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- Sex, Marriage and Compatibility - Soul Mate Connections Are Not What You Think - by Submitted on Sep 09, 2007 from Scott & Stephen PetulloSometimes people are drawn together like magnets, yet the compatibility is questionable. It’s not smooth sailing to say the least, and trying to make it permanent is akin to strapping a 45lb weight to your back for the rest of your life. Might the inability to part ways, the intense draw, ...
Views: 1920 - Marriage, Divorce & Soul Mates - Expectation of a Lifetime Partner is Rooted in Fear - by Submitted on Sep 07, 2007 from Scott & Stephen PetulloIf a woman is attracted to a man, it’s in her best interest to tell him. Many guys won’t flirt or make it clear that they are romantically interested in you until you make it obvious that you are interested too. Don’t over-analyze it, just go with the flow and realize that ...
Views: 938 - Tao of Approaching Celebrities - by Submitted on Sep 06, 2007 from Ali BinazirTime for another installment of Tao Power for you. I'm going to start with a letter from a reader that was so powerful that it even got me to sit up and pay attention: ***SUCCESS STORY*** From: Will F. Subject: I am now totally rejection-proof. Dr Alex, I am now absolutely 100% totally ...
Views: 1118 - Soul Mates, Twin Flames, & Your Love Life - Why You Can't Always Get What You Want - by Submitted on Sep 06, 2007 from Scott & Stephen PetulloWe are convinced, based on our research, that everyone has many soul mates, not just one, and no soul mate connections are perfect. There are many “experts” who say you can meet your “soul mate” simply by purchasing their love spell, following their plan, reading their ...
Views: 1391 - Are You Staying in a Bad Relationship Just to Have a Woman? - by Submitted on Sep 05, 2007 from Don DiebelThis week I will focus on men who stay in bad relationships with single women. Some men think that it's better to have a woman - any woman - than no woman at all. My friend, nothing could be further from the truth. By being trapped in a bad or unsatisfying relationship that doesn't satisfy ...
Views: 859 - Power Attitudes for Dating - by Submitted on Sep 05, 2007 from Ali BinazirHey there, gentlemen (and some ladies, too). Hope things are going well. I've been getting a good number of great questions from you guys, so thanks for that. In the meantime, let's get to this letter, which sets up today's topic by bringing up some excellent points: "I recently met a very ...
Views: 918 - How to Get Back Into Dating - by Submitted on Sep 05, 2007 from Dr. Dennis NederDear Dr. Neder: I have been divorced for 16 years and focused most of that time on raising my two children. I have dated a few men however I seem to be attracted to losers. Now that my kids are grown I would like to find someone to settle down with again. It is hard to find single men my age. ...
Views: 721 - The 100% Effective Way To Have More Women in Your Life Than You Can Possibly Handle - by Submitted on Sep 04, 2007 from Ali BinazirNear the conclusion of this newsletter, I'm going to give you a revolutionary, shockingly effective method to bring more women into your life than you ever imagined possible. You don't have to buy anything. You don't have to attend any seminars. It costs nothing. And it works 100% of the time ...
Views: 960 - Talking To Women In Bars - by Submitted on Sep 03, 2007 from Rod CortezMark was talking to a woman in a crowded, noisy bar so he made sure he spoke loudly so she could hear him. Everything seemed to be going well for the first minute or so and then she appeared to lose interest, grabbed her girlfriend and said "sorry, we gotta go". A few minutes later Mark saw ...
Views: 6411 - How To Learn From Breakups (& The Central Challenge Of Dating And Relationships) - by Submitted on Sep 03, 2007 from Ali BinazirToday, I want to talk to you about breakups...and what they can teach you about relationships, yourself, and what really matters to you. Recently, I was dating this really great woman. She was feisty, she was beautiful, she was cool and fun and adventurous, and we really cared for each ...
Views: 2650 - Love, Relationships & Reincarnation – Power of Love & Forgiveness Won’t Allow You to Cheat Fate - by Submitted on Sep 03, 2007 from Scott & Stephen PetulloThrough our research, we’ve found that a wonderfully harmonious bond (and variations of it) between two people, whether it is a work, family, friendship, or love relationship, is either there, or it isn’t. We’ve also found that past lives with other people strongly influence what is experienced ...
Views: 887 - The Best Way to Kiss Women - by Submitted on Sep 02, 2007 from Ali BinazirToday I'm going to talk about one of our favorite topics of all time—Kissing Girls. The way I think about it, there are certain milestones in a relationship. You can pretty much divide a relationship with a woman into two distinct periods: the Era Before the First Kiss, and the Era After the ...
