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- Early Deprivation: Did An Abusive Parent Have A Form Of Psychosis? - by Submitted on Nov 03, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone were to think about their early years, they could remember some of the moments when they were mistreated. This may have been a stage of their life when they were often ignored, rejected, put down, humiliated, and even physically harmed. Therefore, the person or people who were ...
Views: 66 - Early Deprivation: Why Would A Man Have Had A Devouring Mother? - by Submitted on Oct 31, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man were to think about what his mother is like, he could think about someone who is controlling, critical, cold and domineering. Therefore, when he is around her, he is not going to feel free, supported, loved or valued. Due to this, he might think that he needs to spend as little time ...
Views: 66 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Was A Mother-Enmeshed Man Brought Up To Be His Mother's Emotional Regulator? - by Submitted on Nov 03, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man spends a lot of time doing things for his mother and often thinks about her when he is not with her, he is going to be directing a lot of his time and energy toward her. Thanks to this, he might not have much of a life. And, if he is dating or in a relationship with a woman, he might ...
Views: 66 - Early Deprivation: Can Someone Be An Emotional Caretaker If They Experienced Early Deprivation? - by Submitted on Oct 31, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperEven though someone is a separate human being who has their own feelings, needs and life to lead, it doesn’t mean that they will realise this. As a result, they can typically come across as though they are an extension of others and are here to meet their needs. So, when it comes to the ...
Views: 65 - Early Deprivation: Can Someone Find It Hard To Say No If They Had Abusive Parents? - by Submitted on Oct 31, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperWhat someone may find, if they were to step back and reflect on their life, is that it is difficult for them to make it clear when they don’t want to do something. Instead, they can find that they have the inclination to go along with things that they don’t want to do. They might see that ...
Views: 65 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Can A Woman Blame Mother-Enmeshed Men To Avoid Her Emotional Wounds? - by Submitted on Nov 03, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperNot too long ago, a woman may have been with a man who was overly focused on his mother. And, now that it is over, she could feel tired and confused, but also greatly relieved. This is because she is likely to have given a lot while receiving very little, and yet, no matter what she did, it ...
Views: 65 - Early Deprivation: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Unconsciously Look For A Mother And Father? - by Submitted on Nov 28, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone is an adult, it could be said that they will no longer need a mother or father. Now, this is not to say that their mother and father, that’s if they are still around, no longer have a purpose in their life. Of course, they will still be their parents, and they might enjoy being ...
Views: 64 - Repression: Can Repression Cause Someone To Be Aware But Unconscious? - by Submitted on Nov 17, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone has an area of their life that is not very fulfilling, they can look into what they can do to change it. During this time, they can learn about how, once they become aware of how they are behaving, they will be able to change the behaviours that are not serving them and thus, change ...
Views: 64 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Is A Woman Energetically Unavailable If She Ends Up With Mother-Enmeshed Men? - by Submitted on Nov 03, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperA few weeks or months ago, a woman may have been with a man who was overly focused on his mother. Due to this, he would have directed a lot of time and energy toward his mother, having very little time for her. At the beginning, though, he might have spent less time doing things for his ...
Views: 62 - Depression: Can Depression Be A Defence Against Pain? - by Submitted on Nov 03, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperEven though someone might have been able to function and perhaps function very well for most of their life, it could now be very difficult for them to do so. The reason for this is that they could generally have very little, if any, energy. If so, it won’t just be a challenge for them to do ...
Views: 61 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Can A Woman’s Unconscious Mind Cause Her To End Up With Mother-Enmeshed Men? - by Submitted on Nov 17, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIf a woman is in a position where she has been with a number of men who were overly focused on their mothers and emotionally out of reach, or even men who were emotionally unavailable, she is likely to be well and truly fed up. She could see that this area of her life has been this way for as ...
Views: 61 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Would Wouldn’t A Mother-Enmeshed Man Be Able To Accept That He Is Enmeshed? - by Submitted on Nov 03, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperA man can not only be overly focused on his mother, but he can also be oblivious to how caught up he is in her world. However, even if this was pointed out, it doesn’t mean that he would be able to see clearly. If, then, he were to end up dating a woman and she were able to see what was going ...
Views: 61 - Human Doing: Can Someone Act Like A Human Doing If They Had An Unavailable Mother? - by Submitted on Nov 28, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperEven though someone is a human being and can, thus, be as well as do, it can be as if they only have the ability to do. They are then going to be more like a human doing than a human being. So, practically from the moment that they wake up until the moment that they go to sleep, they can be ...
Views: 59 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Can A Woman Who Attracts Mother-Enmeshed Men Be Held Back By Her Friends? - by Submitted on Nov 17, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperAfter having been with a number of men who were overly focused on their mother and were emotionally out of reach, a woman could feel helpless and hopeless. If this is so, this won’t be a surprise, as this area of her life will be anything but affirming. Over the years, she might have shared a ...
Views: 59 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Is A Mother-Enmeshed Man’s Mother Unable To See Beyond Her Own Needs? - by Submitted on Nov 03, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man, who has the inclination to focus on and meet his mother's needs, were to step back and reflect on his life, what he may find is that he is ignoring himself. He can see that unless he is asleep or working, he is often doing things for her. What he can also see is that if he is not ...
Views: 59 - Early Deprivation: Can A Woman Be Emotionally Unavailable If She Experienced Early Deprivation? - by Submitted on Nov 17, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperFor a little while now, a woman might have wanted to be with a man who is not just physically but also emotionally available. In fact, she might have wanted this for most, if not all, of her adult life. What can then be normal is for her to have been with men who were physically in reach but ...
Views: 58 - Early Deprivation: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Lose The Ability To Feel Their Feelings? - by Submitted on Nov 28, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperAlthough someone has an emotional self, it doesn’t mean that they will always realise this. The reason for this is that they might typically be out of touch with how they feel. Due to this, they can have a lot going on at a mental level and often experience strong sensations, but that will be ...
Views: 58 - Relationships: Why Would A Man Get Back With A Woman Who Abused Him? - by Submitted on Nov 17, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperFor a number of weeks, months or even years, a man may have been in a relationship with a woman who didn’t treat him very well. This may have been a time when she would often put him down, humiliate him, disregard his needs and feelings, ignore him and even physically harm him. Due to this, ...
Views: 58 - Early Deprivation: Why Would Someone Continually Replay Their Depriving Childhood? - by Submitted on Nov 17, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone were to think about the last relationship they were in, they can be filled with frustration, anger and even a sense of despair. This can be because the person they were with was not unavailable. It could go further than this, though, as they might have been verbally and even ...
Views: 57 - Early Deprivation: Is It A Good Idea For An Abusive Parent To Contact Their Estranged Adult Child? - by Submitted on Nov 28, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperAt this point in time, a parent who didn’t treat their adult child very well throughout their early years may want to get back in touch with them and have a relationship with them. What this can show is that they haven’t spoken to them for weeks, months or even years. When they last spoke, ...
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