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- 5 Powerful Interpersonal Communication Skill Secrets - by Submitted on Jan 31, 2008 from Peter MurphyHaving good interpersonal communication skill is a combination of being able to say what you mean clearly and concisely, and being able to take on board opinions of others and adapt what you say accordingly, as well as making them feel they can speak freely. To do that, you have got to be aware ...
Views: 781 - How To Use Body Language To Lead A Conversation - by Submitted on May 20, 2008 from Peter MurphyBody language is a form of human communication that everyone uses, whether they realize or not when they do use it. Body language is used in the business world; in relationships; in general conversations, and more. We actually use body language in every interaction that we have, regardless of ...
Views: 781 - 9 Great Solutions To Difficult Conversations - by Submitted on Jan 30, 2008 from Peter MurphyWhat makes difficult conversations difficult? Difficult conversations arise in our daily lives. What makes them difficult is that they tend to be the most emotional ones. Emotions make us feel awkward and out of place. They make us feel very uncomfortable. We are very concerned with how our ...
Views: 780 - How To Make A Great First Impression - by Submitted on Feb 05, 2008 from Peter MurphyA lot of things have to do with the first impression and your communication skills certainly play a great role. If you want to make sure that you make a great first impression then you have to talk properly and communicate your ideas effectively. You are not going to impress many people if you ...
Views: 780 - How To Be Confident In 4 Easy Steps - by Submitted on Jan 29, 2008 from Peter MurphySome people just seem to naturally know how to be confident in any given situation. Let’s face it; learning how to be more confident can seem like a daunting task. However, if you want to have the courage to go after your dreams, you owe it to yourself to learn the secrets to being a more ...
Views: 779 - People Skill And The 4 Basic Types - by Submitted on Jan 29, 2008 from Peter MurphyDo you have the people skill needed to handle difficult people? Best selling author, Peter Urs Bender has come up with four basic personality types. Based on the fact that you really can’t understand someone who’s being difficult, until you can see the world through his or her eyes, ...
Views: 766 - How To Improve Communication With Interpersonal Insights - by Submitted on Jan 31, 2008 from Peter MurphyCommunication that is interpersonal is the process of sending and receiving messages between two or more people. Examples of interpersonal communication are: 1) a conversation between two people 2) small group communication 3) a speech made to a wide audience. All these can be considered forms ...
Views: 765 - Proven Methods Of Gaining Confidence - by Submitted on Jan 31, 2008 from Peter MurphyGaining the confidence of someone generally will take time, mutual respect, and the assumption that you are the kind of person that people can rely upon and draw confidence from. You need to show that you can understand and empathize the needs and wants of a person while respecting and upholding ...
Views: 762 - Reframing Rejection - by Submitted on Jan 24, 2008 from Peter MurphySo people will reject us no matter how good we look, no matter how successful we are, and no matter how giving we are. If we were to become even nicer, and even more spiritually aware they would still reject us so it is a pointless battle trying to win over everyone. However we can change how ...
Views: 759 - A Peculiar Money Magic Secret - by Submitted on Jan 30, 2008 from Peter MurphyWhen it comes to making more money and doing so more easily you may be making a big mistake. In fact, this mistake is so common you may never have noticed it has been costing you money and stressing you out. The common mistake so many of us make is to over focus on the money when we want more ...
Views: 758 - Staff Motivation Strategies - 6 Great Distinctions - by Submitted on Jan 28, 2008 from Peter MurphyIn the workplace, it can be very difficult to obtain staff motivation. There are many factors that play against staff motivation. It really is the manager's responsibility to motivate the employees. This can be very challenging at times. There are six guidelines that a person can follow to ...
Views: 758 - Great People Skills Are Essential For Lasting Success - by Submitted on May 16, 2008 from Peter MurphyIf you want to be successful then you must have great people skills. Great people skills are rooted in being able to effectively communicate with all people; not just communicating with the ones who you think can get you somewhere. Unfortunately, this is how some people think. They think that ...
Views: 757 - How to Quickly and Easily Deal With Rude People - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2004 from Peter MurphyWhere I live there seems to be a a growing population of rude and vulgar people. And no matter how hard I wish for things to change it is not going to happen. It is up to me to change how I think and feel about these people. The same applies for you. 1 What does it mean when someone is ...