Views: 8155(4 votes) - *** Letting Go and Feeling Good - by Submitted on Sep 02, 2007 from Debi BerndtWhether you are searching for the love of your life, on a mission to lose weight, or just trying to get your business off the ground, there may be a time when things are not moving forward. When feeling stuck, you may start to give attention to what is not happening and what is wrong. Focusing ...
Views: 1030 - Relationships & Marriage – Commitment Has Nothing to do With Unconditional Love - by Submitted on Sep 01, 2007 from Scott & Stephen PetulloRecently someone told us that he wants to marry and grow old with his girlfriend. But to his disappointment, she told him that true love is unconditional, without expectations, and that he should be happy just to be with her without any promises. He said that he thinks she really doesn’t love ...
Views: 1388 - Compatibility, Love, & Subconscious Mind - What a Handwriting Analyst Can Tell You About Your Lover - by Submitted on Aug 31, 2007 from Scott & Stephen PetulloA well-trained graphologist (handwriting analyst) can certainly identify personality strengths, challenges, and potential relationship problems, but he/she won’t tell you if you should marry or not. That decision is up to you. Before committing to a life together (as with traditional marriage), ...
Views: 1099 - Learn How to Attract Men - Great Tips to Mesmerize Men - by Submitted on Aug 29, 2007 from Michael LeeThe dating scene is a lot more competitive these days, so you should definitely step up and do more to learn how to attract men. You may find it difficult at first to figure out what exactly it is that men want and are looking for, but you can still easily take some steps in being an attractive ...
Views: 5090 - How to Get One Night Stands - by Submitted on Aug 29, 2007 from Dr. Dennis NederHi Dennis! I like this girl but she says she’s not ready for a serious relationship right now and wants to be by herself for a while. I’m respecting that and just being her friend right now. I want to really enjoy my youth as much as I can and I don’t want anything serious with anyone but her ...
Views: 3131 - How to Handle Flaking For Good (And Avoid the 3.2 Billionth Position) - by Submitted on Aug 28, 2007 from Ali BinazirI want to start out this discussion on how to deal with flaking with a letter from Jay, one of my students: "Hey, Dr. Alex~ Love your material... Thank you very much! I have a situation I was hoping to have your personal opinion on... So at a wedding in July, I met my cousin's live-in nanny ...
Views: 953 - Love & Relationships From a Spiritual Viewpoint – 3 Reasons People Get Into Bad Relationships - by Submitted on Aug 28, 2007 from Scott & Stephen PetulloIt’s very common for people to be inexplicably drawn into bad relationships. Why does this happen? Life on earth is all about personal lessons. While relationships may not always give us what we want, they always offer potential for spiritual growth. The main reason you are drawn to those who ...
Views: 1033 - Relationships: Mysteries Of Attraction - by Submitted on Aug 28, 2007 from Margaret PaulWe are attracted to each other at our common level of woundedness and our common level of health. What does this mean? For example, Jackson, a very attractive man in his early 50s, had been married three times and had been in many relationships. He consulted with me because he was tired of ...
Views: 3536 - Numerology, Astrology & Graphology – Tools to Further Understanding, Thus Love, in Relationships - by Submitted on Aug 27, 2007 from Scott & Stephen PetulloWhen working with numerology, it's good to consider your interpretation of what the aspects reflect, yet it's also a good idea to remain detached from the analysis. Being detached from it all is not easy, but with practice you'll be able to do it. There are two different paths you could take ...
Views: 1737 - How to Transcend Your #1 Hidden Impediment - by Submitted on Aug 27, 2007 from Ali BinazirI'm writing you from Amsterdam, from a window overlooking a canal on a rainy day. It's easy to dismiss rain as 'bad weather' and to frown at the mention of clouds. But that just reminds me of the old Hawaiian saying: 'No rain, no rainbows.' Moreover, rain and clouds have their own beauty: the ...
Views: 903 - 7 Steps To Improving Your Social Life and Meeting More Women - by Submitted on Aug 27, 2007 from Scott PattersonAn incredible social life is the cornerstone of a successful dating experience. When you know a lot of people, you’ll be in a position of having LOTS of opportunities for meeting interesting girls. But what can you do if you’re the type of guy who has a very unproductive social life? Well ...
Views: 713 - How to Get The Girl By Being The Girl 2 - by Submitted on Aug 26, 2007 from Ali BinazirWelcome to another empowering and enlightening Tao of Dating article. Let’s describe a scenario here (disclaimer: any similarity to what happened to me two nights ago is pure coincidence). Let's say you go to a social event -- a young professionals' mixer. As you get there, you notice a ...
