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- “What to Do When People Scorn and Laugh” - by Submitted on Apr 05, 2016 from Dr. Paul HaiderA person said the other day, “I take care of my body, eat right, meditate, put away food and money for the future, I have many rituals and routines but everyone says I’m being foolish and wasting my time. What should I do? It makes me feel bad that people feel this way.” Here is what to do. ...
Views: 731 - “What to Do When We Feel Angry with Someone for Being Sick” - by Submitted on Jan 23, 2019 from Dr. Paul HaiderA young lady came to me who has gone through a hard time with her husband having cancer and she is very angry. Here is what I told her. Sometimes loved ones try to leave us, but we are so busy with what we need to do in order to keep our loved one well that we become hyper-vigilant and never ...
Views: 1952 - “What to Do When We Lose Everyone” - by Submitted on Apr 08, 2018 from Dr. Paul HaiderI had a man contact me because he was feeling overwhelmed by life. He had lost all of his close family and he was feeling alone. He wanted some guidance and here is what I told him. We can overcome all the anxiety and feel great again… but it takes time… and a few simple steps of working through ...
Views: 687 - “What to Do When You Feel Overwhelmed” - by Submitted on Jan 03, 2019 from Dr. Paul HaiderYesterday I had a young lady contact me and she said she was overwhelmed and stressed to the max, couldn’t sleep, and was very sad. And she wanted some advice on what to do… here is what I recommended. 1 - First I said, you need to take care of yourself first. Working 2 jobs is very ...
Views: 602 - “What We Can Do When We Start Losing Hope” - by Submitted on Feb 17, 2016 from Dr. Paul HaiderThere is a feeling in the air telling us that something is wrong. A feeling we all need to address because the whole world depends upon the vibrational connection of everyone in the collective conscious. There seems to be a feeling of losing hope, which leads to being uninspired, which leads to ...
Views: 563 - “What Would Happen if the TV Disappeared” - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2016 from Dr. Paul HaiderEveryday we sit and wait to see what the news will bring. Or we watch the TV incessantly to see who will win the primaries. But does this do any good? Could it be that all that power we use watching TV could be used for the betterment of mankind? What if we were to stop watching TV all together, ...
Views: 576 - “What Would Happen if the Words— I, Me, and My Disappeared” - by Submitted on Jan 18, 2016 from Dr. Paul HaiderIt’s very interesting that in Native American societies there the words— “I, Me, and My” do not exist… there is only “WE”. And if all of a sudden those 3 little words just disappeared, what would happen? Perhaps the world would heal and great changes would take place… lets explore the ...
Views: 550 - “What Would You Do if You Were God?” - by Submitted on Jul 20, 2017 from Dr. Paul HaiderTell me what would you do if you were God, Great Spirit, and the Universe? That is a great question… and I would like to hear from you as to what you would do. Read More… Would You End All Suffering? - Perhaps you would like to end all suffering. Yet if you did away with all suffering there ...
Views: 570 - “When a Divine Being Enters Our Dreams” - by Submitted on May 08, 2017 from Dr. Paul HaiderWhen we have dreams of a divine being with us it’s very auspicious. It’s very meaningful because those divine beings only show up when they want to. No one can force a divine being to show up in a dream. Personally, I’ve had a divine being come to me in a dream… it was Jesus, Buddha, and all ...
Views: 608 - “When Does Consciousness Start” - by Submitted on Jun 14, 2016 from Dr. Paul HaiderSomeone asked the other day “When does consciousness enter the body”. When does that divine spark of love enter into our body of flesh and blood? Even before the body is started our divine consciousness of light of love is given to the mother. That is why lots of women down through the ages ...
Views: 838 - “When is a Robot a Sentient Being?” - by Submitted on Aug 16, 2018 from Dr. Paul Haider“The World of Artificial Intelligence is Coming” With the advent of artificial intelligence and robots, we will have to grapple with a question, “What is a true sentient being”. Soon we will have AI that goes way beyond what we know… with more intelligence. At what point do we call this ...
Views: 732 - “When is Enough — Enough” - by Submitted on May 10, 2016 from Dr. Paul HaiderFrom the time we are able to walk to the time we die we spend most of our life acquiring money. We work for our parents when we are young, we get a job when we are in our teens, and work the rest of our life accumulating money. It’s interesting that in Italy they say, “We work to live, and in ...
