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- The Single's Guide to Healthy Self-esteem - by Submitted on Jul 08, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraMany people would agree that being single is fun, liberating and definitely much better than being in a relationship. However, not all singles have it easy all the time. Single women, especially, are at times faced with difficulties about how other people perceive their current status. Friends ...
Views: 1019(2 votes) - A Man Worth Keeping - by Submitted on Apr 19, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraFinding a man worth keeping these days is like going fishing in Citarum River, the word’s most polluted river- instead of finding a good catch, you find yourself surrounded with crap! To avoid wasting your time with crappy men, here are some guidelines to consider if the guy is a keeper or ...
Views: 1559(14 votes) - Adult Ear Infection, Particularly - by Submitted on Jun 30, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraEar infection manifests in adults but not as frequently compared to children. Once the Eustachian tube which is located near the inner ear becomes infected, then adult ear infection can occur. The Eustachian tube functions to equalize pressure between outside and inside the body as well as to ...
Views: 2265(4 votes) - Checklists For Divorce Mediator - by Submitted on May 14, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraAfter endless talks and arguments, you can’t take it anymore. Both of you have decided that divorce is the solution and there’s no other way. You can’t live another minute with each other anymore. So, one of you walks out of the house. So, now is the time to think of your checklists for your ...
Views: 1012(2 votes) - Do You Know Where Your Pleasure Spots Are? - by Submitted on Jun 22, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraWomen are notorious for their need to be touched. In fact, any man who wants to make their partner smokin’ hot in the bedroom must first learn the art of touching and have the patience for it. But, anyone who has mastered this skill can attest that it has awesome benefits, not only in the ...
Views: 1399(2 votes) - Drop Your Great Expectations And Live Lightly - by Submitted on Oct 26, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraLife is complicated, so as they say. But let me tell you something; it only becomes so when you got some great expectations. It's just a tiny thing to change: stop expecting. I know it takes practice to do so. If you can see things as they are without having great expectations, then life will be ...
Views: 935(2 votes) - Incorporating Aerobic Acitivity Into a Healthy Lifestyle - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraThere is no arguing that a guaranteed means of achieving overall wellness is through a healthy diet and a regular exercise regimen. A large percentage of individuals may be able to regulate their diet but still, majority may find it challenging to adhere to a regular exercise routine. It’s ...
Views: 1451(2 votes) - Karma Yoga for Happiness - by Submitted on Jun 08, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraWe know that Karma Yoga is mentioned in the Ishavasya Upanishad and the Bhagavad-Gita, but for so many students outside of India are quite unfamiliar with it. If you ask a class filled with students about the definition of Karma Yoga you will be quite lucky to get an answer. Karma Yoga is ...
Views: 933(2 votes) - Never Be Fooled Again- Know The Signs Of Real Orgasm - by Submitted on Apr 22, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraFace it, when it comes to giving a woman real orgasm is like being in the episode of CSI- elusive, mind-boggling and requires hard evidence. On the contrary, some cocky men brag that giving women real orgasm is like a walk in the park. But the truth of the matter is that, 75% of women cannot ...
Views: 8011(4 votes) - Start Your Motivational Speaking Career Now! - by Submitted on Apr 08, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraAs a motivational speaker and mentor, it is understood that you teach and train people the basic principles which work to produce wealth and happiness for themselves repeatedly. It is naturally deemed that any individual who has the interest and desire could begin a motivational speaking career ...
Views: 1172(2 votes) - The Definition Of Self Esteem - by Submitted on Jul 08, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraBasically, the definition of self esteem means: that you should be confident in whatever you’re doing that you should feel good both in mind and body giving due importance to yourself, having that positive attitude in you and most of all to be worthy of the love and happiness you always deserve. ...
Views: 1234(2 votes) - Is It Important To Discuss Your Sexual History? - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraIn just about any kind of relationship, honesty is one of the qualities that many people want, hands down. After all, who doesn’t want a truthful, genuine and honest partner? These traits are very important, particularly in an individual’s sexual relationship with another person. While sex for ...
