INSIDE/NAKED RELATIONSHIPS
BY JAN DENISE
RELEASE: FRIDAY, JULY 27, 2007
Nobody Is (SET ITAL) Just (END ITAL) A Wife
"Well, I'm just a wife," she said, with apology in her voice.
A wife, according to Webster, is: A female partner in a marriage.
That may not sound like a full-time job, but ... Views: 1231
Off to Mom’s … to see how enlightened we really are
In keeping with this month’s travel theme and Mother’s Day, why not plan a visit to Mom’s? If you have a whole litany of excuses, maybe I can help.
Let’s start by acknowledging that our deepest wounds are often created when we’re still ... Views: 1447
INSIDE/NAKED RELATIONSHIPS
BY JAN DENISE
RELEASE: FRIDAY, JULY 6, 2007
Perfect Love Has 20-20
From a reader:
(SET ITAL) I think he loves me -- he can't keep his hands off me. The problem is: I'm not sure he knows me. We jumped into an all-consuming intimate relationship … and now that I ... Views: 872
INSIDE/NAKED RELATIONSHIPS
BY JAN DENISE
RELEASE: FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 7, 2007
Put Heart -- Not Habit -- In Pet Names
"What do you think about guys who call everybody 'honey'?" asks a reader.
The habit reminds me of two stuffed dice hanging from a rearview mirror -- or a waitress apron tied ... Views: 815
The heart-wrenching pain of a breakup can be too severe to deny. But we don't have to get pushed out the door to feel the pain of rejection.
Eons ago our survival depended on being sensitive to rejection -- without the protection of the clan, we were dead meat. Now, what used to save our hides ... Views: 980
Relationships Cycle Predictably
by Jan Denise
Whether you dread or cheer summer’s end, autumn arrives. So, too, each season of your relationship takes a turn, repeating a cycle as predictable as spring, summer, fall, and winter.
Why not transition through the seasons with your eyes ... Views: 1458
INSIDE/NAKED RELATIONSHIPS
BY JAN DENISE
RELEASE: FRIDAY, OCTOBER 12, 2007
Reverence Trumps Celibacy, Marital Status
For many of us, a vow of celibacy -- a promise not to enter into marriage or engage in sexual intercourse -- is unfathomable.
During the Protestant Reformation led by ... Views: 799
INSIDE/NAKED RELATIONSHIPS
BY JAN DENISE
RELEASE: FRIDAY, MAY 16, 2008
Stop Looking to Find Somebody
If you're single and looking for a partner or just a date, you've probably felt impatient, maybe downright frustrated.
I hear from a lot of lonely people who want to know how to find ... Views: 1143
Success Waits Behind the Veil of Failure
in relationships and in life
Just as Valentine’s Day points to everybody else getting roses and chocolates and diamonds, it can point to your own relationship blunders. Before you give yourself a failing grade, though, consider the bell curve. How ... Views: 1292
INSIDE/NAKED RELATIONSHIPS
BY JAN DENISE
RELEASE: FRIDAY, AUGUST 31, 2007
The Love Of My Life
(SET ITAL) This week's column is written by a special guest, my husband Horace Osborne Ferguson, III, DVM. If you're a regular reader, you know him as Sam. (END ITAL)
Wow, did I ever hit the ... Views: 1115
It's tough enough to assume responsibility for our actions and words. Should we, can we, also be responsible for our thoughts and intentions? Those are private, right? Yours alone?
Apparently not.
According to Marilyn Schlitz, president of the Institute of Noetic Sciences, we're ... Views: 1134
INSIDE/NAKED RELATIONSHIPS
BY JAN DENISE
RELEASE: FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 23, 2007
Trust Senses, Not Imagination
With personal online encounters, our five senses get fed by our imaginations!
We can't smell or touch or taste or hear the would-be object of our affections. We can't (SET ITAL) ... Views: 1006
INSIDE/NAKED RELATIONSHIPS
BY JAN DENISE
RELEASE: FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 21, 2007
What You See Is What You Get!
One day everything seems perfect. Another day (maybe the very next day) nothing seems remotely perfect. What happened? The company downsized, he screwed up again, she dumped you, one ... Views: 747
INSIDE/NAKED RELATIONSHIPS
BY JAN DENISE
RELEASE: FRIDAY, JULY 20, 2007
You Are Somebody's "10"
In desperate moments, we just want somebody to have dinner with … but in our heart of hearts, we want to be cherished. We want to be completely known and loved by somebody who thinks we're ... Views: 783
INSIDE RELATIONSHIPS
BY JAN DENISE
RELEASE: FRIDAY, MARCH 20, 2009
You Choose: Honored Guest or Guest Of?
Especially if the economy has you in crisis mode, you might be looking for a savior, somebody who has everything and wants to share. After all, you have a lot to contribute, albeit ... Views: 1213
INSIDE/NAKED RELATIONSHIPS
BY JAN DENISE
RELEASE: FRIDAY, OCTOBER 5, 2007
You Have More Than A Talking Part
Some of us love to talk -- or give directives. And when we've done what we love to do, we leave the ball in our partner's court!
Recently, I talked to Sam about spending more ... Views: 741
Your chance to bounce higher
No matter who you are, you feel less comfortable financially than you did a couple years ago. And particularly if that's the only comfort you knew, you're hurting. The good news is that you also feel less complacent!
If you haven't gotten more creative and ... Views: 1323