Views: 751(1 vote) - Say Adios To The Fear Of Rejection! - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2008 from Peter MurphyDo you ever get an uncomfortable feeling in your stomach when you have to approach someone? In situations like this does your mind go blank? This is not unusual. That feeling is often the fear of rejection. When you feel afraid your emotions take over, you feel tense and your ability to think ...
Views: 745 - How To Have Confidence And Enjoy Every Moment of It - by Submitted on Jan 31, 2008 from Peter MurphyConfidence is not only a skill it is a choice. How to have confidence? It is a choice to walk, talk and act with confidence despite how you feel or what others say. To have confidence is to be at ease in any situation. To be prepared and capable to take all the hits as they come and still smile ...
Views: 744 - Put Love Into It - by Submitted on Jan 30, 2008 from Peter MurphyIf there was a simple yet very powerful way to get what you want in life, would you want to know the secret? In this article I reveal all. Read on to discover how to have the love, happiness and success you want - more easily and sooner than you expect. After twenty years experimenting with ...
Views: 743 - How To Use Body Language To Read A Person Like A Book - by Submitted on May 19, 2008 from Peter MurphyWhen we first meet new people, we all feel a little awkward and self-conscious until we feel hat we understand the other person a little. Until we can do that, we can’t work out what people think to us and that leaves us in an uncomfortable position of uncertainty. The key to getting our ...
Views: 738 - What Are Social Skills? - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2008 from Peter MurphySocial skills are described as definite approaches applied by an individual to carry out social functions effectively and eventually be regarded as socially acceptable. Your behavior and interactions with others are indicators that reveal your status in the community you are in, if you are ...
Views: 738 - 3 Keys To Making Small Talk Easy To Do - by Submitted on Jan 18, 2008 from Peter MurphySmall talk used to be really hard work for me. I never knew what to say and I always worried about saying the wrong thing. Then something awful happened to me.... I had to take a job dealing with the public. My worst fears came true and I had to make small talk with a whole range of people ...
Views: 737 - 4 Helpful Ways To Beat Shyness - by Submitted on Jan 23, 2008 from Peter MurphyOver half of all adults identify themselves as shy. Shyness can get in the way of developing personal relationships and professional aspirations. Some people are afraid to simply walk into a room and surround themselves with strangers. Some shy people hate eating in front of others and some ...
Views: 735 - How To Start A Conversation In 10 Easy Ways - by Submitted on Jan 30, 2008 from Peter MurphySo many people worry about how to start a conversation. It makes them feel anxious and afraid. Are you one of those people who keep your fingers crossed that someone will come up to you and speak because you would never make the first move in a conversation in a million years? You can put all ...
Views: 729 - 7 Exercise Motivation Secrets That Will Get You Fit - by Submitted on Dec 11, 2007 from Peter MurphyMany people start their exercise program with good intentions. Most often it starts in the New Year when you become aware of the Christmas over-indulgence catching up with you. Your clothes don’t fit as well as they did a few weeks early and so you embark upon a diet and with that you ...
Views: 724 - Mind Your Mind - by Submitted on Jan 24, 2008 from Peter MurphyThree Secrets to Effective Affirmations: 1 Drive your Physiology - by this I mean get yourself into a dynamic state of mine by moving your body energetically. I find walking quickly, cycling or jumping around the house while listening to loud music, all very effective for me. When you feel ...
Views: 723 - Shyness Tips That Work Like Magic - by Submitted on Feb 01, 2008 from Peter MurphyEven one great shyness tip can help you to overcome your shyness. In this article we will cover several practical ways to beat shyness. Having interesting conversation topics on hand all the time is one of the greatest ways in overcoming your fear of conversing with other people. Never forget ...
Views: 722 - Art Of Conversaton Made Easy - by Submitted on Jan 24, 2008 from Peter MurphyThe art of conversation comes so easily to some, but for others it is a real struggle. Learning how to get past those things that stand in your way are the first step to learning the art of communication. There are three common reasons why people tend to feel uncomfortable about conversation. ...
Views: 721 - Work Motivation Tips For Greater Productivity - by Submitted on Jan 29, 2008 from Peter MurphyEnter any child’s classroom and you are likely to find at least a few boys and girls who are motivated to write the best story, draw the best picture, do the most interesting dramatization in the class play. Classroom motivation seems so easy compared to work motivation. With work ...