Views: 1721 - How to Get the Girl By Being the Girl (And The Man) - by Submitted on Aug 25, 2007 from Ali BinazirWelcome to another empowering and enlightening edition of the Tao Power Dating lessons. Let's see what the mailbag has in store for us today... ***Letter from a woman*** Dr. Alex, My friend Bill forwarded your email to me. I think that your advice is excellent. I agree with your strategy ...
Views: 1048 - The Fastest Way to Improve Your Dating - by Submitted on Aug 24, 2007 from Ali BinazirHello, hola, buongiorno, hej, hei, dag, hallo, salut and g’day to you. I’m delighted to report that you guys, my valued clients and audience, come from all corners of the globe -- Norway, Australia, Italy, New Zealand, Germany, and the USA—to make the Tao of Dating a truly international ...
Views: 890 - 10 Tips on How to Give Yourself the Best Chance for Success on a First Date-Especially If You Have Never Met the Person Before! - by Submitted on Aug 24, 2007 from Amy SchoenToday’s dating advice for women and men, includes ten tips to set you up for success on a first date. Let's say you have been doing online dating during the last couple of weeks you have communicated with someone of interest via emails and several telephone conversations. There is obvious ...
Views: 2680 - Five Ways to Banish Rejection (And The Psychology of Beautiful Women) - by Submitted on Aug 23, 2007 from Ali BinazirSUBJECT: Five Ways to Banish Rejection (And The Psychology of Beautiful Women) AUTHOR: Dr. Alex Benzer Today I want to talk to you about the idea that you possess the ultimate solutions to all of your problems. Back when I first got started in hypnotherapy, one of the things that really drew ...
Views: 4942 - The FASTEST Way for Men to Improve Their Dating - by Submitted on Aug 23, 2007 from Ali BinazirHello, hola, buongiorno, hej, hei, dag, hallo, salut and g'day to you. I'm delighted to report that you guys, my valued readers, come from all corners of the globe -- Norway, Australia, Italy, New Zealand, Germany, and the USA -- to make the Tao of Dating a truly international community. Great ...
Views: 925 - Being “Too Shy” - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2007 from Dr. Dennis NederThere’s a new girl coming to our school this year. I want to make a good impression because I have a crush on her. Around school, I’m the clown, the guy who lightens things up with laughs but it usually involves embarrassing myself. I'm just too shy so its hard for me to ask her out or even talk ...
Views: 783 - Dating Rules for Women - Foolproof Dating Tips Every Woman Should Know - by Submitted on Aug 20, 2007 from Michael LeeIf the word ‘dating’ is as foreign to you as the Greek language, fear not. With these dating rules for women, there is always hope for you. If you wish to have an awesome time with your man, simply get acquainted first with these dating rules for women. Dates are like job ...
Views: 1113 - Common Dating And Relationship Mistakes Men Make - by Submitted on Aug 19, 2007 from Rod CortezUnless you plan on dating women for the rest of your life, dating and relationships go hand in hand. I've seen men who can approach any woman, build magnificent rapport, get her phone number, set up the first date, and then fail miserably at the relationship. In survey after survey, more than ...
Views: 1806 - Ten Keys to Getting Along With Single Women For Successful Dating and Seduction - by Submitted on Aug 16, 2007 from Don DiebelWhen with a woman on a date, under no circumstances whatsoever, look at and flirt with other women. This is just plain rude and disrespectful. It's very degrading to a woman and makes her feel very unimportant. It really hurts their feelings, especially if she is attracted to you. Don't play ...
Views: 576 - Sabotaging Your Relationship - by Submitted on Aug 15, 2007 from Dr. Dennis NederDear Dr. Neder: I came across your website as I was searching for “sabotaging relationships”. My "boyfriend" (of 3 intense months) has brought up that term for the third time. We are challenged by distance as he lives about an hour away from me. He works 6 days a week at a very intense job in a ...
Views: 782 - If You're Dating This Guy, Dump Him Now - by Submitted on Aug 13, 2007 from Terry Hernon MacDonladHas this ever happened to you? You meet a guy. He showers you with attention, calls when he says he will, introduces you to his friends, and makes you feel special. You're not sure he's right for you, but he's nice enough, so you give him a chance. After a while, you find yourself liking him. ...
Views: 947 - Romantic Sayings - Lighting Up the Romantic Flame - by Submitted on Aug 12, 2007 from Michael LeeFor all the hopelessly incurable romantics out there, there’s no better way to say “I love you” than romantic sayings that tug on your heartstrings and simply refuse to let go. These romantic sayings are legion, so if you have trouble coming up with your own, you can always ...