Views: 1912(5 votes) - Can You Handle An Open Relationship? - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraOpen relationships are otherwise known as polygamous or polyamorous relationships. It is defined as a situation wherein couples go into mutual agreement to date and engage in sexual activity with other people although they still continue being in a relationship with each other. In the past, ...
Views: 3035(4 votes) - Sex Drive Boosters - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraSex isn’t just something that a lot of us enjoy; it’s also something that could improve health. Yes, sex is actually good for everyone! Studies prove that having sex regularly helps increase immunity from viruses, reduces stress, and also helps protect a man’s prostate gland by emptying the ...
Views: 1645(4 votes) - Conflict Resolution: Not As Easy As 1, 2 And 3 - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraWouldn’t it be great if we can just take a simple and easy test to resolve our conflicts and have a proper conflict resolution? A multiple choice test will be the best: 1. The individual you’re in conflict is? A) Demanding B) Controlling C) Indecisive. You can select from letter A, B, or C and ...
Views: 965(1 vote) - Gifted Children: Do You Have A Gifted Child? - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraGifted children are those kids whose talents, skills, potentials and abilities are so superior and exceptional that they set the child apart from their peers. Gifted children are often initially observed and identified when they excel in school, yet most parents of gifted kids suspect and notice ...
Views: 1285(1 vote) - Some Of The Signs Of Male Attraction - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraSo how could you really say or determine if a man is already attracted to you? Knowing the answers can tell if you find true love in your life. Well, what I am going to share with you are just some of the signs of male attraction. And some of these signs of male attraction are: 1. If a man ...
Views: 2031(5 votes) - The Top Habits Of Effective Liars-- Revealed! - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraFrom the person you're talking to, to your longtime trusted pal, how can you be so sure that they're not lying? How many times have you fallen prey to people's deception? A caveat: Take note that this list is to detect liars and not for you to practice! Really, can you spot liars? Never ...
Views: 1994(1 vote) - Achieving Weight Loss Goals - by Submitted on Jul 02, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraIn any way it is perceived, there are countless benefits to be gained from health and fitness. One can actually enjoy a positive cycle of feeling good because one is looking good and looking good as a result of feeling good. Health and fitness have so much to do with a person’s overall sense of ...
Views: 817(1 vote) - Age Difference in Dating - by Submitted on Jul 09, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraThe dating world can be an exciting place where people meet, hook up and form relationships of various kinds. On the other hand, it can be a daunting and challenging place too. First off, an individual has to know how to look around and find the right person to date. As the relationship goes to ...
Views: 3950(2 votes) - Are You Good In Bed? - by Submitted on Apr 22, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraBeing in a romantic relationship has its rewards. And one of these great rewards, other than having someone to love and be loved in return, is having the chance to experience the magic of sex. Sex may not be the only thing we think of in a relationship but it is something to consider. It may ...
Views: 1100(2 votes) - Augmenting Health with Iron Supplements - by Submitted on Jul 09, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraVitamin and mineral supplementation is now considered as an essential as aspect of a health regimen as the modern diet may not suffice in providing the body’s needed nutrients. Due to processing and the additives contained in today’s food products as well as the inability of a majority to enjoy ...
Views: 979(1 vote) - Be an Internet Millionaire with the Help of a Mentor - by Submitted on Jun 22, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraA mentor is an expert with thorough and comprehensive skills, knowledge and reputation of the Internet Marketing and constantly gives proper assistance, information, support and candid feedback. A mentor plays a great and pivotal role in determining the success of Internet Marketing business. In ...
Views: 777(1 vote) - Bichon Frise for Frustrated Pet Owners - by Submitted on Jun 29, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraSome people get tired of having a cuddly small pet that's only good for running around and just playing cute. To them that is something that can get tiresome at times, and create a desire to get something more out of the annoying but still lovable pooch. Teaching their current pets tricks and ...
Views: 1047(1 vote) - Bulldog + Mastiff = Bullmastiff - by Submitted on Jun 28, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraJudging by its name, the breed is the result of crossbreeding a Bulldog with a Mastiff. The need for a better guard dog was what triggered this combination. A faster and stronger dog was needed for the job, so this pooch came into the picture, which was more than enough for the job. The result ...
