…some of us have ...
Views: 2043 - Book Review: Helping Your Kids Cope with Divorce the Sandcastles Way - by Submitted on Oct 31, 2007 from Debbie MolisThis book review is part of a series that covers the topic of Divorce. Divorce is a judicial declaration dissolving a marriage and releasing the husband and wife from all matrimonial obligations. Carolyn Ellis is the Official Guide to Divorce. Helping Your Kids Cope with Divorce the ...
Views: 2042 - 5 Don’ts When Discussing Divorce With Your Children! - by Submitted on Dec 28, 2010 from Rosalind SedaccaPreparing to break the news to your kids that you’re divorcing their other parent? Feeling insecure about how to broach the subject? Wondering how much to share during and after the divorce? How your children will react? How to handle their questions? How to deal with your special ...
Views: 2041(3 votes) - Everyone Loses When You Give Up on Your Marriage Without Trying to Acquire the Skills You Need To Keep It - by Submitted on Aug 20, 2010 from Peggy FergusonThere is the "should" that says that you should be able to solve your own problems without help. Here is the rationale: "If your relationship has enough tension and strain that help is needed, the relationship is not going to make it anyway, so why waste time and money with counseling?" The ...
Views: 2041 - My Husband Has Emotionally Checked Out Of Our Marriage: No Emotional Connection In Relationship - by Submitted on Jun 02, 2018 from John BraxtonMy Husband Has Emotionally Checked Out Of Our Marriage: No Emotional Connection In Relationship If your husband has become distant your mind may be imagining all kinds of scenarios to explain his behavior. It's easy to jump to conclusions when the person you love most in the world suddenly ...
Views: 2040 - Breaking Up Is Hard to Do - by Submitted on Oct 20, 2012 from Amy TorresSaying the words, "I want to break up," whether with respect to a marital relationship or any other committed romantic relationship, is one of the hardest things a human being ever has to do. Making the conscious choice to end one of the strongest bonds we have ever made frightens us to our ...
Views: 2039(2 votes) - I Hurt My Husband Feelings: With This Secret You Can Win Back His Love - by Submitted on Aug 27, 2018 from Jennifer SageI Hurt My Husband Feelings: With This Secret You Can Win Back His Love If you are a woman frustrated that the love is gone from your marriage then it makes sense for you to wonder "will my husband ever love me again", you are certainly not the first to ask that. Perhaps your marriage has ...
Views: 2038(1 vote) - How to Stop Divorce and Save Your Relationship Before It's Too Late! - by Submitted on Nov 14, 2011 from John VickiDivorce is asked for when your partner can no longer resist the pressure and tension of the relationship. It means that your partner is maybe feeling smothered that is why he or she wants to get rid of all those frustration. This article reveals how to stop divorce and save your ...
Views: 2037 - Divorce Poison - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2012 from Cameron A Bailey SrDivorce poison is when a spouse is bad mouthed in front of their children. It also can occur when the other parent is absence. I can even remember it happening just because the child reminds you of the other parent or even looks like the other parent. Divorce poison can also have an impact on ...
Views: 2033 - Parental Alienation Syndrome - by Submitted on Mar 10, 2005 from Robert EvansParental Alienation Syndrome In 1985 Dr. Richard Gardner (M.D.) coined the phrase "parental alienation syndrome (PAS)". Dr. Gardner defines PAS as "a childhood disorder that arises almost exclusively in the context of child-custody disputes." Primarily it is the child’s campaign of denigration ...
Views: 2029(1 vote) - Discipline for Single Parents - by Submitted on Jun 24, 2010 from Armin BrottDear Mr. Dad: I'm a single parent and I'm finding it harder and harder to keep my kids in line. When I was married the two of us could back each other up. But now that I'm alone I don't seem to have the energy to take a stand. What can I do to regain control? A: At one time or another, all ...
Views: 2027(5 votes) - Newly Single and the Holidays - by Submitted on Dec 01, 2009 from Meghan GehanFor those going through or recently divorced, the holidays add another layer of stress and anxiety: Will I need to interact with my ex? How do I handle the questions and advice from my family? How will I cope with being alone? How do I help my children through this time? This holiday season ...
Views: 2026(2 votes) - Divorcee Financial Tips for Newly Singles - by Submitted on Jun 02, 2015 from Latorria FreemanIf your marriage has ended and you’re single again, make sure all your financial arrangements reflect your new status of SINGLE. Here are a few tips to help get your new financial life off to a good start. TIP #1: Change Your Beneficiary. A divorce may not have an automatic effect on ...
Views: 2020 - A SIMPLE ANECDOTE FOR HEALING A BROKEN HEART - by Submitted on Dec 09, 2012 from Adrian (AJ) GarciaIt was always surprising to me how people can do that so quickly; going from one relationship to another with apparent ease. With the mind of a gypsy moth they can get on with their lives as they leave another life behind. It’s akin to a light switch; one can turn it ‘on’ or ‘off’ with the ...