Views: 721 - 7 Ways To Make A Great First Impression - by Submitted on Jan 18, 2008 from Peter MurphyWhen you have an important event to attend there are 7 great ways to make sure you perform at your very best. These tips are relevant for social events and business meetings. Discover how to communicate with confidence while making great conversation. 1. Decide what you want to say before the ...
Views: 718 - How To Get Fired From Procrastinators Anonymous - by Submitted on Jan 29, 2008 from Peter MurphyWelcome to the procrastinator's anonymous club! This club will accept anyone who is willing to make an excuse. It only takes one - that will do. Quitting even before you get started will put you in the leadership positions of the procrastinators anonymous club - guaranteed a promotion! Now, ...
Views: 718 - How To Manage Increasing Confidence - by Submitted on Jan 31, 2008 from Peter MurphyThere is no right or wrong way to manage increasing confidence though there are some more useful ways than others to best evaluate and track your progress or that of someone else and with a few simple tools and ideas you will be able to effectively track, manage and be proud of your increasing ...
Views: 717 - What Procrastination Is And How To Beat Distractions - by Submitted on Jan 30, 2008 from Peter MurphyStaying motivated enough to be able to see things through to completion is something that is needed more and more today. In an age of instant food, instant movies, instant cash from ATM's, and instant messaging, it is almost no wonder that we get distracted so easily. Satisfaction comes, so ...
Views: 714 - How To Stay Motivated In The Face Of Setbacks - by Submitted on Nov 08, 2007 from Peter MurphyIt is hard to stay motivated with your work when you are faced with several setbacks. How can you get back up from a hard fall? If you are aspiring to become a doctor, how do you continue studying after failing the medical bar twice? If you want to become a pilot, how can you make it happen if ...
Views: 714 - Letting Go Of Wanting Your Own Approval - by Submitted on Jan 24, 2008 from Peter MurphyEver had a time in your life when those closest to you disapproved of your behavior? It is very uncomfortable is it not? In a moment, peace of mind can vanish in a puff of smoke and you crave approval more than anything else. This time in the wilderness seems to last forever and when it is ...
Views: 714 - Beat Procrastination In 5 Simple Ways With Smart Goal Getting - by Submitted on Jan 30, 2008 from Peter MurphyThe setting of goals is a step in the right direction toward achieving anything. It clearly shows that there are some good things present; such as, a purpose and some determination. But as horrible as it may sound, it achieves very little until the next step begins to be taken. This article ...
Views: 713 - How To Get Motivated When You Have An Off Day - by Submitted on Jan 17, 2008 from Peter MurphyWhat can you do on days like these? Is there a way to get motivated and stay motivated? There are three simple yet powerful ways to pull yourself out of a slump. And best of all you can start using these strategies today. 1. Complete Something It is very important to start and finish ...
Views: 711 - Gain Confidence And Boost Self Esteem In 5 Simple Steps - by Submitted on Jan 29, 2008 from Peter MurphyWe all want to become more confident and feel good about ourselves so we can live our very best life. Here are some ways to gain confidence and raise self-esteem: 1. Do something that requires a decision and a follow-through. Have you been putting off writing that letter to aunt Martha? Is ...
Views: 710 - Making Small Talk Fun In 4 Simple Steps - by Submitted on Feb 01, 2008 from Peter MurphySmall talk has a way of connecting people in some level, and it actually serves as the starting point of a personal or a professional relationship. Do not worry if you find the thought of making small talk daunting, because a lot of people share the same fear. Some cannot bear the thought of ...
Views: 708 - Confidence Building Secrets Of True Winners - by Submitted on Jan 29, 2008 from Peter MurphyWe all need some confidence building from time to time. Part of feeling confident has a lot to do with how we feel about ourselves. Feeling like we can accomplish things we set out to do is important to feeling confident. Remember that we all have talents and gifts. Whether we feel confident in ...
Views: 701 - Self Confidence - T4 Power Secrets - by Submitted on Jan 28, 2008 from Peter MurphySelf confidence is something that many people struggle with. Society has built up certain guidelines on how one should look and act. If we do not live up to societies expectations then we feel a lack of self confidence. For some people this lack of self confidence effects every aspect of their ...
