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Views: 2250 - My Husband Opposes Everything I Say: How To Deal With Argumentative Spouse - by Submitted on Aug 28, 2018 from Jennifer SageMy Husband Opposes Everything I Say: How To Deal With Argumentative Spouse It is important to communicate with "I" messages for the obvious reasons. The most immediately obvious advantage is that "I" messages are not as likely to elicit defensiveness. With this communication change, we are ...
Views: 2249 - My Husband's Drinking Is Ruining Our Marriage: How To Talk To Your Husband About His Drinking - by Submitted on Sep 09, 2018 from Jennifer SageMy Husband's Drinking Is Ruining Our Marriage: How To Talk To Your Husband About His Drinking As much as men take pride in their habits, there are a lot that we need to change. For instance, men take pride in saying that they are the "hardest" drinkers on this planet. Someone mentions that to ...
Views: 2249 - Infidelity - How to Help your spouse Heal from Your affair - by Submitted on Sep 16, 2016 from Nicola Beer* If you’ve had an affair, are regretful and desperate to save your marriage, don't let another mistake-ridden day go by without reading these tips. * If you are the betrayed spouse and your cheating partner is unintentionally hurting you in his/her attempts to make you feel better, put this ...
Views: 2248 - How Do I Know If My Wife Doesn't Love Me Anymore: Does My Wife Love Me Signs - by Submitted on Jun 30, 2018 from Henry JosephHow Do I Know If My Wife Doesn't Love Me Anymore: Does My Wife Love Me Signs You think you're able to read your wife's mind pretty well after all these years, right? Any man who answers that question with a resounding and firm "yes" is a rarity. Most married men will confess that they often ...
Views: 2244 - A Letter to Sara, My Deceased Ex-Wife - by Submitted on Jan 25, 2011 from Bill McLeodDear Sara; It’s been almost three and a half years since you passed away, five years since we divorced and seven years since you left me to be a sole parent to Jack and Michaela. I figured that maybe now we should talk again. First let me update you on the kids. Jack for the most part is ...
Views: 2243 - How To Treat A Cheating Husband: How To Make A Cheating Husband Feel Guilty - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2021 from Carmen JimenaHow To Treat A Cheating Husband: How To Make A Cheating Husband Feel Guilty The prevalent hedonistic culture in the world today, convinces people that the pursuit of personal pleasure outstrips all other considerations. Fidelity in marriage has become a casualty. Marriage which was considered ...
Views: 2237 - Divorce Stress? Coping with Loneliness on the Roller-Coaster - by Submitted on Aug 06, 2009 from Stress-Relief Author/Expert Susie MantellQ: I’m a little embarrassed to admit this as an accomplished 47-year-old professional, but even though I am relieved to be finalizing our divorce, I think some of the stress I’m experiencing since our separation is actually ...loneliness. How can I get past that? A: Every journey through ...
Views: 2235 - My Wife Is Leaving Me: My Wife Wants To Leave Me Should I Let Her Go - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2021 from Carmen JimenaMy Wife Is Leaving Me: My Wife Wants To Leave Me Should I Let Her Go If you are asking me "my wife is leaving me, what can I do?", then I may tell you that you are in the right place. Actually, there are things that you can do to save your marriage. Now, I'm not going to waste your time. ...
Views: 2230 - How To Change Myself To Save My Marriage: How To Change Yourself For Your Husband - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2021 from Baker JackHow To Change Myself To Save My Marriage: How To Change Yourself For Your Husband Do I have your attention? Are you thinking I am blaming you for your marriage? That is not my intention. The reality is, though, that you are searching for help with your marriage. So, there is nothing I can ...
Views: 2226 - My Husband Choked Me For The First Time: My Husband Choked Me Once During A Fight - by Submitted on Jan 08, 2019 from Colten ReeseMy Husband Choked Me For The First Time: My Husband Choked Me Once During A Fight This seems counter-intuitive, but a happily married couple will often tell you: "Always finish an argument before going to bed." How does that make sense? I wanted to ask, "This works?" and I am thinking, "How ...
Views: 2221 - How Discipline Gave Me Freedom - by Submitted on Jul 19, 2012 from Debbi DickinsonDiscipline was one of those words I truly disliked for a long time. Growing up I associated discipline with negative words like detention or being grounded. As I became an adult, the word started changing meaning into being rigid, inflexible and most importantly boring. The last thing I ...
