You are looking, searching, wondering what you are doing wrong…
You are begging, pleading, crying before your God…
You keep searching out what you are missing…
“Why is it not working?” “What am I doing wrong?” You ask…
And then you attempt to act on whatever comes up…
And something will ... Views: 1055
I resisted for so long…
Pre-children, I was scared a heckuva lot of the time…
Scared to play full-out for my big dreams…
Scared to go all in…
Scared that I would lose the little stability that I had gained after years of working my socks off to become a pharmacist…
Years of not ... Views: 1052
I had a question yesterday from one of my private clients and it went –
“How do you manage all that you have going on? What’s the secret?”
I stopped for a moment to consider it and the truth is, I don’t think I get all that much done. There is always a great number of things that I want ... Views: 1051
You know what?! It really does not matter one little jot where you come from, your upbringing, what country you currently live in, what your mummy did or your daddy said…
It really does not matter in the end what has happened to you…
It does not matter that you have never done it ... Views: 1050
You secretly think that having money is bad…
Don’t you?
And so you struggle to have that much money…
You have just enough for your needs…
But not enough for any fun stuff (or so you think)
There is just no abundance in your life…
And you are doing it to yourself, leader…
Because you ... Views: 1049
Let’s be honest… Great things take time.
And YOU are called to a GREAT THING!
You want everything yesterday, right? And this waiting game is not pleasant at all and yet, it is inevitable that as you stay on the path, you WILL get what you are ‘hustling while you wait’ for.
And it takes a ... Views: 1049
Yes, I suppose you could get down on your knees and pray and pray and pray…
Beg God for help, do a little fast every week…
Read through your holy book and increase your faith by looking up to the heavens…
Check for every little sin you can think of and ask for forgiveness…
WHILE ... Views: 1047
Do you have to beg the air to fill a room? No, you don’t. It is there, always present, always flowing in, supporting life…
You can create a vacuum only by deliberately forcing out the air and sealing the container, sealing the room but the moment you let even a pinprick of a hole be ... Views: 1047
I am all for you having everything…
You know that, right?
I completely believe in your ability to conquer the world and make all the money, impact all the people you want…
It is absolutely something you are capable of…
However, I see you stuck in place getting no results because you ... Views: 1046
$300 a day over 30 days adds up to $9000 a month
$9000 a month over a year makes you $108, 000
For a lot of people, that income would change your life…
Especially when you consider that this is based on you being you in your own business…
Working when you want, doing what you want, with ... Views: 1044
Every day, you wake up and you have the opportunity to start afresh…
To be the person you WANT to be…
Rather than the person that life and its negativity have taught you to be…
There is a vision within you, pulsing, vibrating, nagging at you…
It wants you to win more than you ever have won ... Views: 1042
OK, so I admit that I use that word and phrase quite a lot in the work that I do. People want to feel called, I want to feel called and yes, I admit that I am called but you know what?!
I still have a choice!
I still have a freaking choice as to whether I do the work I feel called to do ... Views: 1040
Just because you have always acted a certain way does not mean you have to continue acting in that certain way. The moment you decide, truly decide to drop the act and become whoever you want to be, you can.
There is a distance between the vision of who you see yourself being and ... Views: 1039
The thing I have learnt about working with spiritual people is that no matter how spiritual you may be, you do want to figure out how to live in abundance…
Who does not get tired of wondering if you have enough money to do the things you really want to do?
The problem for the more spiritual ... Views: 1038
Some people think that you can only fail at the work that you love and so they stay stuck in a job, a business that they dislike thinking that it is safer…
And then, they get made redundant…
The company they work for, shuts down…
They come to work one day to find that everyone left the ... Views: 1037
Honey, you went through some bad shit!
You went through it and you kept on walking, you kept on doing what had to be done to hold everything together and no one honoured you for it!