Views: 2018 - 7 Effective Tips to Maximise Your Outsourcing Experience - by Submitted on Jul 17, 2012 from Oliver ScottOkay, so you've employed the services of an agency, call centre, lead generation company, freelancer or any kind of outsourcing job in order to perform some work on your behalf. But whatever the work is, may it be gathering sales leads in UK, telemarketing services, data profiling services, data ...
Views: 2017 - Even Divorce Can Be A Positive Defining Moment - by Submitted on Jul 23, 2008 from Anyaa H'redullaWhat prompts a defining moment in life? Are we always aware of its significance? Some events are definitely easier to identify than others, such as a marriage, or the birth of a child. Others are less obvious. Take an innocent thought I happened to think more than twenty years ago. I was ...
Views: 2017 - Is Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Worth It? - by Submitted on Dec 08, 2009 from Shane BoydIf you’ve been cheated on then you know the feeling that fills your stomach after you found out about the affair. You also know all too well the anger and emotional discord this selfish act has caused you and the sleepless nights it has left behind. After the initial anger and heartbreak pass ...
Views: 2014(3 votes) - How To Identify What The Question "Should I get a divorce" Means To You - by Submitted on Feb 29, 2004 from Karl AugustineDeciding about whether you should get a divorce or not is an agonizing experience to go through. If you are asking yourself "should I get a divorce?", you've been thinking about your relationship's state for a while or an isolated incident that occurred was so terrible, that you want to just ...
Views: 2013 - My Husband Said He Cheated Because He Wanted Me To Desire And Appreciate Him More: How To Fix Your Marriage When One Of You Had An Affair - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyMy Husband Said He Cheated Because He Wanted Me To Desire And Appreciate Him More: How To Fix Your Marriage When One Of You Had An Affair Dealing with an affair is no easy task but luckily there are many resources out there to help you get over the affair and have a happy marriage. An affair ...
Views: 2013 - How To Survive Your First Christmas Alone While Your Child Spends It with the Ex - by Submitted on Dec 27, 2011 from Debbi DickinsonMy daughter was 7 years old when she spent her first Christmas with my Ex after the divorce. Having spent the 3 prior Christmas’ with just the two of us, the thought of not having her with me filled me with mixed emotion. To add to this, I do not have any family that lives within 1000 miles of ...
Views: 2009 - Stupid Cupid - by Submitted on Jun 11, 2012 from Tina TessinaMiley Cyrus is only 19, and she's just gotten engaged to Liam Hemsworth. Will it last? Well, the fact that it's a celebrity match is not in its favor -- celebrity couples don't have a great track record. As a little pre-wedding gift, here's what Miley and Liam can do to make sure they're ready ...
Views: 2008(2 votes) - My Wife Wants A Divorce But I Still Love Her: How To Deal With Divorce When You Don't Want It - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2021 from Bentley MilesMy Wife Wants A Divorce But I Still Love Her: How To Deal With Divorce When You Don't Want It You always thought that you made a dutiful husband who loved his wife dearly. So when your wife has a change of mind, and wants to leave the relationship - you are shocked, hurt and feel horrible. Is ...
Views: 2007 - Thinking of Leaving? - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2009 from Adele CornishI regularly receive emails from men and women worldwide who are seeking advice on their blended family. These come to me here in New Zealand, a small but famous country southeast of Australia. Sometimes these emails are from individuals saying they want to leave their relationship. Here I ...
Views: 2006(6 votes) - Letting Go of an Unsatisfying Intimate Relationship: Why Many Don’t Have the Courage for & why it is Healthy and Important - by Submitted on Mar 27, 2013 from Doron GilAt times, letting go is very healthy. Yet there are many who don’t have the courage to let go, and they resort to various reasons and justifications to explain – to themselves and to others – why they stay stuck in a bad relationship. While staying they might be “obsessed” about their partner, ...
Views: 2004 - Coping with a Break-Up and Rejection - by Submitted on Aug 13, 2013 from Darlene LancerRejection and break-ups are especially hard for codependents. They can trigger hidden grief and cause irrational guilt, anger, shame, and fear. Working through the following issues can help you let go and move on. Codependents often blame themselves or their partner. They have low ...
Views: 2002(2 votes) - My Husband Calls Me Names and Swears At Me: What to Do When Your Husband Swears At You - by Submitted on Sep 01, 2018 from Jennifer SageMy Husband Calls Me Names and Swears At Me: What to Do When Your Husband Swears At You If your marriage is struggling, and you find yourself dealing with conflict-resolving issues with your spouse, you may be wondering if divorce is the only option left. After all, the loving feelings you ...
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