Views: 511 - “When Things are the Worst, That’s Exactly When Things are the Best” - by Submitted on Feb 23, 2016 from Dr. Paul HaiderOnce there was a middle aged man who lost the love of his life because of alcohol. Not that he was a alcoholic or anything but things got out of control and thus he lost the one person that meant so much to him. He was down in the dumps, feeling bad, he did not eat for days, he couldn’t sleep, ...
Views: 474 - “When We Attain Divine Peace” - by Submitted on Jun 23, 2016 from Dr. Paul HaiderOnce we attain divine peace everything takes on a new outlook. Nothing is every the same again. Thus not only do we change but the whole universe changes at the same time. When we become enlightened we finally let go of good and bad. If something happens to us, we do not fret about it ...
Views: 510 - “When We Have Recurring Dreams — What Does It Mean?” - by Submitted on May 17, 2018 from Dr. Paul HaiderA good friend of mine has been having one recurring dream that comes to him every single night. My friend who is now 70 years old has been having a dream that says, “Time is Running Short” and that’s it. His dream is very sweet, simple, and to the point, and he has this same dream every ...
Views: 615 - “When We See a Friend Hurting Themselves - Do We Tell Them?” - by Submitted on May 10, 2018 from Dr. Paul HaiderNot too long ago there was a man who was always being negative. And all his friends knew about this and tried in lovingly ways to guide him towards being positive. But one day, it got so bad that his negativity starting making him sick. So what are we supposed to do? “The Poor Me ...
Views: 610 - “When We Start a Spiritual Path” - by Submitted on Jun 29, 2015 from Dr. Paul HaiderUntil we have great faith in God, the Universe, and the One and Only, it’s important to fill our lives with friends who radiate love, faith, and goodness. People who are flesh and blood guides here to help those who are spiritually inclined walk the straight and narrow path. Also following ...
Views: 2063 - “When You Said ‘I AM YOURS’ Everything Changed” - by Submitted on Mar 08, 2016 from Dr. Paul Haider“A Conversation Between a Man and his Creator” When you said ‘I AM YOURS’ everything changed, and from that point on I have always been with you. I am here to help you to settle your mind but at the same time to open your mind to possibilities. Thus I bring temptations to you now and then to ...
Views: 599 - “When Your Life is Over… What Will You Say?” - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2018 from Dr. Paul HaiderOn average we have 30,295 days on this planet. And when it’s all said and done, and you are laying in the hospital bed or bed at home with your family waiting for your last breath… what will you say? Just adding up how many days we have kind of shocked me… just 30,295 days…that’s 83 years ...
Views: 540 - “Where Does Happiness Come From” - by Submitted on Jun 08, 2017 from Dr. Paul HaiderI was talking with two friends, one said she was happy and the other said she was not happy. Where does happiness come from? Two different people who are very similar, but at the same time very different people, one being happy and the other not happy at all. Where does happiness come from? ...
Views: 625 - “Where Have All the Good People Gone” - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2016 from Dr. Paul HaiderToday someone asked: “Where have all the good people gone” and here is the answer. All the good people in the world who are doing great deeds are the neighbors you have next door. The ones who give money to feed the poor, the ones who work at the food banks on Saturday to make sure everyone ...
Views: 521 - “Where is Heaven?” - by Submitted on Jun 01, 2017 from Dr. Paul Haider“In Recent Polls, 70% of the Public Believes in Heaven” There are many different scientific theories about where heaven might exist… here are just a few ideas that science has come up with. Out in the Cosmos One idea that’s talked about in spiritual texts is that heaven might be far ...
Views: 590 - “Where to Buy the Best Herbs and Deep Healing” - by Submitted on Nov 11, 2018 from Dr. Paul HaiderLots of people come to me asking where they can buy great herbs and I want to clarify that. Here is a bit of detail into herb quality… and buying the best herbs for the money. And about how one man is healing after 60 years of constant struggle with health challenges. Dr. Paul Haider - ...
Views: 838 - “Which is Better a Logical Fear-Based Mind or a Heart Full of Love?” - by Submitted on Nov 28, 2018 from Dr. Paul HaiderThere’s a large group of people now who see the world only through a logical way of thinking. This has lead to the destruction of the planet, to wars, and the breaking apart of families. Many see the world through the lens of logic, rationalization, and defending their actions with dogma. ...
Views: 629 - “Who Can Save Us From Ourselves?” - by Submitted on May 02, 2018 from Dr. Paul Haider“And the Story of a Man Sitting Atop a Volcano” A man came to me yesterday with terrible sciatic pain. He is suffering to the point that he can hardly walk. And I told him a few things he could easily do to ease his pain and heal, such as lose weight, change his diet, and more. Yet, he ...