It was a horrific thing that you went through…
You carried the weight of it and no one saw just how much ... Views: 1036
It is the last day of the year when I write this and I wonder what you are creating for next year. Surely not more of the same old stuff. The same reactive stuff where you wait to see what happens and react to it accordingly. Surely not that!
I just spent hours reading, dreaming, creating, ... Views: 1035
You and I, we are driven…
We are different from most because we have these big ideas of making a huge difference and also making a whole lot of money. It is always a fine balance thinking about money and difference, isn’t it?
Thoughts such as ‘Am I allowed to do both?’ arise…
The ... Views: 1033
So, you sit there with your computer in front of you, wondering what to write about.
And if you are completely honest, you will realise that you have discarded about 10 ideas because you wondered if they were good enough, sweet enough, attractive enough to everyone out there when really, the ... Views: 1030
Let me ask you a question (ok, maybe a few…)
What do you want?
What do you really want?
Do you want to create wealth?
Do you want a business that fulfils you?
Do you want to do work that stirs your soul and brings you to life? Work that makes you wake at 4am with a spring in your step ... Views: 1030
You think that you always have to be appear to have it all together…
You think that you have to pretend to be a superhuman type of person…
You doubt yourself and what you have to offer and so you put on this front…
The problem is that no one can relate to that…
And so, you drive ... Views: 1029
You are chosen to live in abundance and you have tapped a little into it but there is more.
So, understand this, you can have everything you desire, including wealth but…
The Problem
You keep hiding.
You keep doubting yourself.
You keep thinking that there is something you are missing…
And ... Views: 1028
You do know that you are THE product of your online business, right?
And you do know that that is why you struggle so much to sell anything in your business?
There is a part of you that doubts yourself and actually does not like yourself. You know all the mistakes you have made, you know ... Views: 1025
So, you want everything to work right now? And you keep second guessing, doubting, wishing things were different? the question I have to ask you is how does that help anything?
In fact, does it help at all?
Or does it just take you off-track and next thing you know, you have lost a whole ... Views: 1023
So, how do you step into abundance when it seems well beyond your current level of experience?
Take some time each day to be silent and to journal
Every leader needs to take time to think, to navel-gaze, to write out what comes up, to pick up on new ideas in the ... Views: 1023
You think that no one wants to hear what you have to say…
And yet, right now, in the world, there are so-called ‘leaders’ who tap into a vein of malcontent amongst the everyday, regular people and they say what those malcontents are thinking and use it to give themselves an advantage…
Not for ... Views: 1023
Let’s be clear…
Some days as you pursue your goals, you will feel delusional…
You look at those big goals of yours and you look at the people around you scurrying around doing what they always do and there you are, thinking big thoughts about how you are going to make millions ... Views: 1021
This is the thing - You need a list. No matter how much you think that you can make it big on just social media or just by how awesome you are but it gets tough to try and hack it without a mailing list.
I see entrepreneurs struggling and struggling to build their business and when I ask, I ... Views: 1020
You wonder what to say to your people…
You wonder if you are wise or creative enough to keep comig up with things that they want to hear…
And I say that you are!
You are EXACTLY the leader for your people!
You have the EXACT words to say to them to inspire, to heal, to teach, to coach, to ... Views: 1020
This is the question that plagues your mind. You have worked hard, put something together that you know will absolutely help anyone that avails themselves of it and yet, it is so hard to get anyone to make a move, to pull out their wallet, to pay you the money to allow you to serve ... Views: 1020
So… you have a big dream…
EXCELLENT!
WOOHOO!
WAHEY!
And it includes changing the lives of many, many people with your product, service or business opportunity…
Again, HOW EXCELLENT!
And you also dream of the awesome lifestyle you are going to make happen for your ... Views: 1019
A few weeks ago, I decided to stop caring…
To stop caring about appealing to people I am not called to serve…
I have always preached this to my clients – The art of polarisation – Know your people and deliberately repel everyone else and yet, I had been trying too hard to help ... Views: 1019
Some days, it feels like you are walking through a fog…
With nothing working the way you want it to…
You have moments of clarity when it feels like the light is switched on inside of you and you KNOW, absolutely know what your life is to be about…
But then, the fog comes back and it ... Views: 1017
You know what?!!! I KNOW it feels real, very real!