Views: 2218 - How to raise self esteem after a divorce - by Submitted on Nov 19, 2010 from Michelle SearsGoing through a divorce can leave you feeling unhappy or disconnected with yourself, even hopeless sometimes. How to raise self esteem after a divorce may not have even crossed your mind yet. But the main area of your life that is affected is your self esteem. Because self esteem is ...
Views: 2215(6 votes) - Sad Break Up Quotes Ideas - by Submitted on Dec 28, 2010 from Ladan LashkariAre you looking for sad break up quotes? When you are going through a breakup, these quotes may help you bring more peace to your broken heart. Break ups are not easy, but with the right help, you can make them pass more easily so you can move on faster and get back to your ...
Views: 2214(2 votes) - Innocent Bystanders Who Aid and Abet Parental Alienation Syndrome - by Submitted on Aug 08, 2011 from Les LinetIn Parental Alienation Syndrome, courts, attorneys, police, social workers, therapists, and friends often assume that what the presumably frightened alienating parent is saying is true. People may believe fabrications by the alienator because the kinds of abuse the alienator claims DO and are ...
Views: 2213(6 votes) - Ten Things to Do in February If You're Single - by Submitted on Feb 05, 2010 from Meghan GehanValentine’s Day. Here it comes again. Last year we ran a list of things you can do if you’re single in February, and got a great response. So this year, we’re updating the list with some new ideas for how to spend this highly commercialized ‘holiday’. Because even though you may not want to ...
Views: 2208(4 votes) - Husband Leaves House When Angry: Husband Leaves During Argument - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2018 from Jennifer SageHusband Leaves House When Angry: Husband Leaves During Argument Marriage can be an incredible battle zone, with insults and hurtful comments flying like warheads to harm combatants, where the fallout is what's left of the relationship in the aftermath. Or, in rare or uncommon instances, ...
Views: 2205 - ***Gifting Yourself Strategies - by Submitted on Aug 19, 2007 from Carolyn EllisSometimes society causes people to buy into the hype and commercialism of how to be good to your spouse, partner, or significant other. Valentine's Day is a huge example. Suggested gifts like roses appear on every street corner. Advertising promoting lingerie and jewelry appear everywhere you ...
Views: 2204 - Are you in a Toxic Relationship? Should you Stay or Go? - by Submitted on Jan 08, 2017 from Laney Zukerman The Relationship CoachAre you in a TOXIC Relationship? Are you questioning if you should stay or go? Empowerment Coaching can help. Breaking away from a toxic relationship is very difficult. You may be suffering from emotional abuse, or you may be addicted to an unhealthy love relationship ...
Views: 2204(1 vote) - Dating My Husband While Separated: Should I Date My Husband While We Are Separated - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2021 from Carmen JimenaDating My Husband While Separated: Should I Date My Husband While We Are Separated Ideally, marriage is a lifetime commitment but we all know that only few marriages managed to endure the test of time. Although two individuals are united as one in a marriage, the reality of marriage life is ...
Views: 2198 - My Husband Feels Neglected: Wife Neglecting Husbands Needs - by Submitted on Jan 08, 2019 from Colten ReeseMy Husband Feels Neglected: Wife Neglecting Husbands Needs Many married couples particularly those who both work are successful in their respective professions. But it does not necessarily follow that they're successful as well in their personal relationship. So what are they to do ...
Views: 2196 - ***7 Things You Should Know about Your First Post-Divorce Serious Relationship - by Submitted on Feb 14, 2014 from Dr. LeslieBeth (LB) WishWell, you got through your divorce, settled in to your new life as best you can, and now you are in your first important, post-divorce intimate relationship. You’re excited and relieved — yet also wary. You wonder if this new relationship is a go? Your doubts are not unfounded. After all, ...
Views: 2195 - Husband Spends Money Without Telling Me: What To Do When Your Husband Hides Money From You - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2021 from Maci AspenHusband Spends Money Without Telling Me: What To Do When Your Husband Hides Money From You Dealing with financial problems in marriage can cause serious marriage troubles. The emotional pain, stress, and marital discord can even produce marriage breakups if not handled properly. How couples ...
Views: 2194 - Dear Dr. Romance: Although I had to let go, I still care a lot. - by Submitted on May 30, 2013 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance Your articles are very helpful to me. Can you tell me what book of yours can help me heal from my last relatioship. The pain is still there and although I am sure I had to let go, I still care a lot. Dear Reader: I'm sorry you're hurting. I know how ...