Views: 617 - “Who is Creating Your Happiness?” - by Submitted on May 21, 2018 from Dr. Paul HaiderI’ve found that right now we have lots of people who expect that what they do every day will make them happy. And they have some great things happen to them… yet they are not happy. Why? Take for instance a young mother who enjoys her life and enjoys taking care of her little boy and girl. ...
Views: 634 - “Who is Watching Your Mind — How to Find Deep Inner Peace” - by Submitted on Oct 16, 2018 from Dr. Paul HaiderJust the other day, a man came to me and said, “I’ve noticed my mind is angry”. And I asked, “Who is Watching Your Mind?” We are Pure Awareness Then I said, “That which is watching your mind is your true-self, your pure awareness.” That which is timeless, that which goes on throughout ...
Views: 655 - “Why are Indigenous Children Calm and Peaceful” - by Submitted on Dec 03, 2015 from Dr. Paul HaiderIf we take a look at the Mara people in Colombia and other indigenous tribes in New Zealand, Africa, in the Rainforests of Brazil, tribes on Pacific Islands and other places which have little or no influence by western society, it’s very clear that their children are very calm and peaceful. They ...
Views: 673 - “Why are We Disconnecting from Our Feelings” - by Submitted on Jun 04, 2018 from Dr. Paul HaiderOne famous psychologist the other day said, “Americas are becoming more and more hostile, you see it all over”. Why is this happening? All of this started with people getting angry in the 60’s and doing lots of drugs and then it worked up into the 70’s… and then in the 80’s people started ...
Views: 716 - “Why Do Some People Heal and Others Don’t?” - by Submitted on Apr 24, 2017 from Dr. Paul Haider“They Have Hope and Faith” Being a herbalist I have found that when it comes to terrible diseases there are two groups. One group that says that there is nothing I can do, those that say “doctors say I am going to die” and so they give up and die. And there are those who have hope and decide ...
Views: 634 - “Why Do We Fear that Last Journey” - by Submitted on Sep 02, 2015 from Dr. Paul HaiderWe load our car with our bags and take off driving and never have a care in the world about what might happen. In fact we’re happy that we are on our way and ready for our vacation or ready to see old friends. But what about that last journey… why do we fear that last trip? We say we have ...
Views: 536 - “Why Do We Fear — Instead of Seeing Joy in All Things” - by Submitted on Jul 26, 2018 from Dr. Paul HaiderIf there is One Consciousness and we are part of that One Consciousness and as Divine Mother Amma and Native Americans have said: “All things have consciousness”… then why do we fear? see image - see link - ...
Views: 627 - “Why Do We Feel Guilt and Shame?” - by Submitted on Jan 16, 2018 from Dr. Paul HaiderI happened to be talking to a good friend and showed him a spiritual quote and he all of a sudden felt guilty. And I thought that was an unusual way to react… because everyone else thought it was very uplifting. Lots of people feel guilty, it’s a normal way of life for many people. In fact, ...
Views: 650 - “Why Do We Have Evil in the World?” - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2017 from Dr. Paul HaiderLots of people ask why do we have evil in the world… here is the short answer. It would have been easy to create beings that did not think and just served but they would not be able to give their love freely to God, the Universe, and Great Spirit. On the average robots only do what they are ...
Views: 561 - “Why Do We Have Expectations of Others?” - by Submitted on Feb 12, 2018 from Dr. Paul HaiderOver the years I have met lots of people who get ill and expect someone to care for them… and many times they are let down. Expectations Expectations are a type of desire. We want something to be a certain way… and this leads to great pain and suffering. Because many times what we want ...
Views: 1075 - “Why Do We Refuse” - by Submitted on Jun 16, 2016 from Dr. Paul Haider“Why Do We Refuse to Do — What We Need to Do” Take for instance an older man who in his late 70’s decided to take it easy. No more walking, no more meditating, no more eating right, all of that went out the window… but eventually things did change. You see his mother died of cancer and ...
Views: 492 - “Why Does Love Incarnate in Human Form” - by Submitted on Dec 22, 2015 from Dr. Paul HaiderEvery so often we have a new incarnation of that which is “All Knowing and All Powerful”. That which comes from the One and Only to this plane called earth for a few interesting and powerful reasons. Why does the Universe bring Avatars to this plane? Lets explore and find out. Every so many ...