Views: 889(1 vote) - Catching Mr. Duplicity - by Submitted on May 24, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraDo you feel that your husband or boyfriend is cheating on you? Well, if your intuition is strongly nagging you that you are being duped, then you need to get to the bottom of it. Don’t allow a cheater to get away with his philandering. You deserve to be treated fairly and with respect! No one ...
Views: 2931(1 vote) - Choosing the Best Adsense Template - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraFor online marketers who are into Google AdSense program, having the best Adsense template is very essential to an effective advertising method. Succeeding in this Google advertising program is actually quite reliant on the strategies being employed by the affiliate marketer. The way you present ...
Views: 727(1 vote) - Core Fitness Exercises For The Abs And The Back - by Submitted on Dec 18, 2008 from Menno SpijkstraPerhaps there was an instance when you did some vigorous housework and attempted to lift something heavy. And suddenly, you felt a stabbing back pain. A fair diagnosis could be that you may have a weak core. What is your “core”? Actually, it is the seat of power for your whole body. ...
Views: 624(1 vote) - Create That Greatest Masterpiece In Your Life Now! - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraHave you ever thought about your career or work that you do as an art? Something like a form of personal and creative expression? We could easily beckon an image of an artist, sculptor, painter, musician, inventor or writer in their respective studios, engaged and engrossed in the superb process ...
Views: 647(1 vote) - Cushing's Disease In Dogs - by Submitted on Jun 30, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraDog diseases are fairly easy to detect because of the symptoms they display. For every disease corresponds many symptoms, often being confused as another ailment until it has been properly diagnosed. As your pet ages, every pet owners expect changes to take place, such as become less active ...
Views: 1742(1 vote) - Customize Your Website with Flash Audio - by Submitted on Apr 13, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraCustomizing a website is now a trend for many internet site owners and even online marketers. Pure text web pages are quite archaic and boring to most internet users. Many users these days are easily enticed by web pages that have flash audio and video streaming as well. To cope with ...
Views: 980(1 vote) - Dealing With The Unavoidable Workplace Conflict - by Submitted on Apr 15, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraSome workplace conflict if only viewed favorably and in a positive manner could be healthy and an opportunity for one’s business and also for each of us to bring about some positive change in our lives! It is just about how we perceive things. Nevertheless, it’s a whole different story when ...
Views: 996(2 votes) - Developing Telepathy Easily - by Submitted on May 31, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraSure you have heard about mental telepathy and about some gifted persons having telepathic energy and skills. But is it for real and do you believe it? And if indeed so, what do you have to do or possess in order to open or develop your own telepathic skills in telepathy? Here are some simple ...
Views: 4328(1 vote) - Emotional vs. Sexual Cheating -- Which is More Devastating? - by Submitted on May 10, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraCheating is a sure-fire way of ruining a relationship whichever way you look at it. Of course it’s no longer news that when someone cheats on a partner, trust is lost and there is always little chance of getting it back. While this may be an all-too familiar concept for most people, the only ...
Views: 2746(2 votes) - Everybody Wants True Love! - by Submitted on Jul 15, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraWhat’s a fairytale without a prince charming, a princess in distress and true love? It’ll probably be just another old story that will somehow fade into obscurity as time goes by. But, the element of true love is what made fairy tales into all-time blockbusters. Yes, everybody wants it so bad, ...
Views: 1004(1 vote) - Finding Your Way To Blissful Marriage - by Submitted on Nov 24, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraThe dictionary version of the definition of bliss is short—“heaven, paradise, complete happiness”. This kind of bliss is short-term in duration. This day my friend and her husband marks 15 years of their blissful marriage. However, “bliss” as defined by a marriage veteran and “bliss” as defined ...
Views: 1140(2 votes) - Get Inspired--- Surround Yourself With Inspiration! - by Submitted on Apr 13, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraDo not just wait for inspiration to simply fall into your lap or come simply knocking on your door! Well, the truth is, you merely cannot wait for things to happen to you. You’ve got to make a great effort to inspire yourself in order to live a vibrant and fulfilling life. And even the most well ...