Views: 1461 - ***Why Men Don't Call After A Date - by Submitted on Aug 12, 2007 from Debi BerndtNo matter who you are or where you are in your dating search, there is always at least one time when the guy you are interested in does not call. Sure, you had a great date and felt like you had a real connection. He said he would call during the week but the call never comes. You really ...
Views: 2898 - Dating Advice: Why Won't He Make the First Move? - by Submitted on Aug 11, 2007 from Terry Hernon MacDonladCategory: Relationships :: Sexuality Word Count: 526 Dating Advice: When a Guy Won't Make the First Move By Terry Hernon MacDonald What does it mean when the man you're dating won't make the first move? The easy answer: He's just interested in being a friend. But the easy answer doesn't ...
Views: 16715(6 votes) - *** Biggest Dating Blunder When Looking For Mr. Right - by Submitted on Aug 08, 2007 from Debi BerndtIf you want to attract the love of your life, you need to make sure that all of your behaviors are congruent with that desire. Most singles find a man to fill in the void while they wait for Mr. Right to show up. I did this for years, hanging around Mr. Right Now's convincing myself it was ...
Views: 1023 - Pre-Qualifying a Woman’s Digits - by Submitted on Aug 08, 2007 from Dr. Dennis NederHi Dr. Neder, I LOVE your books! They really helped me and this letter is an example of what I’ve learned. I was walking out of this building on campus and by chance I see this girl walking next to me. Every one around was wearing kind of uniform for orientation and I thought that would be a ...
Views: 648 - Love Builds a (Gingerbread) House - by It has been our tradition these last few years to create a gingerbread house for Thanksgiving.
The first year I got a bit carried away and decided to create a gingerbread mansion. It was a couple of stories high and had wings and high pitched roofs. I designed it from scratch and made ...
Views: 961 - How To Have Natural Conversations With Women - by Submitted on Aug 05, 2007 from Rod CortezEver see a beautiful woman from afar and having the desire to want to have a conversation with her and yet watched her walk out of your life forever? There are many thoughts that go through our head when we want to approach a woman. "What do I say?" "Should I use a pickup line?" "Should I ...
Views: 1163 - The Dating Game - by Submitted on Aug 04, 2007 from Yana BerlinDating is never easy. Whether you’re 15, 20, 30 or Fabulously40 plus, dating always seems like a task better left to someone else. And the older you get the harder it gets. After all, at 15 we are naïve, at 20 we are gullible, at 30 we are determined to find “Mr. Right,” ...
Views: 1228 - ***Dealing with Dating Disappointments - by Submitted on Aug 04, 2007 from Debi BerndtIf there is one thing for certain, disappointment is a part of dating. Most people are in denial of this realization. They believe that they are going to join an online dating service and magically "the right one" will show up immediately. Many have that expectation because of the stories heard ...
Views: 4890 - Do You Get Emotional? - by Do you talk too much, laugh too loudly, swear too quickly? Is it an emotion that is unsatisfactory to you?
This might be a tough question, but what do you think you are trying to accomplish when you do this?
Maybe you are trying to get attention, but you are just going about it in the wrong ...
Views: 1004 - This Is My Play, I Am The Director - by For the last (you fill in the blank) ___ years, you have let others produce, direct and do everything but star in your play. You starred, but only as you were directed, from your parents, your teachers, your friends. Some good, some not so good.
From now on, wouldn’t you like to do the ...
Views: 777 - Approaching Women – Part 2 - by There are many signs that a woman gives when she is inviting you to come meet her. The more that you go out and involve yourself around women, the more you will be able to pick up on these signs. The most obvious sign is eye contact. Do you two make eye contact and does she smile? Are you two ...
Views: 575 - 5 Signs That You Have Met the "Right One" - by Submitted on Jun 04, 2014 from Amy SchoenToday’s dating tips for men and women are designed to help you know when you have found the right Motivated to Marry™ partner. Let’s say that Nancy is 38 and has been dating Barry for a year now and is wondering if he is the one for her. She would like to be married with a family and is ...
Views: 6278(1 vote) - Sure Ways to Know He's Cheating on You - by Submitted on Aug 01, 2007 from Semiramis AppiamoHow can you tell he’s cheating on you? No one wants to think their guy is cheating, but if you’re beginning to be suspicious, well, there there’s smoke there’s fire. Of course we psychics get a lot of calls about this – does he have another woman? Is he cheating on me? I haven’t seen him in ...
Views: 27495(6 votes) - Lost Without a Trace - by Submitted on Aug 01, 2007 from Dr. Dennis NederGood Morning --- I really enjoy reading your website! I would like to know, why do men sometimes just cut you off (no communication) when they are dealing with their problems. Long story short, I met someone last April --- things started out great, but then I found out he had been separated ...
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