The reasons why you are stuck in place doing nothing much.
It all feels legitimate!
You tell yourself that you cannot do anything while you feel this way…
You tell yourself that you do not know enough…
You tell yourself that no ... Views: 1017
Leader, you want to hit $5k online in your business and you are stuck in a stifling relationship that does not satisfy you…
But you are committed to this person…
Great!
But this has got to be dealt with, not swept under the rug…
It is impossible to create an abundant life when there are ... Views: 1016
I became a mum about 9 years ago when the beautiful, wonderful T came into my life. It was, like most mums would agree, a HUGE change.
And for the first few weeks, figuring out the breastfeeding (which was one of the toughest things I have EVER done!), the lack of sleep, the constant ... Views: 1016
Enough of the waiting…
Enough of the asking for permission…
Enough of thinking that anyone else has the right to tell you what you are allowed to do or not do…
Have or not have…
Be or not be…
Enough, enough , enough!
If you want something, ... Views: 1015
Compromise – Such a lovely sounding word that firmly shuts you off from the abundance, the wealth, the freedom you want…
We were all told that it is the thing to do to keep the relationships going, right?
We were all told that we will have to compromise if we want to get on in the ... Views: 1015
There you are, sitting on your awesome arse, waiting for a shot of powerful inspiration.
There you are, with so much to say and yet you hold back because you are worried it will not be great enough!
There you are, wishing, waiting, hoping that whatever you do finally come out with, will be the ... Views: 1014
You have that ‘deer stuck in headlights’ look again. I see it in your eyes!
You are not sure which way to go and so you stay there stuck, not doing anything rather than risk doing the wrong thing.
As if there is a wrong thing.
And if there was a wrong thing, it would simply be you ... Views: 1014
YOu hold yourself back so much…
Scared of what people will think of you…
And then you look at your bank balance and you see that there ain’t much there…
And you know it is because you are not boldly gong after everything you want…
You are being held back by worries that you might just ... Views: 1010
I wanted to be a stripper when I grew up…
I was about 7/8 sitting in my mum’s office, reading ‘The Happy Hooker’ and thinking how cool it would be to be a stripper…
Thankfully, I was too wise to say that out loud to anyone or else I would have been beaten, probably…
Yep, you can say I was ... Views: 1009
Yep, I see you…
You have fallen off your perch…
Everything you want seems to be getting further and further away from you…
You feel abandoned, alone, fed up!
Actually fed up is such a small word compared to how you really do feel!
You feel broken!
Yep, that is it, BROKEN!
As though ... Views: 1006
I love my princesses.
That kinda goes without saying but this morning as I write this, I have been watching them on YouTube expressing themselves. And it is awesome to watch because they are fearless! They have not yet learnt to judge everything before they let it out into the ... Views: 1006
I feel like my writing muscle is broken… (Yes for me, my money making is related to my content and honey, if you are in business then so is yours!)
I cannot reach the flow and stay in there…
I keep starting a post, stopping a post and I cannot seem to make it flow…
And so here I am talking ... Views: 1006
You already are somebody…
You already have something to say that can help people…
But they do not know it!
Because you are not telling them…
And even when you do tell them, you do it in a scared kinda way…
And so no one trusts that what you have to say will really work for them…
And so ... Views: 1005
There comes a day in everyone’s life when they realise that learning to love yourself is pretty important. It is usually after years of living to the agenda of the masses and realising that there is no reward to be found there and then, suddenly people remember that their own opinion is ... Views: 1005
So, I have a love-hate relationship with my extended family…
I was never quite sure why I felt out of place, thinking there was something wrong with me…
Never wanting to play to the rules…
Never really understanding the FUCKING RULES!
I was considered selfish and rebellious…
The one who ... Views: 1004