Views: 701 - Ezine Promotion, The Three Forgotten Tactics - by Submitted on Jan 17, 2008 from Peter MurphyIf you are like most ezine publishers you want more ideas that work. But hold on a minute what about all the key strategies that you have overlooked? 1 Teamwork: Hook up with a fellow publisher who does not compete directly with you. I do this to find out what really works. Share ideas and ...
Views: 696 - Good Conversation Every Time When You Avoid 6 Common Mistakes - by Submitted on Jan 29, 2008 from Peter MurphyThere are six common ways that people ruin a good conversation. You need to be aware of them to ensure you avoid these common mistakes: 1. Blah, Blah, Blah. The Blabbermouth is the number one enemy of the good conversation. The other party soon tunes out. Never letting the other person get a ...
Views: 696 - 3 Easy Steps To Low Stress Communication - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2008 from Peter MurphyLife is all about choices. And so is the way you communicate. You can fill your days with frustrating high stress communication or you can have days of low stress effective communication with your peers. Now take a moment to learn three ways to have low stress communication. 1. Recognize ...
Views: 695 - How Managers Can Ensure Lasting Motivation In The Workplace - by Submitted on Dec 14, 2007 from Peter MurphyManagers and team leaders have a responsibility for motivation in the workplace. Well motivated employees work so much better and are so much more productive and creative as they approach their work with interest and enthusiasm. As a manager, you can create such a motivated workforce. 1. You ...
Views: 694 - 7 Simple Tips For Cultivating Tons Of Confidence - by Submitted on Jan 17, 2008 from Peter MurphyConfidence without competence is a dangerous combination. Make it easy for yourself and only engage in Self comparison when you are assessing your progress. By doing this you will make it easier to keep at it when the going gets tough and your competence will grow day by day. 1 Spend time each ...
Views: 693 - How To Beat Procrastination At Work - by Submitted on Nov 06, 2007 from Peter MurphyIn order to beat procrastination at work, one must stay motivated at all times. Procrastination is the habit of postponing tasks. Are you the type of person that procrastinates regularly? Maybe you are having a hard time finding interest with your work. Maybe you are having difficulty managing ...
Views: 692 - 3 Great Ways To Stay Motivated At Work - by Submitted on Jan 16, 2008 from Peter MurphyStaying motivated at work is easier than you think when you know what to do. 1. Decide What You Must Achieve Today. It is easy to get caught up with non-urgent matters that you can either ignore completely or do at a later date. All that clutter leaves you confused about what to do so you end ...
Views: 690 - First Impressions - Turn Fear Into Courage - by Submitted on Jan 24, 2008 from Peter MurphyThe top business people all say the same thing – first impressions count. Sounds easy, and it is easy for those few who can start a conversation with just about anyone but how many people do you know who are like that? On the other hand when you’re shy it’s easy to avoid other ...
Views: 689 - Social Skills Assessment - The Key To A Happier Social Life - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2008 from Peter MurphyOne way of assessing your social skills is to come up with a list of activities that are believed to be useful in gaining social acceptance. Engaging in these activities may improve your social skills if you happen to put them into practice right now. The following activities can help a person ...
Views: 689 - Daily Motivation Secrets That Really Work - by Submitted on Jan 25, 2008 from Peter MurphyEveryday life can be frustrating in today's society. It is becoming more and more difficult for people to find happiness in the world we live in today. But it is important to try to stay positive and obtain daily motivation. One reason is that it spreads onto others around us. If one person in ...
Views: 687 - Secrets To Talking To People For Fun And Friendship - by Submitted on Dec 05, 2007 from Peter MurphyTalking to people doesn’t need to be frightening. Making conversation can and should be relaxed and fun, especially in the informal conversations on which this article focuses. There are three main reasons to engage in informal conversation like you would do with your friends or people ...
Views: 684 - 3 Clever Ways To Stop Procrastinating - by Submitted on Jan 23, 2008 from Peter MurphyStopping procrastination can be challenging, especially since you can't put it off until tomorrow! Most people who procrastinate did not do so overnight. Like any other bad habit, procrastination starts small and builds itself up. Returning to a more dependable lifestyle however is possible. ...
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