Views: 786(2 votes) - Go Ahead, Be Assertive! - by Submitted on Jun 03, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraI have a friend who is a Life Coach by profession and he found out that many people are willing and ready to accept the cost of their being unhappy and dissatisfied rather than to stand up and speak for themselves. One way of saying this is, “I know I am not happy with something and I know I’ve ...
Views: 1741(1 vote) - Good Girl’s Guide To Flirting - by Submitted on Apr 15, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraIn a town where everybody is dying to couple up, sometimes it’s better to be out of the relationship- you have time to your laundry, you have the freedom to play your favorite bad music very loudly, but the best part of being out of the relationship is having plenty of time to catch- up with ...
Views: 786(3 votes) - How To Be Irresistible To Men - by Submitted on Apr 16, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraOne dilemma with regard to being a woman is getting the man you want without looking desperate and shameless. Some women find it hard to approach a guy, especially if it is the one that they long for because it just seems that there is too much at stake if ever they make a bad impression. ...
Views: 1058(4 votes) - How To Find True Love In Your Relationship - by Submitted on Apr 16, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraListening to Celine Dion’s “All By Myself” music gets you into an emotional state of misery. However, life has taught us to hope, that we can find true love. With a lot patience and persistence, you can shake off that idea which limit your choices and eventually find true love in your ...
Views: 926(4 votes) - How to Treat Drug Addiction - by Submitted on May 10, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraThe treatment of drug addiction is actually a combination of spiritual, traditional and the medical way that allows the patient to fight being drug addicted. It is critically important for people to look at some ways of treatment for drug addiction because it is a fact that this addiction is ...
Views: 1722(1 vote) - I Am A Genius-- Deal With It - by Submitted on May 19, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraWhen you call or refer to someone a genius, what do you really mean? That they manifest qualities and characteristics which seem to be beyond the typical? That they are totally extraordinary and they are ahead of their time? That they seem to be able to master and generate the perfect and ideal ...
Views: 1319(1 vote) - Is Your Partner The Marrying Type Or Not? - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraWhen two people are in a relationship, it is often because of the love and special bond that they share. Whether or not there is an outright affirmation of commitment, the question of whether the partner is the marrying type or not will somehow cross the mind of anyone involved with another ...
Views: 681(2 votes) - Journaling To Embrace Self Acceptance - by Submitted on Apr 09, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraSelf concept is such a very strong thing, most especially taking into account that it’s embedded deeply in our thoughts. And once you start to think or view yourself realistically and caringly, you start your entire journey to unconditional love and self acceptance. And this is where journaling ...
Views: 1324(2 votes) - Joy Changes Our Lives Forever! - by Submitted on Jun 28, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraJoy is what our Creator wants and intended for us—it's our right of birth. Joy is definitely what we want from life. Being joyful is a great and fantastic business. Happy and enthusiastic individuals produce more. And it does not take a lot of your time or cost a bunch of dollars. Being joyful ...
Views: 702(1 vote) - Joy Changes Our Lives Forever! - by Submitted on Nov 12, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraJoy is what our Creator wants and intended for us—it's our right of birth. Joy is definitely what we want from life. Being joyful is a great and fantastic business. Happy and enthusiastic individuals produce more. And it does not take a lot of your time or cost a bunch of dollars. Being ...
Views: 706(2 votes) - Leadership Quotes Could Make You A True Leader - by Submitted on Apr 19, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraSome quotes could be quite influential and powerful on a person’s life. And little did we know that only a few strands of words or phrases can indeed make a whole new difference in our lives. Quotes, in fact serves more than just the aim or purpose of inspiring or motivating an ...
Views: 716(2 votes) - Live Your Life With Passion! - by Submitted on Nov 24, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraWhat does it really mean to live your life with passion or passionate living? Most people may think it is about doing, when truly, it is about being. That thing or things which best exemplify your highest self—now that is your passion. It is actually whatever you are most passionate about and ...
Views: 762(1 vote) - Love Vs. Attraction- The True Unmasking - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Menno Spijkstra“Anyone can love a rose but it takes a great deal to love a leaf... it is ordinary to love the beautiful, but it is beautiful to love the ordinary...” it’s right what they say about clichés, they tell the truth. Before we decide to get involved into something- may it be in business, in ...
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