Views: 2193 - How To Get Over a breakup - by Submitted on Oct 18, 2012 from Kevin ThompsonSharing an unhealthy relationship ultimately leads to the decision of a break up. People consider parting away a better option than staying together and arguing maximum times. But after they part away they realise that it is very painful to live without your love whenever you remember the ...
Views: 2188 - Read This if You Need to Get Through to Your Wife When She's Leaving - by Submitted on Mar 26, 2012 from Jacob ElichmannIf you are like most men, then when your wife told you that she wanted to leave, it left you with one feeling above all: Fear. And yeah, sure, maybe a little bit of anger to… But I'm willing to bet that if you really stop for a second – take a deep breath – to examine yourself (at your own ...
Views: 2187(1 vote) - When Is Grieving "Done"? - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2010 from Peter GerlachSTARTING IN INFANCY, all wholistically-healthy people form emotional and perhaps spiritual attachments (bonds) to tangible and invisible things. Life on Earth decrees that these bonds will be broken by chance or choice, causing losses. We may start grieving before an foreseen occurs, or be ...
Views: 2187 - Coping with a Debilitating Divorce - by Submitted on Sep 29, 2010 from Alvin PoliranA marriage breakup is regarded as one of the toughest problems that anybody can undergo in their lifetime. Quitting a married relationship leads to a a variety of feelings and problems that can threaten to overwhelm and destroy anyone. Dealing with the breakdown of a spousal relationship is much ...
Views: 2185(2 votes) - How To Succeed Without Succeeding - Or, By Wearing the Right Shoes - by Submitted on Feb 02, 2012 from Teri GoetzOk, did I get your attention? What I mean is, have you ever considered that we might better succeed by NOT getting what we think we want? That sounds counter intuitive to all the counsel I give about thinking positively, dreaming our dreams and writing affirmations – ALL of which are hugely ...
Views: 2179 - Dear Dr. Romance: Should a Mother Push Her Daughter to Contact Her Estranged Father? - by Submitted on Apr 25, 2013 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: If the child has not had a real relationship with her father for many years and does not see him more than 2 times per year, should a mother keep pushing a relationship with the father and child? Will it do more harm than good? Dear Reader: There is no way I ...
Views: 2178(4 votes) - Divorce: Dealing with the First Emotions - by Submitted on Sep 20, 2012 from Edward Lewellen"I’m leaving you!” That may have been you that heard those words or said them. And, now, every time when you think about it, all of the emotional trauma returns to haunt you once again. Divorce is rarely, if ever, a reaction to a single event. It has taken time to develop. Time to ...
Views: 2177 - How to Free Yourself From Stress After Your Divorce - by Submitted on Jan 03, 2012 from Diane AdkinsMany people misuse their mind power during and after a divorce. Instead of using their minds to help them build better lives, they create stress for themselves, essentially destroying their own happiness and imprisoning themselves in pain, anger, and depression. If you're ready to release ...
Views: 2176 - The Different Experiences of Divorce - by Submitted on Jun 29, 2010 from Merlene BishopTHE DIFFERENT EXPERIENCES OF DIVORCE Copyright by Merlene Bishop Divorce is a complex process involving legal, emotional, and economic aspects as well as learning to be a collaborative co-parent. The emotional aspect of divorce often begins long before the economic and legal. It ...
Views: 2174(1 vote) - Divorce Stress? Asking for Help During/Following Separation - by Submitted on Aug 06, 2009 from Stress-Relief Author/Expert Susie MantellOverworked? Overwhelmed? Divorce can be one of life's most stressful experiences and indeed, starting out again on one's own is about a new kind of Independence. But it’s also a time when friends and loved ones can be a wonderful support network. And even as we are feeling a little lost or ...
Views: 2172 - How My GPS Reminded Me of Faith - by Submitted on Jul 19, 2012 from Debbi DickinsonGrand Dude and I are training for a fall marathon. We both have all the gadgets, shoes, etc. I have a GPS watch that I absolutely adore. It frees me from marked trails since it'll keep tabs of how far I've run. Last week I was on one of my long runs and about the last mile, the battery ...
Views: 2170 - I Can't Stop Crying About My Divorce: Grieving The End Of The Marriage - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2021 from Maci AspenI Can't Stop Crying About My Divorce: Grieving The End Of The Marriage Divorce is a word that we see and hear everywhere. In our daily lives divorce attorneys solicit their services in commercials, billboards, print media and flyers. Television shows and films trivialize divorce as it's ...