Views: 588 - “Why Does the World Sing a Sorry Song” - by Submitted on Apr 05, 2018 from Dr. Paul Haider“And How Can We Change Our Tune” Look around you, so many people are sad, gloomy, and downbeat. Yet if you look hard you will also find those who are full of happiness, light, and love. Why the difference? Down through history, there have been wars, battles, take over of countries, ...
Views: 601 - “Why Doesn’t God Make Everything Better?” - by Submitted on Nov 22, 2016 from Dr. Paul HaiderMany people who are looking for answers wonder why God, the Universe, and Great Spirit just doesn’t heal the world and make everything wonderful. Here is the reason why. If God, the Universe, and Great Spirit were to end all wars, heal all the sick, and make all suffering disappear would we ...
Views: 489 - “Why Eating is a Huge Habit—And What We Can Do About It” - by Submitted on Sep 10, 2015 from Dr. Paul HaiderMany people have lots of issues around eating. In fact until a person comes to a point in their lives that they have to change their eating habits they really don’t know how much of a habit eating really is. Recent studies about fast food showed that almost 80% of the people said they were not ...
Views: 520 - “Why Exercise is Important for Seniors” - by Submitted on Feb 29, 2016 from Dr. Paul HaiderThe baby boomers are getting older and that means we have a lot of people who used to exercise, but are starting to loosen up their routine and become sedentary. Here are some really good reasons to continue to being active as we get older. Exercise for Seniors Prevents Disease - There are ...
Views: 600 - “Why Giving is Important” - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2018 from Dr. Paul HaiderI had a person ask, “Why do you do all your work for free” and that’s a good question and deserves a good answer. First of all, in a perfect world, we would all give our time, energy, and expertise freely. That way all of us would all have exactly what we need at all times. And if we are to ...
Views: 633 - “Why is Incense Important” - by Submitted on Jan 18, 2017 from Dr. Paul HaiderDown through the ages burning incense has been used for spiritual cleansing, to set the mood for spiritual practice, and to open the mind and help with stress. The use of incense goes back to 2,000 BC and has been used in all sorts of religious and spiritual practices. And incense is still ...
Views: 689 - “Why is the World in Such a Mess” - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2017 from Dr. Paul Haider“And Why Does God Stand By and Let This Happen” Many people have been asking me why the world is in such a terrible place and why God is allowing this to happen. First of all, the energy of God is love and love will never harm anyone no matter what. God only wants that which is for our ...
Views: 581 - “Why Loneliness Creates Health Problems” - by Submitted on Apr 16, 2018 from Dr. Paul HaiderIf we feel lonely we feel down, it’s no different than feeling sad or depressed. And when we have negative emotion takes over those feelings suppress our immune system and eventually we come down with some kind of disease. This is talked about in all the spiritual texts that we are not to be ...
Views: 629 - “Why Love is Better Than Desire” - by Submitted on Aug 29, 2017 from Dr. Paul HaiderI have a friend who wants to start a foundation to help people in third world countries. But he also wants his wife and kids to work with him on his project… but they are not interested. In fact, his wife and kids are not interested at all… and he gets upset with them because they can’t ...
Views: 571 - “Why Should I Love Anyone” - by Submitted on Jun 27, 2017 from Dr. Paul HaiderOn Sunday a young lady contacted me and said, “I watched your video about, ‘The Science of Heaven and Love’ but why should I love people when they are terrible to me?” And here is my answer. Negativity Does Harm to Our Brain - First of all, whenever we say or even think anything hurtful to ...
Views: 610 - “Why Some People Fail Any Diet Plan” - by Submitted on Sep 11, 2018 from Dr. Paul Haider“Or Fail at Life In General” I just had a lady contact me saying she had gone on many diets before and had done well and then all of a sudden she would not follow the diet plan and her health was failing. Why does this happen? Unconscious Guilt and Shame Causes Sabotage I have seen ...
Views: 590 - “Why Spiritual People are Happy People” - by Submitted on Dec 07, 2015 from Dr. Paul HaiderThere was an old guru who said “Those who are happy are truly spiritual”. Happy = Spiritual One attribute of being a consciously spiritual, is that when we know something needs to change we do whatever it is to be healthy, peaceful, and content with life. In other words we never put ...
Views: 511 - “Why Talking is Important for Dissolving Away Anxiety” - by Submitted on Nov 17, 2015 from Dr. Paul HaiderAnxiety in this day and age is part of the living process, but it doesn’t have to destroy lives. Anxiety, tension, and emotional feelings that are overwhelming can be healed if we are willing to open up and talk about what we have going on inside… and let all of those frustrations out. Not ...
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