Views: 2165 - Beyond the Grief of Divorce - 7 Steps Toward New Beginnings - by Submitted on Jan 26, 2009 from Jonathan HuieIf you have been divorced, you know it hurts - especially if your marriage had lasted many years. Whatever the circumstances of your relationship, and whatever the nature of its ending, there is always grief and regret - perhaps regret over the ending or perhaps regret over not ending the ...
Views: 2162(2 votes) - LOSSES OF DIVORCE: LETTING GO and MOVING ON - by Submitted on Sep 29, 2010 from Darlene LancerEven if you wanted the divorce, it entails loss. Aside from the ending of the relationship with your spouse, you may be losing your home, time with your children, in-laws, extended family, and even friends. There are inevitable financial losses, loneliness, a change of lifestyle, imagined ...
Views: 2152(1 vote) - How To Fix A Failing Marriage: Ways To Save A Failing Marriage - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2021 from Baker JackHow To Fix A Failing Marriage: Ways To Save A Failing Marriage It can be quite challenging and frustrating trying to save a failing marriage. If your spouse is very serious about leaving, it can be a very traumatic and depressing experience. Here are a few tips on how to save a failing ...
Views: 2144 - Kim Kardashian Highlights Distinction Between Romance & Fantasy - by Submitted on Jan 06, 2012 from Teagin Maddox,The recent split between Kim and Kris Humphries has been scrutinized to death and Kim has been heavily, and unfairly criticize. The break-up happened because Kim Kardashian came to her senses and realized he wasn’t the catch she thought he was. Why does everyone fault her for that? ...
Views: 2142(1 vote) - Divorce Is A Legitimate Choice - by Submitted on Jan 28, 2008 from Dr. Jackie BlackFor many men and women in a wide variety of situations divorce is a legitimate and appropriate choice. Getting divorced is a process and consists of 3 main elements: • Emotional • Financial • Legal Healing from divorce is not easy. It is often a long and excruciating process and always ...
Views: 2140 - My Husband Says He Is Not In Love Anymore Because He Is Not Attracted To Me : He Said He's Not Attracted To Me - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2021 from Weston BrantleyMy Husband Says He Is Not In Love Anymore Because He Is Not Attracted To Me : He Said He's Not Attracted To Me So, what do you do when your husband no longer loves you? It happens so often in marriages. One side just... falls out of love, and the other side is quick to realize this, ...
Views: 2137 - Long distance custody arrangements - by Submitted on Apr 07, 2011 from Jainarain (Jai) KissoonShared parenting from separate households is difficult in its own right, but when the separate homes are hundreds if not thousands of miles away from each other shared parenting can be near impossible without tools. The potential for lack of regular contact with the parent who is not close can ...
Views: 2133(1 vote) - ***Should I Try To Save My Marriage? - by Submitted on Oct 10, 2013 from Dr. Charles and Dr Elizabeth SchmitzBy America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts. As we have said for many years, “Most marriages and relationships are worth saving and can be saved, but not all!” Here’s what we mean. In the case of abuse – sexual, physical, mental – many failing marriages and relationships are simply not ...
Views: 2131(24 votes) - Getting A Good Night's Sleep Through Divorce - by Submitted on Sep 08, 2012 from Allison PescosolidoSleep is one of our most precious resources. It is vital to our health and well being. Just as we need food for energy, we need sleep to relax and recharge. During sleep the body renews its energy, releases growth hormones, and heals. In times of extreme relationship stress, especially in ...
Views: 2131 - How To Deal With In-Laws Living With You: Mother-In-Law Living With Us Ruining Marriage - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2021 from Carmen JimenaHow To Deal With In-Laws Living With You: Mother-In-Law Living With Us Ruining Marriage Life is full of challenges, and the marriage institution is not without its fair share of them. Every time we go through tough times, we have the opportunity of turning them around for our good or letting ...
Views: 2130 - I Think I'm Going To Be Single For Awhile... - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2011 from Bill McLeodIt seems that I am always getting emails from people asking me what the secret to happiness is as a single parent? So many of these people are just plain unhappy being single as, a single parent. They seem to believe that they need to be with someone in order to validate their life. Then I get ...
Views: 2130 - Reasons You Aren't Starting the Decision Making Process About Whether To Get a Divorce Or Stay Married - by Submitted on Jun 12, 2004 from Karl AugustineAlong with any tough decision comes reluctance, especially when that decision involves an actual process and might potentially involve emotional pain or anguish. Deciding whether or not to get a divorce or stay married can be a frightening time for most people, even if they know deep inside ...
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